"When one door of happiness closes another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us." ~ Helen Keller

What if I told you that you have the ability to decide if you are happy or not?

You would probably say that I am crazy: 

1. I am not crazy 

And 

2. Happiness is a choice.

You cannot depend on someone else to make you happy. 

That is a lesson I have learned time and time in my  own life. 

I realized tha...

Why do so many people struggle to 'ever' get what they want?

And why do a few people seem to have some kind of magical power, luck or the MIDAS TOUCH?

Well, it has to do what they focus on.

Typically, people use one of two main strategies and motivations to 'make things happen.'

Both are important and necessary but still limiting.

Let us discuss these two 'older' and LESS EFFECTIVE METHODS for change first, then we will look at...

Back in the years,when I was studying for My Youth work degree, one of the years a policy of prohibition was introduced. 

No alcohol was going to be allowed on campus. 

The reason behind the decision was that a number of students were having problems with alcohol. 

They could not resist the temptation to drink it in excessive amounts. 

The policy was not meant to punish students from enjoying a beer or a g...

If your own parent rejects you, then WHO THE HELL WOULD LOVE YOU or accept you? 

At least that's what goes on in the nonconscious part of the mind.... As a child, you learned to react when you felt the pain of rejection (even not getting what you needed or wanted right away was a type of rejection for you).

Long a...