The Science Of ATTRACTION "Oral Sex"
How to Smell and Taste Great For Your Lover!

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In this final article in this series of 3, I am going to go into the "taste" of sex.

Nothing is worse then when the passion is flowing and you go down of him to find yourself greeted by fungus covered, mouldy cheese smelling cock head.

And for a guy, when you go to visit her pussy to sample her taste you find your self catching a bad whiff of a dead fish.

One of the main causes of bad smelling and yukky tasting sex organs is not just bad personal hygiene.

It is often "thrush."

So what is "Thrush?"

Thrush is a yeast infection caused by a fungus called Candida albicans. 

The fungus candida albicans occurs naturally in your body, particularly in warm, moist areas, such as inside the mouth and around the genitals.

It does not usually cause problems because it is kept under control by your immune system (the body’s natural defence against illness and infection) and other types of bacteria in the body.

However, certain conditions can cause the fungus to multiply and lead to infection. 

You are more likely to be at risk of thrush if...

You have a weakened immune system.

Are obese, with large rolls of skin (an environment where fungi can often thrive) have type 1 diabetes or type 2 diabetes as the high levels of glucose associated with diabetes can encourage the fungus to breed; also, people with diabetes tend to sweat more creating a perfect breeding environment for the fungus

Both men and women can get thrush though it is more often associated with women.

The medical term for thrush is candidiasis.

What it looks like

In men it usually affects the head of the penis causing inflammation, a smelly lumpy discharge, and pain while passing urine. 

It can also affect the skin, known as candidal skin infection, and the inside of the mouth, known as oral thrush.

Most women experience occasional bouts of a common yeast infection known as vaginal thrush.

It causes itching, irritation and swelling of the vagina and surrounding area, sometimes with a creamy white cottage cheese-like discharge.

Vaginal thrush is fairly harmless but it can be uncomfortable and it can keep coming back, which is known as recurrent thrush.

Many women have Candida in their vagina without it causing any symptoms.

Hormones in vaginal secretions and "friendly" vaginal bacteria keep the fungus under control. 

Problems arise when the natural balance in the vagina is upset and Candida multiplies.

Vaginal thrush is not a sexually transmitted infection but it can sometimes be passed on during sex. 

So, if you have thrush it's best to avoid having sex until you've completed a course of treatment and the infection has cleared up.

Treating thrush

Thrush can usually be easily treated with either a tablet that you take by mouth or anti-thrush pessaries that you insert into your vagina. 

Anti-thrush creams are also available that you can apply to the skin around the vagina and to the penis to ease any soreness and itchiness.

Anti-thrush remedies are available either on prescription from your GP or over the counter from a pharmacy.

So go and get your self treatment if you suffer from thrush.

The taste of oral sex is the result of many factors, including:

Natural secretions

  • Lubrication expressed during sexual arousal
  • Sweat
  • The presence of bacterial or yeast (Which I covered above)
  • Oils or dirt on the skin
  • Topical products (Perfumed beauty and hygiene products which may smell nice but actually taste terrible)
In the same way that what you eat can affect the smell of your sweat, what you eat also has an effect on the taste of your natural secretions.

When considering oral sex, you may worry about the  taste of your partner’s body and fluids. 

As a result, you  may approach this act with trepidation which can easily be sensed by your partner.

Here are some ways to play with the taste of oral sex.


Condoms don’t just provide a barrier against STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases.) 

By blocking the exchange of fluids, they block out the  taste as well. 

The rubbery or lube taste may not be much better than that of your partner, so if you are using condoms for oral sex, a non-lubricated or flavoured condom may be a better choice. 

A dental dam offers the same dual benefits of taste/STD protection when performing oral sex on a woman.

Flavoured Lubricants

Almost every lubricant company is now offering its products in flavoured versions. 

Sometimes these lubricants have sugar in them, but more often they use artificial sweeteners. 

There’s no accounting for taste, and while some people find flavoured lubes a fun and pleasant alternative to the taste of oral sex, others find the faux flavours unpleasant or downright disgusting.


Food-play can also be a way to mask the taste. 

Food-play can also be a way to embrace the messiness of sex. 

Just be sure to clean up after ward. 

Have fun with food and sex, but keep these safety tips in mind...

Retaining anything sugary inside the vagina may risk a infection.

Remember that objects can easily be drawn up into the rectum, so choose carefully.

Play carefully with very hot or very cold foods, or anything that creates heat (e.g. tiger balm) or cold (e.g. menthol).

Eating Foods to Change the Taste

There are plenty of suggestions of foods you can eat to change the way you taste. 

Because taste is very much in the mouth of the beholder, you may find that pineapple, for example, has an impact, but that does not mean you will like it.

Bitter taste: coffee, alcohol, cigarettes, and marijuana. Of course there are other sexual reasons to avoid these, apart from the bitter taste.

Sharp taste: red meat, greasy foods, dairy products, chocolate, asparagus, broccoli, spinach, garlic, onions. 

Sweet taste: fruits (pineapple, mango, grapes, apple), parsley, celery, spearmint, peppermint, cinnamon, lemon, cardamom, wheat grass.

Vegetarians may have milder tasting semen, and people with diabetes may have sweeter tasting semen. 

Of course overall health is of much greater importance to sexual health than the taste of love juices, so any changes in diet need to be done thoughtfully and with health in mind. 

So don’t start downing sugar drinks and candy just to improve the taste of your juices. 

Improving overall nutrition will have a greater effect on how you taste as well as your over all health.

When you begin to give oral sex, it's important to start slowly.

Giving Her Oral Sex

Women often complain about men's ability to perform cunnilingus or, as it's more commonly called, oral sex.

The following oral sex techniques are a simple guide to teaching all of you the basics of "eating out."

If you are not much of a vaginal vacuum and are hesitant to try oral sex because of odours or whatever other preconceived notions that you have, ensuring that she has just come out of the shower will ease your tension and you will be able to let loose orally. 

There are men who stand their ground and absolutely refuse to perform oral sex.

I suggest you get over yourself, because your girl likes to receive oral sex as much as you consider a good blow job a part of foreplay.

Tongue to lips

Any licking, gentle sucking or all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with your flavour of the evening.

When you begin to give her oral sex, it's important to start slowly. 

Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. 

What she will not like is an overachiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue. 

Imagine that her entire vagina is an ice-cream cone with three scoops of your favourite flavour, (if you don't like ice cream, we're sure you can still appreciate the metaphor.) 

Use your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. 

Remember to chill out and relax; enjoy yourself and don't get tense.

Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. 

Once you have done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. 

And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side after ward.

Oral exploration

Were you aware that the tongue is the body's strongest muscle? 

Well imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were giving her oral sex. 

Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis, the sensations will drive her crazy.

Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, you can maneuver it in ways that a penis never could. 

So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? 

Thrust your tongue in and out of her vagina, and take a break from time to time to explore her insides.

While you are roaming around down there, vary your cadence and the firmness of your tongue. 

Use your firm, flexed tongue for pinpoint accuracy, such as when you circle the clitoris, and use a limber, flat tongue to cover more ground.

Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation, especially when it comes to oral sex.

However, don't apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off.

Start out gently and increase pressure and speed according to her body language.

Above all, have fun down there when you are giving her oral sex, and keep her on her toes (or off as the case may be).

Intense vaginal Orgasms

When you have her as hot as a lioness in heat, the following oral sex techniques are going to drive her wild. 

Once again, make sure to pay attention to her reactions and body language at all times.

With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by enveloping it with your mouth momentarily and releasing it. 

This will definitely have a positive effect on her entire body.

Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultaneously flick your tongue over and around it. 

You can perform this oral technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes.

If you combine these oral sex techniques with your fingers, she will have a mind-blowing orgasm virtually every time.

Use your fingers

There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multi talented man. 

And if you know how to use both your tongue and fingers at the same time, you will definitely become her oral sex king.

While you are French kissing her clitoris, use your finger to rub it at the same time. 

If you can rub your stomach and pat your head at the same time, you might want to suck on her clitoris, penetrate her vagina and thrust repeatedly with your fingers.

Be careful not to lose sight of what you are doing because the vagina is a very sensitive area and one wrong move can leave you hung out to dry. 

Keep up with what you are doing to her. 

Make sure that you're not thrusting your fingers too deep or too fast. 

You might also want to use your finger to rub her G-Spot; it's not that big of a mystery as it's a rough-feeling portion of flesh located on the anterior wall of the vagina.

The tongue's the one

Use your tongue freely and do not be afraid to venture into uncharted territory; the more relaxed you are, the more relaxed she will be. 

And perhaps you weren't aware of this, but if your woman is a gusher, the feeling of her ejaculate flowing all over your mouth is one of the world's greatest aphrodisiacs.

Personal Note. I love it when a woman squirts and I can drink her juices, it just ramps up the sexual energy all the more for me.

No one likes a slobbering idiot, so don't lose your mind while you're in her soaking pussy. 

Don't start drooling all over her vagina and don't do random things when you're giving her oral sex. 

Lastly, and I can't stress this enough...

Never bite any part of the vagina. (Unless you are really skilled in knowing how to nibble with your teeth, it is a real art.)

Not only can it cause physical harm, but you'll probably get thrown out of the bed.

Useful positions

In order to make your oral buffet as comfortable and as enjoyable as possible, have your lady lie on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. 

Get on your stomach between her legs and slide your arms under her legs. 

Your head ends up comfortably facing your oral objective. 

Wrap your arms around her legs and you'll have perfect access to her vagina, which allows you to manipulate it with your fingers.

You can also lie down in the same position and place both of your hands under her behind, elevating it so that it comes directly to your face. 

Although this requires a little more strength and requires both your hands, it can be very pleasurable for your woman.

Finally, you can bring her behind to the edge of the bed while you give her oral sex. 

Have her rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of the bed as well, and you'll have plenty of access while you kneel in front of her. 

This position will also give your fingers full access to her vagina.

There you have it - some of the basics to giving her oral sex.

Of course this is not a definitive oral sex guide, but it's a good place to start. 

There are plenty of other positions and techniques that you can try.

The ones here are just some of the more comfortable positions. 

Remember: Don't be shy, be gentle, take your time, experiment, and have fun.

How to give Him the best blow jobs.

To give the Latin name, fellatio, (aka blow job), is an oral sex act which involves stimulating the penis using the tongue, lips and mouth. 

Most men are fans of the blow job as it gives him intense sexual sensations and can bring him to a pretty intense orgasm. 

Most men love oral sex. Some men even prefer a blow job to full sex. 

So as oral sex is such a big deal for most guys, you ought to know how to do it well. 

Going down on, giving head, sucking off, mouth f69king, there are plenty of ways to describe the act of oral sex, but they are all talking about the same thing - sexual pleasure, on his erect cock, using your mouth.

How to give oral sex...

As a rule, oral sex should mimic the movements of full sex penetration and while it is called a blow job - there is no blowing involved! 

Don't make that rookie mistake!

Instead, blow like a pro and take his penis into your mouth, (with plenty of saliva) and suck up and down his shaft mimicking the thrusting motion of penetration, taking care not to graze his 'friend' with your teeth. 

Remember when it comes to sucking him off, teeth are never welcome. 

One thing men do not like is mechanical oral sex, performed without passion. (Big turn of for me in fact.)

He wants to know that you are enjoying it as much as him, so vary your rhythm, speed and intensity. 

Try gently caressing his testicles and then try upping the pace for a few strokes. 

Take him to the edge then bring him back from the brink to get him revved up and eager for more. 

Lick, suck and play with his erect penis using your tongue don't be shy to make eye contact too. 

To make sure you are hitting the spot, watch and listen to his reactions. 

Ask him what he likes. 

All men are different and he will be thrilled that you want to know exactly how to please him.

Giving good head is not rocket science, but there are some top tips, tried and tested, that will help make your next blow job one to remember. 

Read on for the secrets on how to be a 'head' mistress. 

Sensitive areas

To make him go weak at the knees, when giving him a blow job linger on the parts of his anatomy that are particularly sensitive - the tip of his penis, his testicles and his perineum - the secret spot between the testicles and the anus. 

He will also appreciate lots of attention around the shaft whether you use your mouth, tongue or hands, some good shaft action will get him closer to blowing his load.

Use your hands

If your partner's penis is on the large side you may find it more than a mouthful. 

Blow jobs can be difficult to perform on bigger penises but do not worry - you are not expected to be able to take it all the way down.

A simple trick to blow job success is to use your hand and your mouth together - which will feel good for any size of penis. 

Use an edible lubricant or your saliva to get things going moving and move your hand from the shaft (bottom) to the tip until he's really hard. 

Then add your mouth, taking him in as your hand moves up and down.

Involving other areas

Oral sex is about using your mouth to maximum effect, on his penis, and other areas too. 

Try gently (very gently!) sucking on his testicles one at a time. 

Lightly kiss his inner thighs. 

Lick his super sensitive perineum (along the line between his anus and testicles). 

All added together he will be totally under your control - a total turn on for you too!

Hot and cold

Blow jobs and oral sex should be fun so if you want to spice it up try playing with temperature and sensations.

Temperature play can be fun, so try taking a mouthful of warm tea, swill it around your mouth and swallow then take your man's penis into your mouth for 20 seconds and suck.

Then take a mouth full of cold water and do the same. 

The difference in hot and cold will feel fabulous for him.

You can also try champagne, fizzy water, mint, ice cubes and ice cream for extra unexpected sensations.

Get saucy

Some women cannot bare the taste of their man in their mouths which makes oral sex rather less enjoyable.

While performing a blow job you can add chocolate body paint, squirty cream or ice cream then spend time licking and sucking it off, or try a flavoured lubricant - Durex do a good selection.


Gagging during oral sex is not something to be embarrassed about. 

He will think you are gagging because he is so massive and if you actually tell him that then you will give him one enormous boost that he will love you for. 

If you find yourself gagging often then try using your hands as well.


When he starts to come, there is the question of whether to swallow or not. 

You don’t have to - each to their own. 

If you find the thought of sperm in your mouth revolting, don’t force yourself to swallow: it won’t make it any less pleasurable for him. 

Just make sure he withdraws in time.

Otherwise let him come in your mouth and then spit it out. 

Have tissues on hand to either spit into or mop up any spillage.

Some men like to come onto breasts, bellies or other parts of their partner but make sure you have agreed to this first - it's entirely your choice.

Of course you can swallow too - which brings us onto the subject of taste...

Ejaculation - improving the taste

Some foods and drinks do have an effect on the taste of your man's load.

Alcohol, caffeine, recreational drugs and nicotine all add a tang to your man's semen and make it taste like a bad night out. 

The day after a binge it is probably best to avoid blow jobs altogether!

Vegetarians have better tasting sperm but too much cauliflower, broccoli and asparagus can have a seriously negative impact - so get your man to limit these foods if you are planning to swallow after an oral sex session.

Some foods to avoid are obvious - garlic and onions make your breath smell - and add a funky taste to your man's semen too thanks to their high sulphur content.

If you want to sweeten his spunk try getting your man to eat plenty of fruits that are high in natural sugars - pineapple juice is a winner. 

Also sweet and fragrant foods and herbs like parsley, wheat grass, celery, cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint and lemon can all make for a sweet oral sex session.

Sexually transmitted diseases

When giving (or receiving) oral sex, be aware that hepatitis B, fungal infections and other STDs can be passed on via oral sex and blow jobs. 

The risk of HIV transmission from performing oral sex is low but it can still happen. 

If you are unsure of your partner's sexual past, use a condom. 

Mouth infections can also be transmitted via oral sex and remember never to give head when you have a cold sore unless you want to give him herpes!

Overcoming reservations

Some women are repulsed by oral sex and blow jobs and don’t like the idea of putting their partner’s penis in their mouth, it's not for everyone - the idea is to both get turned on from the experience. 

If it makes you feel more up for it try having a shower together as part of foreplay so that you can nice and clean before you get dirty.

If you still don’t feel comfortable with giving oral sex, remember there’s no point forcing yourself: he will feel it if you are not happy and won’t get as much pleasure out of it. 

The goal is shared pleasure and excitement. 

Talk to him about it and you might find you change your mind in time. 

Blow jobs should be a pleasure for both of you, knowing you are turning him on is a turn on in itself.

As ever...Always leave a man or a woman all the better for knowing you. 

Average men and women know only the rules. 

Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

For Love, Passion and Intimacy...

Ange Fonce


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