Stop Trying To Mind Read Your Man In Sexing 

By Ange Fonce

I have talked about sexing exercises in other articles that you can do that will improve your sexing satisfaction. 

In fact, exercise in general is good for your sexing mojo... from releasing more of the good hormones that help you have more powerful orgasms, to helping you enjoy your body more!

And the most powerful sexing organ in the body is  the brain, and exercising your brain and your ability to focus is a powerful way to enhance every aspect of your sexing life.

So the quick disclaimer is this: 

Just because a woman meditates does not mean that she is great in bed or that she has powerful orgasms.

And as a tool, if you understand how it is all connected, it can be a very powerful way to get more (MUCH more) out of physical intimacy.

1... The practice of meditation helps you to experience the separation between YOU and your THOUGHTS.

Most of us go through life thinking that our thoughts are who we are.  Not so.

As you practice quieting your thoughts you begin to clearly realize that you are NOT your thoughts, and that you are actually the space in which your thoughts arise.

This is a very empowering experience. Yet that is not what I am going address here.

This realization also gives you a powerfully enhanced access to really be PRESENT with your man.  It creates the ability for you to allow  yourself to be SEEN more deeply.  And it allows you to see him past just the annoying aspects of his personality and really BE with him.

This can create intimacy on a level that, unfortunately, most couples will never experience in their lifetime. It also gives you permission to stop trying so hard to play a certain game of who you think you SHOULD be sexually, and just allows you to BE your Femininity while enjoying him simply as his Masculinity.

2... If you have ever been frustrated because it takes you along time to achieve orgasm, or at times you cannot get there at all, then some part of you is probably already aware that a big part of the problem is in your head.

It is nearly impossible when it is taking a long time happen to not think, "it's taking a long time to happen!"

And when you start having those thoughts, or when you are expecting something, or when you are worried about what HE IS thinking about it, or when you are TRYING to make it happen...

It is all a huge distraction from actually being in your body and experiencing the feelings, and the pleasures that are available there. For women who have trouble reaching orgasm, this is probably the largest factor in their difficulties. 

It is well known that if somebody says, "don't think about pink elephants," that it is nearly impossible to keep the image of a pink elephant out of your head.

The practice is not control your thoughts and simply to quiet them. 

Yes, the internal voice may still be going, yet there is something that you learn in meditation about not paying so much ATTENTION to it.

Entering this state during love making can lead to profoundly powerful orgasmic states. If you are like me, then you may have tried meditating before and found it either boring, impossible, or both.

I strongly suggest you keep with it. It does become easier with time and you will hit some breakthroughs along the way that will make it much easier and more pleasurable.

Eventually you will crave it as a mini-vacation from your mind.

I also strongly recommend yoga, as the physical practice simplifies the process of focus - plus you get great exercise and flexibility as an added bonus.

I think if you re-read this article a few weeks after you have started your practice you will see some powerful new possibilities for what is available to your in your sexing life that you never saw before.

If you ever find yourself experiencing difficulties with being "intimate" and sexing with your lover.

Then please feel you can Contact me.

And practically speaking, that completes this conversation.
For Love, Passion and Intimacy!

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce

Ange is an Dynamic Personal Development Coach who works with those men and women who want to personally develop their confidence, relationships, sexing, health and wealth!

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