The Taboo OF Polyamory And Sexing Multiple Women Part 1

By Ange Fonce

It seems that in this modern age more and more couples are having open relationships.

There are a lot of definitions of polyamory out there and I will start by talking about courting multiple women.

Most men like the idea of having multiple sexing partners either individually or in the same bed yet it appears to me that the vast majority of them have no idea how to make it happen in the right way.

I define the right way as being honest... authentic and enjoyable... the wrong way is lying to women about seeing other women which really just messes up her emotions and your calendar or cheating which usually involves some random hook up with a woman less attractive than your lover just for the sake of variety and male ego and at the expense of breaking your word to someone you care about.

Here is some big reasons why having multiple simultaneous sexing partners in your life might be good for you...

1... More Sexing And More Sexual Variety.

This hardly bears mentioning because it is the most obvious reason you would have 3...4 or 5 woman friends at a time.  

Most men LOVE at least the fantasy of having several hot women they could text up to come over for seeing and even better the idea that 2 or more of them might join him at the same time.

Is it possible that you could do this in an open... honest and authentic way that the women in your life would enjoy as much as you do?  

2... More Freedom And Ease In Your Relationships.

This is a big one.  

When you have multiple woman friends who know about each other it gives you more power in each relationship...  you do not fear loss or the idea that she will leave you as much...

And what that power DOES for you as a man is make you FAR MORE COMFORTABLE to actually just be yourself... you stop trying to do things just to cater to what you THINK she wants which most women despise... the result is that you actually behave in a way that is more authentic and less insecure and needy and FAR MORE ATTRACTIVE to each of your woman friends.  

Not only does this create some very authentic and beautiful relationships with the women you are courting and it also teaches you important lessons as a man that you might later take with you into a committed intimate relationship.

3... Learning About Women.

Courting multiple women is the best opportunity you will have to really understand women... sexually... psychologically and emotionally... the first thing you will learn that will probably surprise you is that THE VAST MAJORITY of women are very comfortable in relationship with a man who is OPEN about the fact that he is having sexing relationships with other women.

This will force you to confront the fact that the discomfort your past girlfriends had with you EVEN LOOKING at other women must have been at least co created by... YOU.


4... Less Jealousy And Insecurity In Both Directions.

Once it is out in the open everything is easier...  shame feeds on secrecy...  when you are open with your partner... there is nothing to hide... there is no shame.

This will allow you to explore sexing and emotions in a new and more authentic way than you ever have in the past.

5... Higher Quality Women In Your life.

The above 4 factors will make you significantly more attractive to women in general... you feel more confident and masculine around increasingly attractive women.  

And the result is that you will find yourself with a much better selection of women... this may or may not be instrumental in you ultimately finding the kind of women you do want to build a intimate relationship with whether polyamorous or monogamous... these are certainly not the only reasons you may want to have multiple sexing partners in your life and they are 5 damn good ones.

If this sounds like an attractive fantasy and you can hardly get one woman to court you... much less imagine yourself with 5 woman friends who occasionally might even  want to hook up with you AT THE SAME TIME and you might be surprised to discover that it is EASIER than trying to give women the commitment that you think THEY want.

Personally I have shared many years of my life having multiple simultaneous sexing partners and I have reached a stage in my life where I have a strong preference for sharing intimacy with one woman and that preference is built on a clear understanding that I know how to enjoy the alternative and not based on jealousy... possessiveness or fear of loss.

I know this makes one on one intimacy far more pleasurable for me.... I get that it is a choice I make freely and it feeds my relationship with trust and ease.

I will make a bold statement and say that I think that most men could strongly benefit from spending a stage of their life being polyamorous and that they are far better able to be a great partner for the women or for the ultimate woman in their life if they have done so.

In Part 2 Threesomes and Satisfying Multiple Women Polyamory Taboos Challenged... I will go deeper into the sexing of these relationships.

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

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