Polyamory Taboos Challenged Part 2 


Threesomes and Satisfying Multiple Women 


By Ange Fonce



There is a phrase that is probably responsible for me having more sexing with more women than anything else that I have ever said while courting and seducing a new partner.

As I sit here thinking about it right now as I am writing this article I can honestly say that of all the times I have ever said it... I can only think of ONE woman who EVER said no when I busted out this line.

I am sure I did not say it exactly the same way every time and it was important to me to make it very CLEAR and every element to the phrase was always present... not because I knew it would get a woman into bed... because it was important to me to really make sure that what I was communicating was authentic and with integrity to the woman I am courting and seducing.

It went like this...

"Look before we go any further... I think it is important that you know that I am courting other women right now and before you and I get into a sexing relationship... you need to understand that I am currently in other sexual relationships... is this okay with you because I really like you and if you decide you cannot continue courting me under these conditions I am really going to miss you and I will understand... so it is up to you... we can just be friends and that will be fine with me and you can leave now yet I really would like you to stay and we can go deeper and be intimate with each other."

I think the reason WHY this worked so well is worth considering.

I mean I have said all sorts of other romantic things to women that were true for me in the moment... that did NOT result in my having sexing with them... yet why is it that this particular statement virtually always ended up with me in bed with the woman I said it to?

I assume it is unnecessary for me to mention this... I did not just walk up to women and blurt this out!  

Obviously things were growing hot and heavy between us and being authentic with her and conducting myself with integrity... I treated her with the respect she deserves and she has the choice to say yes or no and showing trust... respect and confidence in my Authentic Masculinity as a MAN to a woman is powerfully attractive to her as a woman. 

Most men think that this kind of statement would lessen their opportunities of sharing sexing with a woman... on the contrary most men believe incorrectly that a woman needs to know that she is the only one you are having sexing with or that you are at least potentially interested in a long term commitment before she will sex with you and I am telling you that the exact opposite is most definitely true.




Because Women Do Enjoy And Love Sexing Too!

And when she feels attraction and trust in you she will go for it!

I have just shared with you a very powerful aspect of Masculinity... that when you are Authentic... Honest and Respectful with a woman or women... you build authentic TRUST with her that allows her Femininity and Sexuality to open up to YOU!

Because it is when you bullshit a woman you will lose her... so DO NOT going using what I have shared with you to abuse... manipulate and deceive women like some low life half man... have the courage to be a REAL and AUTHENTIC with woman as a GENUINE MASCULINE MAN! 
 
And NO I am NOT talking about ALL women here... this is a general case and like all general cases and it is not true of every woman... because the fact is most women are far more concerned that you will become a weird jealous stalker if she sleeps with you... than that you will never call her again and frankly the fact that you are currently in relationship with other women suggests you might actually be okay at sexing... at least less disappointing than the last guy... add to that that you have just demonstrated that you are the most honest... open and authentic man she has met in the past year or in her lifetime and you are not bullshtting her and she has suddenly got a lot of very good reasons to go a lot further with you.

Nothing in my experience will get you more openly honest and satisfying sexing than courting and sexing multiple women and if you are saving yourself for marriage or already in a committed relationship then this entire article is completely irrelevant to you... not unless you are in an open relationship and if you are single I strongly recommend that you consider upgrading to this lifestyle at least temporarily so that you can gain more sexual and emotional experience in being honest and authentic with your sexing partners... especially when you feel it is UNCOMFORTABLE to tell the TRUTH and be AUTHENTIC as YOU!

I have been doing a series long and very detailed audio interviews with a dating coach Cassino Serpico Guillermo... and one of these interview sessions we discussed the psychology... emotions and sexual considerations around hooking up with multiple women... because a lot of men fantasize about having 3 somes or more and do not realize how EASY it is to make it happen as the vast majority of women though certainly not ALL women... many women at least fantasize about being with a woman and being with a man and another woman at the same time or being with two men or more at the same time.




There are experts who claim that ALL women are bisexual to some degree yet I strongly disagree with that assertion... it is just that it is true for MOST women and yet there are many women who are bi curious and so it is easy to make that error and many of those women who are at least bi curious will repress those feelings for one reason or another and may not ever fantasize about being with another woman until a skilled lover coaxes it out of her... which is something I have found in many of the women friends I have had... some being straight out bisexual and others being bi curious as womens sexuality is far more sophisticated then mens!

And because of this tendency towards curiosity around being with another woman sexual... threesomes with 2 women are completely different in character from threesomes with 2 men.

Men are much more likely to be either gay or straight and true bisexuality is much more uncommon... yet there are men who are bi curious as well... so as a result for women threesomes with 2 men are often competitive... emotionally empty and frequently lead to one or more of the people involved feeling badly about the experience afterwards... as many women have experienced sexing with two men have shared with me... they just felt used apart from one women who had shared sexing with two bisexual men and shared her feelings with me... 





"The sexing was beautiful and mind blowing!"

Obviously it can be a highly erotic fantasy for some men and women and it certainly can go well for all involved... yet there is plenty of opportunity for humiliation... jealousy and other negative emotions to crop up.

In pornography the distinction between 2 women or 2 men in a threesome is not apparent because it is anonymous and staged in both cases and just focuses on f69king and in reality the experience with 2 women is often characterized by a sense of sharing and common purpose as there is usually a sense of deep sweetness around the way that women will emotionally support each other and actively enjoy each others sexing pleasure in the context of a threesome.  

Most often if one of the people involved begin to experience a negative emotion or become insecure the other two will immediately support... encourage and help them to feel good again as often when that situation arises and then resolves in a loving and mutually supportive way and it turns out to be the very best part of the experience which you will never see in porn and you will never even find out about how beautiful that experience can be without experiencing it for yourself.

For a man the experience of being in an open... loving... sharing... honest and intimate threesome with two women can be life changing and it often turns out to be far better than just the erotic fantasy that he was expecting.

Threesomes can be an adolescent fantasy or they can be a beautiful... honest and loving experience for you and your partners and knowing and understanding how to talk about the subject with a partner or lover and how to make it comfortable and fun for her is a great skill for any man to understand.

It it is a GIANT lesson in life that the more authentic you are about yourself and what you REALLY want the more everything seems to work out better than you ever thought it would.

And really that is what has been at the heart of this article about sexing... love and sharing intimacy with multiple partners.

Being AUTHENTIC with INTEGRITY as an individual Man and Woman!

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely




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