Threesomes and Satisfying Multiple Women - Polyamory Taboo's Challenged! Part 2

There is a "magic phrase" that is probably responsible for me having more sex with more women than anything else that I have ever said while dating and seducing a new partner.

As I sit here thinking about it right now as I am writing this article, I can honestly say that of all the times I have ever said it, I can only think of ONE woman who EVER said "no" when I busted out this line.

I'm sure I didn't say it exactly the same way every time, but it was important to me to make it very CLEAR, and every element to the phrase was always present... not because I knew it would get a woman into bed, but because it was important to me to really make sure that I was communicating exactly right and being "authentic" with the woman I am dating and seducing.

It went like this:

"Look, before we go any further, I think it's important that you know that I am dating other women right now... and before you and I get into a sexual relationship, you need to understand that I am currently in other sexual relationships.  Is this okay with you because I really, really like you, and if you decide you can't continue dating me under these conditions I'm really, really going to miss you and I will understand.  So it's up to you: We can just be friends and you can leave now, but I really would like you to stay and we can go deeper and be intimate with each other."

I think the reason WHY this worked so well is worth considering.

I mean, I have said all sorts of other romantic things to women that were true for me in the moment... that did NOT result in my having sex.

Why is it that this particular statement virtually always ended up with me in bed with the woman I said it to?

I assume it's unnecessary for me to mention this, but...I didn't just walk up to women on line at Starbucks and blurt this out!  Obviously things were growing hot and heavy between us and being authentic with her. I treated her with the respect she deserves. She has the "choice" to say yes or no.

And showing trust, respect and confidence in your authentic Masculinity as a MAN to a woman is powerfully attractive to her as a woman. Most men think that this kind of statement would lessen their chances of sharing sex with a woman...

Most men believe (incorrectly) that a woman needs to know that she is the only one you are having sex with, or that you are at least potentially interested in a long term commitment before she'll sleep with you.

And I'm telling you that the exact opposite is most definitely true. Women do "enjoy" and "love" sex too!

And when she "feels" sexual "attraction" and "trust" in you.

She will go for it!

I have  just revelled to you a very powerful aspect of Masculinity. That when you are Authentic, Honest and Respectful with a woman or women. You build authentic TRUST with her that allows her Femininity and Sexuality to open up to YOU!

So DON'T going using what I have shared with you to abuse, manipulate and deceive women like some low life half man.                                                                                         

 
Be REAL and AUTHENTIC with woman as a GENUINE MASCULINE MAN! 
 
And NO, I am NOT talking about ALL women here.  

This is a general case, and like all general cases, it's not true of every woman.

But the fact is, most women are far more concerned that you'll become a weird, jealous stalker if she sleeps with you, than that you'll never call her again.

And frankly, the fact that you are currently in relationship with other women suggests you might actually be okay at sex... at least less disappointing than the last guy.

Add to that that you have just demonstrated that you are the most honest, open, and authentic man she's met in the past year (or in her lifetime,) and she's suddenly got a lot of very good reasons to sleep with you.

Nothing in my experience will get you more (and more openly honest, and satisfying) sex than dating and sexing multiple women.

If you are saving yourself for marriage or already in a committed relationship, then this entire article is completely irrelevant to you. Not unless you are in an "open relationship."

But if you are single, I strongly recommend that you consider upgrading to this lifestyle at least temporarily so that you can gain more sexual and emotional experience in being honest and authentic with your sexual partners...

ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S UNCOMFORTABLE TO TELL THE TRUTH.

I have been doing a series long and very detailed audio interviews with a dating coach Cassino Serpico Guillermo. And one of these interview sessions we discussed the psychology, emotions, and sexual considerations around hooking up with multiple women getting them into bed with you.

A lot of men fantasize about having 3 some's (or more-some's), but don't realize how EASY it is to make it happen.

The vast majority of women (though certainly not ALL women) at least fantasize about being with a woman, being with a man and another woman at the same time or being with two men or more at the same time.

There are experts who claim that ALL women are bisexual to some degree but I strongly disagree with that assertion.  It's just that it's true for MOST women, that they are "bi-curious" and so it's easy to make that error.

Many of those women who are at least "bi-curious" will repress those feelings for one reason or another, and may not ever fantasize about being with another woman (until a skilled lover coaxes it out of her). Which is something I have found in many of the girlfriends I have had.



Because of this tendency towards curiosity around being with another woman sexuality, threesomes with 2 women are completely different in character from threesomes with 2 men.

Men are much more likely to be either "gay" or "straight," and true bisexuality is much more uncommon. But there are men who are "bi-curious" as well. 

As a result, threesomes with 2 men are often competitive, emotionally empty, and frequently lead to one or more of the people involved feeling badly about the experience afterwards. As many women have experienced sex with two men have shared with me. Apart from one women who had shared sex with two bisexual men and shared her feelings with me "the sex was beautiful and mind blowing!"

Obviously it can be a highly erotic fantasy for some men or women, and it certainly can go well for all involved, but there is plenty of opportunity for humiliation, jealousy,and other negative emotions to crop up.

In pornography, the distinction between 2 women or 2 men in a threesome is not apparent because it's anonymous and staged in both cases.

But in reality the experience with 2 women is often characterized by a sense of sharing and common purpose.  

There is usually a sense of deep sweetness around the way that women will emotionally support each other and actively enjoy each other's sexual pleasure in the context of a threesome.  

Most often, if one of the people involved begin to experience a negative emotion or become insecure, the other two will immediately support, encourage, and help them to feel good again.

Often when that situation arises and then resolves in a loving and mutually supportive way, it turns out to be the very best part of the experience... and yet you will never see it in porn, and you will never even find out about how beautiful that experience can be without experiencing it for yourself.



For a man, the experience of being in an open, loving, sharing, honest and intimate threesome with two women can be life changing... and it often turns out to be far better than just the erotic fantasy that he was expecting.

As part of my work I do to teach men how to be authentic and to properly and honestly seduce women for threesomes (which is a different, but equally beautiful dance of seduction than you would learn for romancing just one woman.) My real purpose though is educating both men and women in building deep loving intimacy in one-on-one relationships.

I am so grateful that my friend Cassino Serpico Guillermo who has giving me the opportunity to talk about "dating and sexing multiple women in relationships." Every tip, technique, strategy, mindset, and emotional consideration that I have learned and experienced in this area for myself. Professionally and personally I have shared in these audio interviews.

Threesomes can be an adolescent fantasy, or they can be a beautiful, honest and loving experience for you and your partners.

Knowing the right way to talk about the subject with a partner or lover and how to make it super-comfortable and fun for her is a great skill for any man to understand.

Check out Cassino's Obsession Systems to learn much more on the subject. His website is a "wealth of knowledge" on the subject of personal development, dating and seduction. We have become good friends and he is the real deal in his work of educating men to experience great relationships with women. He has conducted interviews with some of the very best teachers in the world on this and other subjects. Doctor Kevin Hogan who himself is a "World Class Coach" is amongst his many "interviews."  Kevin is absolutely encyclopedic on the subject of Human Behaviour and relationships and I highly recommend you visit his website too. kevinhogan.com

It's a GIANT lesson in life that the more authentic you are about yourself and what you REALLY want, the more everything seems to work out better than you ever thought it would.

And remember....always leave a man or a woman all the better for knowing you. Average men and women know only the rules. Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

For Love, Passion and Intimacy.......

Catch you later

Ange Fonce

FURTHER READING

The "Taboo" OF Polyamory And Sexing Multiple Women - Part 1

What makes a partner great in bed? Here is a very SIMPLE tip to Turbo Charge your Sexing!

Find Her Orgasm Blueprint. Sex Tips For Men to Give Your Woman Explosive Pleasure!

Building And Sharing "Intimacy" with a "lover". Is saying a lot more than “I Love You”

"How To Blow A Woman's Mind The First Night You Have Sex With Her!"


 
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