How To Deal With Women's Prejudice And Rejection When Dating

By Ange Fonce

Before I give up one of my secrets... I want to talk about a dirty word with you.

Well... it is not a swear word... and it is dirty because no one wants to talk about it.

That word is... prejudice.

What do you think of when you hear this word?

For a lot of people it stirs up some anger... and bad feelings... it used to do the same for me too. 

I grew up on a farm... and although we where not poor... we where not rich either... and I am not English by country of birth... so I used to catch a lot of grief for my nationality... and also because we had no money.

I remember distinctly one summer when I was working for the town... I had a few weeks left in the program to earn some money... and I was a poor little 14 year old... I just needed a few pounds to buy some stuff I needed for the new school year. 

I remember sitting in the office of the town recreation board supervisor.... a big fat man named Ron... if my memory serves right... I sat there in his front lobby for a while to wait... and see if I would get the job for a little longer that year. 

Before my turn came to talk to Ron to find out... in walks a kid called Big Vinny... no that is no dumb Mafia joke... Vinny was the son of a local business owner who had some clout in the area... well Big Vinny... and Big Daddy go into Ron's office... while I watch Ron slap Vinny's dad on the back like they were long-lost brothers... the door closes behind them... and I could hear their laughter.

My heart sank... right then I knew I would not get the job.... Vinny was all set... and Ange was out in the cold... I remember sitting there with that disappointed feeling in my gut... knowing that this little rich kid was going to screw me out of my few extra pounds for the summer... money that daddy could have given him in a minute... and would take me a month to earn... and now I would not get it... and there was not a thing I could do about it... it was the good old boy's club... and I did not meet their membership requirements.

Now... I could have got all mad about it... stomped my feet about it not being..."fair"... and all... it really was not even Vinnie's fault... he could not know... and I remember having another realization... I thought that if Ron was stupid enough to hire a lazy dweeb like Vinny... then they can keep their lousy job... of course that was not much consolation... until I came up with another realization... I would WIN. 

No matter how much the odds were stacked against me in life... I would prevail... I could have my face pushed in the dirt... and I would get back up again... I refused to become a VICTIM!

So why am I telling you this? 

Yet another of Ange's childhood stories...

Well... it is because the unfair situation that I found myself in... I know will have to happened to you... even if it comes up in another way... and this where we get to the part about... 

Female Prejudice

You are often a victim of women's prejudice... and you might not be aware of it... and YES women do have prejudices just as men do... just the same way I was as a child you are now... and it has nothing to do with your appearance... or colour of skin... or even your income. 

Let us break down the word a bit... pre-jud-ice... pre-judge... to judge too soon. 

Get this... it has been shown in many studies that we make snap decisions about people based on facial expressions... and body language that takes place in less than the BLINK OF AN EYE... literally I have just finished this great book.."Blink"... by Malcolm Gladwell... it is a study of how the human brain makes all these complicated decisions without you even knowing about it... in his book... he talks about these indicators... and signals that you do not know you are seeing... and you are making judgements about other people based upon them.

Now something I want to add to this is that women are making them about YOU without you knowing about it... some of them will change if you take control of them... and a lot of them are tied DIRECTLY to your sense of self-esteem... you will show them because they are impossible to control entirely... now THINK about that for a moment... or two. 

There are a bunch of things you can control about your appearance... and so forth... and a lot of these behaviours are OUTSIDE your control... well not completely as I will explain... I know that a there is lot of men out there are treating the symptoms rather than the disease... and that is exactly what you are doing if you are trying to learn a ton of new... "tricks"... and seduction/hypnosis tools without training yourself... and working on your own... DYNAMIC CONFIDENCE... first... all those cool hypnotic words... and seduction techniques do not work right if you do not know how to properly communicate your own MASCULINE value to a woman.

Sure... you can... "pick up"... yet you have to have the right dynamic confidence system to back it up... or you will come across as a dweeb... and false... yet there is some positive news here... you can learn how to override a woman's... "Blink"... response to you by bypassing it entirely... that is right... when you demonstrate your Authentic Masculine Confidence...  you are creating the persona... a REAL persona... not a fake  one that will shut down... or short circuit her subconscious attempts to shut you out of her life.

After all on one hand a woman wants love... affection... and all that comes with it … and on the other hand she also wants a trouble-free life... she has enough drama already... and she wants to avoid any possible heartache.... so she creates a lot of fancy protection mechanisms to keep you from getting by without impressing her in the right way... just like a rock concert where you cannot get past the big dudes guarding the band from groupies.

All you need is a backstage pass.

That backstage pass is a concise method to approach women in any situation... to show, through your verbal power, that you are -

  • Confident
  • Secure
  • Interesting 
  • Fun
For a long time, I had a problem talking with women... they just seemed like an alien life form to me... they liked make up... and sleepovers... and pop songs about... "girl power"... I felt like I had nothing in common with them... yet I finally figured out the amazing core elements of good conversation... these elements can be learned... and practised with just about anyone... anywhere. 

Here is one of them...

Start with a contextual.. "opener."

What is a contextual opener? 

Well... it is one that obeys the rule of.. "Where the hell are you?"

In other words... if you want to walk up to that woman at the grocery store... and say hello... do not ask her if she saw the fight out front... do not tell her you want to read her palm... that would sound stupid in the Safeway meat section... instead make sure the opener fits the situation... not only will it work better... you will sound more sincere with the words... it is a lot easier to talk about the real world around you than try to make up something dumb.

"Hey, have you tried that new high-quality roast beef they sell here? I'm planning a party and I want to know if it would be good to put on the platter."

There you go.

Does it make her toes tingle... and her nipples pop out? 

No... yet it makes SENSE for where you ARE... and she will be much more likely to respond. 

Now... after she responds... chances are that she will be a little overwhelmed by this unexpected interest... and may be a bit bashful.... many men often misinterpret a woman's shyness as disinterest... this is where you have to reassure her... and carry the conversation forward. 

"Now if I'd known you weren't an expert on deli meats I would have asked someone else. But hey, you looked friendly." Shrug and say this with a slight smile. "Are you here doing some shopping after work?"

And just gently carry it forward. 

If you have ever had that nervous feeling when you had to work up your courage to talk to a woman... you cannot afford to miss out on and learn the principles of Dynamic Confidence... this is all practical... and usable information... where I share with you tactics... strategies... methods... and jealously guarded secret s of how to build powerful dynamic masculine confidence... so when you do meet prejudice... and rejection from women... it will have no effect on you..

And anyway... why would you want to be with such uncool women in the first place?

So... Contact me to know more.

As always... leave a man or woman all the better for knowing you.

Average men and women know only the rules.

Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

They are truly Passionate and DYNAMIC Lovers!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce


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