I can understand how you feel... buying sex toys is always kind of a gamble... regardless of how helpful the sex store staff may be... that is not an euphemism.

That said... I am sure that you and your lover will triumph in your new adventures in Silicon Valley... that is a euphemism.

Know that buying sex toys is not a shameful or embarrassing activity AT ALL... while it is tempting to purchase toys from the safety of your computer... I would recommend that you actually visit a brick and mortar store... at least until you are comfortable enough to know what to search for... what brands you like, etc... I also recommend going into a store so you can see the toys and try them out... at least somewhat.

Men and women who shop for sex toys are often astonished by the sheer range of different accessories and pieces of kit out there... yet that should not come as any surprise... (hmmm... double entendre... come... cum... get it... OK... I will get on with the article.)

Men and women have such wildly different tastes when it comes to the things that turn them on and the sensations that make them tick... and it is good to know that the sex toy industry is prepared to cater for everyone.

Even setting aside all the kinky niche products out there for use in the bedroom and concentrating on the most popular set of sex toys... the vibrators... there is a lot of choice... some men and women own lots of toys for different things... and when you are probably just going to have one to help you get your rocks off solo every now and again... you want it to deliver in all the right ways. 

So have a conversation with your lover before you visit the sex shop... it helps to have SOME idea of what you are looking for... something for you... something for them... for both of you to use together? 

The more pre-game knowledge you show up with... the less daunting all your options will seem.

So What Factors Should You Focus On When Vibrator Shopping? 

The following are among the most important considerations... when it comes to picking the right sex toy for you.

Start With The Less Expensive Toys

Yes... the cheaper products probably will not last as long... and if you take good care of them they might... and nothing hurts more than blowing a big wad of cash on that crystal double dong only to realize you do not like it... that said... do not go TOO cheap... make sure... at the very least... to avoid hard plastics and toys with phthalates... Adult toys... unlike kids toys... are not regulated. 

Size

It makes sense to start with the size... start small... you might be tempted to reach for the Ron Jeremy dildo... because it (im)pales in comparison to the wine bottle-sized dildo next to it... and common wisdom tells you that sometimes your eyes are bigger than your vaginas... or rectums... you know best of all what feels comfortable inside you... there is no point overwhelming yourself with something gigantic... especially if you are experimenting with anal toys... working your way up the size ladder is always better... plus... you can feel like you are advancing with each level... equally... there is little point in aiming too low when it comes to size... unless some of the factors below make up for it.

Shape

Vibrators vary enormously in shape... many are really simple and uniform... and some are designed to target particular areas either by bending or by tapering to give an extra thrill to your sex play... you cannot exactly try before you buy... yet... you can certainly spend some time evaluating what feels best for you before making an investment... and do not be embarrassed to touch and feel the models that out in the shop for you to examine... it is just like being at the perfume counter... sample before you decide.

Texture

A lot of people forget about the texture of a vibrator in their search for their "joy" toys... this is a mistake... the texture matters a lot... there is a big difference between a silky smooth jelly vibrator and one that has been given a rougher surface... different textures create different sensations and you need to choose which is best... at this point... you may also want to decide whether you want a realistic looking penis shaped vibrator or not... just as texture is important for physical sensations... so is the visual effect for the psychological sensations!

Functions

The functions of many vibrators are their chief appeal... they often have lots of different settings when it comes to pulses and vibrations... many are equipped with clitoral stimulators... anal stimulators to turn up the heat... it is a question of listening to your body and going for the "joy" toy that hits the spots in the right way to give you the best orgasm.

And is that not what it is about at the end of the day... sex being fun... intimate... and very... very... pleasurable.

One last thing... buy lubrication... it is cheap... and it is helpful... it is like an adult slip ‘n' slide for your pleasure zones.

There you have it... now quit toying around and start toying around... Smiles!

And if you would like any advice on any sexual matter?

Please do Contact me.

As always... leave a man or woman all the better for knowing you. 

Average men and women know only the rules. 

Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

They are truly Passionate and DYNAMIC Lovers!

Yours Sincerely



Ange Fonce


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