The Psychology Of Flirting With Women Seriously Look At Her Feet 

By Ange Fonce

Not long ago I was out walking in the local park on a sunny day when I come across an attractive women in her mid 40s who had the most amazing legs and I approached her and started up a conversation just general general chit chit stuff.

And then I picked my moment to comment that she had amazing feet she was wearing very light sandles.

My comment really took her by surprise which is exactly what I intendended it to do her reply was...

"What you like my feet?"

Which give me the opening I had been waiting for to start flirting with her.

Yep my reply come right out of the cheese box...

"You have really fine and elegant feet they are connected to the rest of you."

I was smiling as I said this and gazing into her eyes.

She looked at her feet admiring them saying 

"Wow no one has ever said that to me before."

And the rest is a very pleasent history.

Now if you know anything about flirting you will know that in the short moment I established an Emotional Anchor with this women which is being suggestive sexually without being overtly overpowering sexually like most men are or as other men do no sexual assertiveness at all.

Now as with many other aspects of life the psychology of flirting is fairly simple in theory and more complex in its application so let us examine the concepts underlying the psychology of flirting before looking at how they would apply in practice.
The psychology of flirting is logical and not rational.

We humans like to picture ourselves as being rational individuals who make thoughtful decisions by exercising our free will and that picture is not entirely true as science learns more about human nature we increasingly discover that a lot of our behaviours are at least partly hard wired into our nervous systems.

The simplest example would be eating. 

Are we all rational and thoughtful eaters?

Not based on the statistics for obesity. 

In a culture obsessed with being slender no one would choose to be obese other than guys training to become sumo wrestlers perhaps and yet if you head to the local mall this weekend, you will see a lot of very big people there.

How Nature shapes our appetites.

We eat because we get hungry and Nature has built in an appetite for food which is powerful enough that few people can resist it successfully for long as we are designed to want food regularly and to crave food if we have not eaten for some time.

We vary a bit from culture to culture in terms of what kind of food we crave and our appetite itself is built right into our nervous systems and it is quite compelling as that walk around your local mall will demonstrate.

Another obvious example would be having sex here also you can look to yourself for confirmation. 

Do you have an appetite for sexing... of course! 

That appetite is also built into your nervous system.

When you take a woman out on a first meet up listen to her talk and hang on her every word and spend a days salary to show her a good time is that because you truly enjoy spending money and listening to women talk? 

Probably not you are just working toward eventually you hope feeding your appetite for sexing.

Now let us look more specifically at women. 

In some ways they are similar to us men and in other ways they are quite different from us now let us home in on one of those special female traits... women have been designed to crave male attention.

Nature has designed woman to crave male attention and the more the better!

Women enjoy male attention not just when it leads to good things  like money... status or great sexing also male attention for its own sake that craving is hard wired into their nervous systems.

If we had to guess why women evolved that way the reason would be that they are likely to get the best possible price in this case meaning highest quality mate in an auction type negotiation and for there to be a bidding war to drive that price up it is necessary to have multiple bidders which in this case means many suitors and the more men there are competing for her at any one time the more likely it will be that the winning male will be of high quality. 

And to ensure that this happens often Nature has designed woman to crave male attention the more the better and therefore to actively solicit it.

Because that is why women are so selective they want the best possible genes from a male at the biological level.

The Psychology Of Flirting With A Woman Who Likes Many Suitors

Because Nature also designed women to be selective about which men they have sexing with. 

In that regard women can only have a small number of children in their lifetimes so it is important that each of those children be fathered by the best male she can attract at the time.

In other words she will get the best outcome if she can attract a very large number of eager contestants to compete vigorously for her and the fact that there will be so few winners will make it very difficult to attract lots of competing suitors. 

If you are one of those men why get into the race get your hopes up do all that work spend all that money and waste all that time if your opportunities of winning are likely to be slim to none?

That is how flirting evolved.

It is a way for women to solicit lots of male attention by implying that she is very interested in a particular man in that he has got a very strong opportunity of bedding her without her making any actual promises to that effect so that she can walk away with a clean conscience after each encounter when she leaves most of those men high and dry.

That is the psychology of flirting in a nutshell.

The simple truth is that there is no other way for women to get around that problem  of getting a large number of men to compete vigorously for her when in reality most have no chance of succeeding except by tricking men this way.

Now what would you do as a Man when you can flip it around the other way you are the one being pursued by the females!

If you would like to become the type of man that the opposite sex finds irresistible... you know the type of man that women talk about by saying things like... 

"I NEED to make that man mine!"

Even if they have not got a CLUE why they want you so bad and if you would like to become more popular and naturally irresistible then there is only one ultra fast and easy way to reach that particular goal work on your own body language.

See women tend to respond to their emotions instead of their conscious and intellectual mind and because of this body language would be incredibly powerful when put to use against the female instinct and their feelings and to sort things out and find out how your body can be used to bring about powerful and undeniable attraction in women keep reading.

With this guide you will get knowledge on how body language can give you confidence and make you attractive and sexy... in other words in turning yourself into the kind of man who can attract women naturally without even having to say a single thing and the best part is that you will be getting a type of cheat sheet that will help you decipher what women really think about you. 

In fact in just a few seconds of analysing you will be able to tell right away whether she finds you attractive or not.

You will even be able to change any repelled thoughts to completely attracted ones with only several basic adjustments that I am going to share with you later on.

Yes with nothing then several easy changes in your posture and body language you can put women at ease and awaken sexual attraction for you the easy and effective way yet you need to know what you are doing as these are not well known secrets and the majority of men out there do not know just how powerful they can actually be.

In fact the majority of guys out there mistakenly concentrate on the things that they SAY and become nervous before even going up to a woman and they practice all sorts of jokes and lines as well, hoping that they will be able to make these women laugh and relax … however and they tend to completely forget THE MOST VITAL THING the fact that women do not really care what you SAY.

Listen to me here women care more about how you ACT and LOOK.

Since you are reading this guide I am assuming that you have already digested that a woman usually decides whether she will ever have sex with a man within the first ten seconds of meeting him so if you fail to take full advantage of this opportunity you will need to work much more just to get on her good side again.

Use your head what words could you say in only ten seconds to convince a gorgeous girl to take off her clothes for you?

Here is the answer... NOTHING.

No woman will want to jump into the sack with you in just five seconds of talking that is unless you picked her up on a street corner while she was in tight black Spandex and you paid her a handsome wedge of your had earned money and well if you want that type of woman you will not have to read this article at all and be off with you.

However you could turn a female on subconsciously and have her her think...

"This man really makes me feel awesome. Wow I am not sure why really and I feel very good about myself around him and I also love how he moves maybe I should hang around for a bit longer to see if has good game to go with it... what is it with this man?"

The most EFFECTIVE way to seduce a woman is to do it SUGGESTIVELY and Seductively and trying to REASON a woman INTELLECTUALLY is a huge waste of time.

Imagine you are talking to a gorgeous woman and you are listening to what she is saying and watching how her lips move to shape certain words and how her features punctuate each sentence with a charming look and imagine you are getting distracted by the gestures that she makes and how she sits and how she drinks her dry Martini and you can still keep talking to her fluently and coherently without showing how much her looks actually intimidate you.

You are probably assuming that you know what she is saying from her WORDS... if you are then you are mistaken.

A lot of men seem to think that they can get what the opposite sex is trying to say from their WORDS and the truth is that only less than 20% of what women mean to say can actually be taken from their words.

The rest of what they mean to say has to be taken from female body language... 

1... how they position themselves 

2... what their postures are like.

3... how they use their bodies in general.

And know this... there is nothing more COVERT than seducing a woman with your MOVES and nothing else because she will be reading YOUR Body language

Which can either help you MAKE IT with women or completely break it and it can either make women laugh with you or laugh at you and it can make women get physical with you or have them run for the hills when you go for a kiss.

Even if you can TALK well that will not mean much if her entire subconscious tells her nothing is going to happen.

So if you want to set the frame of female opinions on those vital gut levels and learn how to look manly... sexy and confident then you can do so with ease now with what I am going to share with you next.


Do you ever wonder how other people see you?

It can be difficult to tell even if you think you know your own body extremely well... as a matter of fact the most that you can do to find out how others see you is by doing the following...

Ask some trusted friends for their honest opinions and find out what kind of vibes you give across whenever you speak to people and ask them to be SPECIFIC and if they say you seem unapproachable or nervous ask WHY they say that. 

Do you tap your feet a lot? 

Are you incapable of keeping eye contact?

Also look at yourself in a mirror and make sure you are socially engaged as you do this otherwise this will not help and make sure you watch how you talk and what gestures you make next time you are on the phone for example... 

Whether you are talking to a potential date or a friend it will definitely help and watch what you look like during your conversation. 

Do you have any unattractive or annoying habits? 

Maybe you obsessively play with your hair or constantly stand all slumped and nothing beats self observation to fix your images kinks remember that.

Have OPEN Body Language

Your body happens to work like a personal advertisement so you can put it to use to get women to crave for you yet if your advertisement turns her off you could be in trouble. 

All you have to do is make your body send out active invitations to women that you are interested in... this means making yourself seem approachable and attractive at the same time.

Want to know how to do this? 

Simply use body language that is completely OPEN.

This kind of body language can make people look more confident approachable and attractive by sending out clear messages that you have all of these traits and all before even saying a word.

To get a better idea on this kind of body language simply imagine what postures you would use whenever you feel sexy and happy... you might bring your shoulders back make your head stand erect and make your chin sit high up and you might avoid frowning or slumping and keep in mind that your face can look open too by keeping the eyebrows up... the eyes wide and a smile on your lips and the fact that women do not really care what you SAY women care more about how you ACT and LOOK.

To make your body look more open let your arms hang loose and make motions with your hands as you talk... also instead of fidgeting or fiddling just relax. 

While standing keep your legs apart a bit and put your weight on the entirety of your feet and never cross your ankles either and keep your heels several inches apart and make sure you always stand evenly and calmly and do not shift from one foot to the other or change your position too often.

As a side note crossing your ankles is the body language equivalent of biting your lip this will merely make you look fidgety and anxious so avoid doing it.

Identify Her Sexual Attraction Signals

If you want to learn whether she likes you search for these signs...

Sign 1... She makes eye contact smiles a bit and glances away right away repeatedly.

Sign 2... She lightly brushes her fingers across her collarbones and throat as this classic area happens to be for lovers only which means that only lovers can touch those areas so if she touches herself there a lot she is showing that she wants you to touch her there too.

Sign 3... She slightly arches her back and this simple female body language means "Look at me I want you!" Women use this particular posture whenever they want to look attractive because it particularly emphasizes on their best bits the butt and the breasts.

Sign 4... Anything that women do to draw more attention to their lips would be a sure "come hither" move and she may subtly apply some lip balm or obviously pout and finger her lips and sipping on a drink repeatedly or applying lipstick and even smoking can draw attention to female lips.

Sign 5... She plays with her hair and repeatedly fluffs it whenever you talk as she is making herself more attractive for you.

Feet Say More Than Words

It is easy to control how your face looks as you are able to give out expressions that are completely different to what you really feel and your face can help you give out convincing lies like smile for cameras and play poker yet the farther you are from your face the more difficult it will be to hide your overall body language.

This means that FEET can actually be the most trustworthy sexual attraction indicators in the entire body.

What is even better is that they are easy to analyse and in general people use feet to point at the things they really like... so if you think your conversation with somebody is going smoothly because they are smiling and laughing only to realize upon looking down that their feet are facing away from you and towards the next exit you will know you are not wanted.

People use their feet the same way they use signposts to point to things that they like and know this can be used to your full advantage in any courting and social situation.

Want to find out if a woman is really having fun talking to you? 

Then take a quick look at her feet and feet that are pointing towards you shows a distinct interest most of all if she is not moving around.

Conversely if she has a foot or both pointing away or even fidgets around with ankles crossing one another, this would be a sign of uncertainty, or a need to leave right away.

If you want to get the road ready for some successfully smooth flirting put your body to use and make any woman see you in a sexual manner in no time at all and you want to learn about how to trigger intense female attraction before even SAYING A WORD.

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

 Ange Fonce

1... A person with a penchant for Science... creativity... books... writing... communication... fitness... women... sexing... sexuality... human relationships... psychology... physiology and any other area involving heavy use of the Intellect.

2... A bright person and glamorously Intelligent!

3... Ange is an Author... Speaker and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Coach and Psychosexual Therapist... who works with those men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become creators of their own life... relationships and wealth! 

4... As ever always leave a man or a woman all the better for knowing you. 

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