Understand Yourself Your Masculinity And Your Value To Women 

By Ange Fonce

She stood by the sink... struggling with a jam jar. 

I noticed... walked over... took it gently from her hands and with a soft... sharp pulse... loosened the top... and for this... she kissed me.

 Women speak emotionally with their bodies better than we men do... and what she was saying was...

“I  am glad you’re here.” 

“I am glad you are a man.” 

”I love men” 

”I feel taken care of.” 

”I feel complemented and completed and safe.”

To us... doltish men that we are... it was just a stupid jar...  yet it is in the smallest gestures of service that we often make our masculine value felt.

Whenever I am asked to open a jar... carry a heavy box or kill a mosquito... I marvel at the subtle dynamics that go on between the masculine and feminine.

No matter how competent... strong or professional a woman may be... there is always a subtle sexual gratitude that happens in these moments... as if for a moment... we are quietly returned to our core sexual essences.

Male... Female... Masculine... Feminine.

Now... here is where it gets fun and more interesting... women like to joke about it... that this exactly what men are good for... opening, carrying and killing.

So... recently I found myself wrapping my arms around a woman who said this... looking into her eyes and re framing her comment...

”That’s right... I’m here to open your life to new experiences... I’m here to carry your burdens when you need a strong shoulder... and I’m here to help you kill your little self so you can live as the fullest... most expansive and loving self possible.”

Her whole body relaxed into mine as she seemed to breathe out a lifetime of burden.

“I like that.” 

She cooed... and you will not be surprised here... I liked THAT too.

As a Man... despite all the negativity that is expressed about being "masculine" these days.

Raise your expectations of the gifts you bring women... and they will see you with a more deeply appreciative eye.

We... as Masculine Men ARE here to serve the feminine open... to allow them to open into the love that they really are... providing them a rock of trust ability and steadiness... we allow them to open into new adventures by being a guide... by living boldly and by making the world safe before them.

We carry their burdens... which may seem so heavy to them... and so momentary and light to us... especially when they feel socially slighted by another or unloved in some way... when we are doing our job right... we bring them back to their core worth.

And we do kill.

Yes, mosquitoes... and when we are living with enough breadth and perspective and depth... if we are bigger than the moment’s concerns... bigger than the immediate circumstance... bigger than our own fears... and momentary needs... when we kill the smallness in ourselves... we give life to the breadth and joy of our women.

Understand Yourself... Your Masculinity... Your Value To Women.

So pay attention to the subtle ways that women value you... the small ways in which you are appreciated may be pointers to your own greatest gifts to women and to the world.

Remember this...

No matter what anyone says to you... being a Masculine Man is a GOOD thing... it is NOTHING to be ashamed of.
Women do want heroes... women want men who are leaders... who make things happen... women want Masculine Men.

I have discovered something over the years... there are basically two kinds of women...

  1) The ones who are attracted to "Masculine Qualities."

  2) The women you do NOT want in your life.

That is pretty much it.

If a woman cannot appreciate you as a masculine MAN... she will be big trouble for you later on.

And these women are in a 90/10 ratio out there... only about 10% are the ones you need to avoid... the sad thing is that when a man is not fully a MAN... he can take one of the women in the 90% that is attracted to an Masculine Man and he winds up turning her into a bitter woman.

He can make a quality woman so frustrated and unhappy that she simply turns into the kind of woman he does not want.

It took me years to discover the essential ingredients of being a REAL Masculine Male with women... and when I found the optimum mix... it was like discovering the winning recipe of ingredients.

In fact... when you understand how to avoid the behaviours that signal women the wrong way... and you regain control... you can create a "confident presence" where everything comes together and "clicks" in the right way and at the right time.

So What Does It Mean To Be A Man Who Is Masculine?

You might find that you do not have a good answer for that question... I did not know what it meant for years and years of my life. 

I thought I did... after watching a ton of James Bond movies and sports on TV... and I really only had a superficial understanding of what it meant to be a Masculine Man. 

James Bond Is Not Enough.

Especially today... in a world that is much more focused on women in many ways... in the past for thousands and thousands of years... boys had a definite "coming of age" or "rite of passage" to becoming a mature man... they were literally put through painful ceremonies to help them "graduate" from being a boy into being a man... sometimes they were scarred... or beaten... or forced to endure days alone in the wilderness fighting to survive... and you do not have to go through all that now.

Yet many men today feel this part of their lives is missing... like their "male power" has been amputated... and most men do not even know what it is because we did not have any examples of how to become "initiated" into being men.

In the early part of the 1900s... it meant going to war and putting your life on the line for your country... and somewhere after the fighting was over... we changed and forgot the way we became men... dad went to work in the factory or the corporation... leaving us at home with mum all day... instead of out in the fields or working and learning with him what it was to be a "man."

Then we went to school and learned mostly from women how to behave... we were taught to please the teacher... who are mostly women... and the only place we were allowed to be "men" was in "sports" of some kind.

That was one of the few places where we could play rough with each other... and even that now... is being curtailed in so many ways... so now we are staying boys a lot longer than we should... and we are not learning what it is that women are really attracted to... the MANLY traits... your Masculinity. 

A Unique Approach Makes It Easy To Find Your Masculine Confidence.

You see... when you have this masculine edge to your life... you will have access to the power source that enables you to do whatever you want to do.

When you are tapped into your masculinity you will...

Know how to communicate to women on a GUT level that you are a MAN... and she should both desire you and respect you.

Know how to be REAL and genuine with a woman...be "authentic" and conduct yourself with "integrity" without fear that you are going to be "caught" or slip up and ruin it with her.

Know the answers to the "small stuff" in "the mating game" that seems to trip you up all the time... like when to call... how many times to call... and what to say when you finally talk to her.

Know how to avoid feeling hurt or shamed by your interactions with women and turn every conversation into powerful... no apology... confident banter.

You will be able to finally let go of the "loser boy" attitude that has been dogging you for years... killing attraction with women and making you settle for less than you deserve.

Feel like you have conquered your fears and doubts about yourself and feel and experience your value to women.

Feel like you can walk up to anyone and talk to them without the constant nagging fear of rejection and failure.

Get rid of your frustration that eats away at your confidence and your self esteem.

Stop feeling needy and dependent on other people's approval for your self worth... especially women.

Stop feeling angry and helpless and lost... unable to control your own life.

Break out of the trap that is holding you in the clutches of confusion and insecurity.

Stop feeling like you are letting yourself and women down when you cannot get up the courage you need.

Stop feeling like the little boy that is nervous... insecure... and inadequate about himself.

No more panic, worry or feeling powerless.

How To Be The Masculine Man  And Let Out The REAL Man Inside You.

If you were like me at this stage in your life... you sensed that there was something not quite right with your life.

You were like Neo in the "Matrix" knowing that something was not quite right... that there was something that you needed to find to complete the picture.. and there is also this sense that whatever this thing is that you are missing... if you get it you will have a chance to get what all the advertisements and images of men promise us on TV and in the movies...

The success... the wealth and prosperity... the happiness and fulfilment... and... probably most important... enjoying successful relationships with women.

There IS a common thread here.

You see... it is not that the rich guys get women because they have money... yes... some women are predators and gold diggers... yet that is not the source of the appeal... no no no.

They earned the “success” because these men had become initiated... fully grown MEN with an understanding of how to fill in that aching void inside that leaves most other men feeling depressed... drained of energy... and emasculated... in other words, these men finally passed their own inner challenges and had a rite of passage to take them from extended boyhood to MASCULINE Manhood.

It is Time To Take The Red Pill.

Yes... I realize it is easy to wear out that Matrix metaphor... and it has been well done by now... and I want you to realize that... just like Neo did in the movie... you can make a decision that will literally change the course of your life forever... someone famous once said that it is in the moments of decision that our destiny is forged... in fact the opportunity to seize that opportunity when it comes along is one of the skills a man MUST have to get a woman to feel deep emotional attraction for him.

Now do not get me wrong here I love and adore women... yet when a woman no longer respects YOU!

You are on the fast track out of the door and she will be sleeping and having sex with another guy... if she is not already... and RESPECT starts with YOU!

If You do not respect YOURSELF as a MAN!

Your not AUTHENTIC as a MAN!

Your not PASSIONATE in YOUR Masculine Energy as a MAN!

Then WHY should any woman respect and TRUST YOU?

And consider this...

What about all the young men and young boys growing up now... how many are without a POSITIVE MALE MASCULINE ROLE MODEL in their lives.

A woman no matter how great a mother she maybe is not a MAN!

She cannot teach and pass on the wisdom of how to be a MAN!

So YES... the world is changing fast... woman are taking their power and rightly so.

And this is not to be seen as a problem.

It is a CREATIVE opportunity for us MEN to redefine ourselves in our MASCULINE POWER and really know how to "ravish" and "relate" to the feminine energy in women.

Our Son's will thank us for it.

As always... leave a man or woman all the better for knowing you.

Average men and women know only the rules.

Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

They are truly Passionate and DYNAMIC Lovers!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce


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Here is the question...

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