Do You Invest in Yourself To Become A Dynamic Successful Man?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever heard someone tell you that a car is a bad investment? 

I used to hear this all the time... and I finally figured out why it bugged me so much. 

Because they are not thinking about it the right way... they think that an..."investment"... must pay you money back... by that definition... they are right... a car is a crappy investment as It loses 20% of its value the second you drive it off the car lot... it has lost half its value in the first 3 years.

And mostly you do not buy cars to sell them... you buy cars to DRIVE them... some things pay us back in dividends that you cannot equate to money... like the headline in the Introduction to this site states.....

"Be the trouble-making cheerleader of the boot-strappers, the over-comers, the kool-aid rejecters, the post baby body-reclaimers, the healthy eaters and movers, the strong, powerful, creative and healthy independent Men and Women of this World. Stand up and be counted as a "Dynamic Man " and a "Dynamic Woman"  in your life & love and of this world."

One of the things I learned a long time ago is that value... REAL VALUE is not really quantified by a price tag... think about it... the things in life that you buy can all be replaced... and the things you were given for FREE...  your mind... your health... your body... your life... those things cannot be replaced... they are beyond value. 

Because that understanding allowed me to make another valuable association in my mind... and that was that any money I spent that improved ME was the best investment in the world... I will get back to this in a minute...
Have you ever spent money on a woman and thought...

"Man, this sucks! I'm spending all this dough to impress her, and I BETTER get something out of it in the end."

Funny enough.... when you project that attitude, the woman usually picks up on this... and pulls away... it becomes one of those self-fulfilling prophecies... and when I look at taking a woman out to eat... something I only do if she is really deserving... and I feel we need to share that experience... I do not look at it as an..."I provide... you provide"... situation.

That kind of... "thinking"... sets you both up for failure... I look at paying for this shared experience as an investment in ME first.... I get fun out of it and then my fun will help me give back to her in the form of a better time than she is probably ever experienced in her life.

I do not say that from ego... I say that from a sincere knowing that what I have got is worth it to a woman... it is like the feeling you are selling someone a really fantastic house... and they do not even realize yet what a deal it is... or all the wonderful features of it... like the garden... the pool... the huge wine cellar... the flower garden... the view... because when you know you have got the value... then you take on a different posture... this is true with real life... as well as other areas like... "attraction"... and women.

When I talk to people I know about personal development.. and attraction... I inevitably get into my evangelism mode about building a Great Life for yourself... etc... ect... anyone that knows me knows that I swear that when you take control... and be responsible for your own life... how everything changes... and the benefits those changes bring! 

When I get talking people start to pick up on my conviction.. passion... and they get involved in the process that I am laying out for them... the point is that I know the value of... "investing" yourself... and I dedicated enough to sell it even when I do not see a penny of profit from it. 

That is communicating value to a woman... and others... that you know the value of yourself.

Now... back to the association I was talking about before... one thing I realized was that investing in me was the best thing I could do... the more I improved myself... the better my life got. 

The sad fact is that most men will spend more time memorizing useless sports statistics to impress their males friends than they will learning a few priceless strategies that will get them the success they always wanted with women... and in building a Great Life for themselves.

Now let me ask you some questions...
How have you invested in yourself in the last year? 

Have you bought any books or programs on personal-development?

Have you learned any new skills?

Have you worked on any parts of your personality to get rid of some rough edges?

Have you taken a class on a new topic?

Have you GROWN as a human being?

These are important questions... ones that you often neglect to think about... mostly because you let the urgent things take over your life... and they crowd out the important things that you never get to do.

A famous author has a great analogy for this:...

"If you think of the important things in your life as big rocks, and the small stuff as pebbles and sand, you can fit the most in a jar by putting the big rocks in first. The small stuff will just fill in the gaps when you pour it in afterwards."

Because if you pour the sand in first... there is not enough room for the big rocks... I want to motivate you to get to work on those big rocks... two of the biggest rocks you can tackle is your “self-confidence"... and... "self-esteem”... these are the two large powers that will shape your life... and your success.

I went through this a long time ago when I was working to improve my personal... and skills and develop my life... what I found was that women... and other people were more attracted to me when I was caught up in developing my own life... and growing myself. 

The more I chased my own passions... the more these women... and others wanted to be a part of my world... I also found out hundreds of secrets of sub-communication that can help you get what you want in your life.... I discovered hundreds more methods on how to make both women... and men really appreciate you... developed some of my own.

I have traced my path in the personal-development of my life... both through being a psycodynamic coach... and counsellor psychologist for developing a... “dynamic lifestyle”... even if you do not choose this area of learning about women... and attraction to improve in... I cannot imagine why you would not... I urge you to work on..."something"... to improve yourself. 

A … Dynamic Man... is always improving himself... always trying to get better at everything he does... to be at the... "top"... of his game... the simple fact is that you really have nothing else of value to do in this world except to improve yourself ... or just watch others pass you by... acquire... and achieve what you can only dream about.

Now what would happen if you spend your time investing in yourself? 

In the kind of lifestyle you want?

In your own happiness?

Imagine your lifestyle...

And that you have the... "control"... over the focus of your life

Because Gentlemen... if you can..."imagine"... your lifestyle you can make that lifestyle REAL!

I have a simple little saying...

"You want to be the... "Best"... you have to... "Invest"... to be the BEST!

You have the power to be a Dynamic Lifer!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce


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