Most men and women do not realise that woman have as much erectile tissue compared to men. 

The man's erectile tissue is the penis and this is obvious, especially fully aroused... the woman's erectile tissue is more hidden and just as important.

If you are a man that just focuses on the clitoris, you are missing out on playing fully with your woman's sexual arousal and the full power of her sexuality. 

When this interlocking erectile tissue area is fully aroused, a woman will enter amazing orgasmic states and discover their deep feminine wildness.

The scientific research shows that a woman takes about 20 minutes to have her sexual organs fully engorged and aroused with blood, and what this means is that many women never get to experience being fully aroused sexually. 

For a few fortunate women who are with an experienced lover they get to experience fully their multi orgasmic state.

Yet for many women... the average sex routine is over and dusted in 15 minutes and a lot less! 

That is one of the main reasons that a lot of woman are not multi orgasmic., and as a Man... I know us guys have to take responsibility for that... either through being selfish or a lack of understanding of female sexuality.

What a shame!

So one of the most important rules in lovemaking is to get a woman fully aroused before you touch the genitals. 

And this will usually take at least 20 minutes from a non aroused state... and you know what that is called... foreplay!

And that is just the "physical" foreplay... the mental and emotional foreplay starts long before that.

The Physiology Of The Clitoris

The clitoris structure actually has a head, a shaft and 2 legs that run down each side of the vulva... there is much more to the clitoris than most men and women realise.

What's Really Down There May Surprise You!

Being an educated person, you probably think you have a pretty good understanding of both male and female sexual organs... whichever version you happen to own or like to visit... it may surprise you to know that your accepted beliefs, ideas and images of both male and female sexual organs are missing a lot of really good stuff... particularly when it comes to women!

What Is Missing From This Picture? 

Know it or not, the majority of contemporary books and illustrations of female genital anatomy leave out most of the biological equipment responsible for female arousal and orgasm. 

When these specialised sexual structures are omitted from the images and text, they are also absent from your mental model and understanding of both male and female sexual organs and sexuality... this limits your ability to access your full sexual potential. 

It is like a psychological chastity belt. 

There is so much more to women's pleasure than the clitoris, and there is more to the clitoris than meets the eye. 

This ultra-sensitive sweet button is only the tip of the female sexual volcano... just one component of a whole network of erogenous structures that women have. 

Female sexuality is an interlocking set of sexual pleasure parts, most of which are unknown or misunderstood to the vast majority or men and even women themselves... in fact, biologically women have much more erotic equipment in their bodies then men do. 

That is right. The female sexual apparatus is equivalent in size to that of the male, and is far more powerful than the male... it is just not as obvious. 

Take for example...

You have a man and woman standing next to each other both naked... both become sexually aroused... it is obvious when a man becomes sexually excited... he gets a physical erection you cannot help but notice... women on the other hand do not get an erection in the same physically obvious way... the physical signs are far more subtle and are a combination of biological and physiology changes of her sexual state all over her body... women have more "erogenous zones" then men.

Playing The Whole Instrument

Since many men and women do not know about all of these "erogenous zones" parts, you are operating
with a limited mental model... it is as if you been trying to play the piano and make beautiful music and are only aware of a quarter of the keys and you do not understand the musical score you are trying to play... yes, you can still make music... yet with most of the keyboard missing, and not being able to read and understand the musical score... the musical range you can play is restricted.

When you learn the complete network of structures and understand how the connected system works together, it is as if you now know where all the keys are (plus the foot pedals!) and you can read the music... then you can learn how to fully play our instrument and make a much wider, more expansive range of music. 

Some songs that seemed  well outside your ability now become possible... you may not be able to play a Mozart sonata or have  fifteen-minute orgasms right away, and you can now see that it is possible to get there. with practice and become a highly skilled and talented piano player.

I make no excuses here for using a "musical" analogy... because when you do learn and understand all aspects of female sexuality... you can play the most beautiful music with her sexuality and bring her FULLY ALIVE! 

It is no wonder so many women face challenges in accessing their full sexual arousal and becoming orgasmically proficient... they have not been using their whole instrument! 

And let us be honest here and maybe kind... most men are bum piano players.

When you do not know what is there to play, you do not know how to thoroughly play with it and neither do our partners, whether they are male or female... and of course you cannot teach them, if you do not know yourself. 

When your mental model is congruent with your experience, the impact can be enormous... often, it is only in retrospect that you see what you were missing before... the power of having a mind map that matches your reality and accurately reflects your body and its abilities cannot be overstated your sex life becomes full of new understandings of who you are and how you operate, a luscious tapestry of "Aha" and "WOW" moments. 

An Erector Set Of Her Own... The Biological Science

To discover what is really there, let us imagine that you are going under the skin, fatty tissue and top layer of muscles of the female genitals to reveal what is hiding underneath an exquisite treasure awaiting discovery... there is a rich variety of structures and systems there, including what I call the female erectile network. 

Erectile tissue is a unique type of tissue, mostly consisting of a compacted mass of specialised capillaries... capillaries are the tiniest blood vessels in the body, characterised by a wall that's only one cell have regular capillaries all over your body, supplying each and every tiny cell... the thin wall allows for exchange to take place, enabling your body to absorb things like oxygen and nutrients, and to get rid of things like waste products. 

Erectile tissue, however, boasts some very unusual and talented capillaries with an extra-special ability. 

They contain a multitude of minuscule one-way valves that stay open when you are not aroused, allowing blood to flow just like regular circulation... when you get turned on, the valves close, causing the tissue to fill up with blood... it is as if you had stopped the drain at the bottom of your bathtub, and still have the tap on... blood continues to flow into the one-way passage, and it cannot get out... same process occurs in men for a man to have an erection with his penus.

In addition, some of your erectile tissue has balloon-like extra spaces where you can pack even more red hot blood, increasing that extra-stiff feeling.

When the erectile capillaries fill, the tissue becomes enlarged, firm and wonderfully sensitive, producing the delightful state called engorgement. 

Women have a network of structures that are composed of this wondrous expandable erectile tissue... when a penis gets hard, a man gets an erection... when a woman gets her erectile network fired up, she gets a her erection of her clitoris.

The female erectile network is made up of the interconnected and separate structures of the clitoris, the vestibular bulbs, and the urethral and perineal sponges... The clitoris is composed of three parts, the head, the shaft, and the legs... the paired vestibular bulbs form fat parentheses around the vaginal opening, lying under the lips. 

There is a tubular sponge of erectile tissue surrounding the urethra that lies above the roof of the vagina... the "G" spot, and another spongy erectile pad lies under the vaginal floor, in the wall between the vaginal and anal canals... the "A" spot and at the back of a woman's vigina is a spongy tissue shaped like a "frisbee" called the "U" spot...  together, these structures form a connected set of erogenous equipment designed by evolution to work and play nicely together... remember, Mother Nature wants to ensure that reproduction is a highly desirable activity! 

Electric Erectile Circuits

Each of these structures is linked to the others, forming an arousal matrix... the elegant female erectile network... in fact, women have two interwoven circuits of erectile tissue, including all three parts of the clitoris and the erectile structures in the floor, the two side walls and the roof of the vagina... one circuit
forms the cuff around the vaginal opening. 

The second circuit overlaps the cuff and includes the whole clitoris... everything feels better when the whole system is activated... a wide variety of stimulation can lead to arousal when the focus expands
beyond the clitoral head... not that it should be ignored, either!

That is why women can experience many different types of orgasm and when as a man you have all her circuits firing together... she experiences "whole body" mind shattering orgasms. 

In particular, when the whole erectile cuff is engorged, penetration feels marvellous! 

Without all of the structures pleasured and puffed, insertion and thrusting are not nearly so arousing and may be downright uncomfortable... pleasure is maximised when you spend time firing up all her circuits and they are ALL on-line.

Appreciating the Arousal Arrangement 

The women's arousal network has remarkable abilities that differentiate it from the male's member... women can get aroused and be orgasmic with only part of the network activated... the penis is different... men have more of an all-or-nothing erectile experience.

Women's arousal and orgasmic experiences directly depend on which areas of their network have been neglected or stimulated... when the entire network is thoroughly engorged, a woman will tend to have the most fulfilling orgasmic response.... it is as if an entire orchestra was engaged in a symphony. 

Unfortunately, though, since many men and women do not know it is all there, many women are only playing with part of their equipment, thus limiting their erotic adventures... and many men are not very good piano players. 

For women to reach their full sexual potential, they need to discover this network of erogenous circuits. 

When that whole system is fully utilised, it becomes considerably easier for women to expand their arousal, access amazing orgasmic states and discover their deep and wondrous wildness. 

When you know all your parts and give them the attention they so richly deserve, your music can become a powerful symphony of ecstasy.

And when you are a man and you know all the "notes" on a piano keyboard... their tones and vibrations and you can "read" the music.

You can play the most "sweetest" music with a woman's "sexual" orchestra!

And you can Contact me to know more.

As always leave a man or woman all the better for knowing you. 

Average men and women know only the rules. 

Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

They are Passionate DYNAMIC Lovers!

For Love and Intimacy...

Ange Fonce


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