How To Create Your Solid Intimate Relationships With Your Lover 

By Ange Fonce



I want you to imagine something for a moment...

Imagine a relationship with a partner that is so secure that you never have to worry about saying something that he or she will take the wrong way and pull away - just because you spoke exactly how you think and feel.

Imagine not needing to dissect everything about your relationship. 

Imagine not needing to ask your friends to decode what he or she is saying because the level of communication between you and your partner is so honest and free flowing, that there is no need to go outside the relationship for validation.

Imagine how confident and calm and loving you would feel if you had this?

If you want this then you should know that it all starts with knowing exactly how to communicate with a man or a woman so that:

A... They understand YOU, and they can understand and hear you and your needs

B... They feel understood by you, so that you can speak with them in a language they will truly "get" - to the point where they cannot imagine being with any other man or woman other than you.

OK, now let me ask you a question?

What are the most critical things that all great relationships have in common that makes them so loving and lasting?

Great question and I will share these with you in a special way - by taking you through a simple exercise I have been sharing with men and women over the years that instantly helps them. Do not worry, it will only take a few seconds. 

Here is how it will work...

I am going to ask you to imagine a few special moments and situations that come about in relationships. Once I share these special moments with you, I want you to tell me if these are something you are interested in finally experiencing with a your man or woman.

Sound good?

Let us get started and here we go...

Imagine for a second these amazing moments being a part of your relationship...

Your relationship has a rock-solid and incredibly stable FOUNDATION to it because there is nothing you and the partner in your life CANNOT SAY to each other and still be loving and truly listen.

There is an underlying TRUST that you feel with the lover in your life. This trust makes you more confident, more carefree and more fun to be around than you can ever remember before. You do not ever have to think about how to say what you REALLY FEEL ever again, or worry if it will derail your relationship somehow by saying it.

The lover in your life is aware that when they pull away, it is hard on you - and instead they open up about what is going on for them, while still considering how it will make you feel and its impact on your relationship. You never have to feel that completely disconnected feeling again that makes you feel alone and in the dark and instead you always feel that strong connection with the lover in your life on a deep physical and emotional level.

You finally do not have to wonder where your relationship is going or how your lover is feeling because YOU KNOW since they check in with you on a regular basis and shares their love and affection.

Okay those are the situations and moments.

Now, let me ask you...

Did you find any situations or moments here that you know are parts of a great relationship that you want to experience?

And more importantly... did you find that many of these situations or moments are things you know you SHOULD be experiencing in a relationship when things are GOOD and you have yet to get to that kind of place in any of your relationships?

If so, I am going to share this with you...

I am going to show you how to talk to your partner and connect about how you are both feeling in a way that they will not only respond to and I am also going to show you how to have them LIKING MORE connection and communication each time you talk with them - because it leaves them feeling so good and so close to you.

You already know how magical it is when you and your lover finally connect on that deep personal level and share those rare Intimate moments.

Here is the thing - I do not want you to let these moments be a rare situation, when there are a few simple yet powerful tools you can use to make sure you and your lover connect on this deeper level daily.

If you want to find out how to have your lover coming to you and feeling excited and inspired to talk and share now and for the rest of your relationship...


 

The Hidden Language Of Intimate Connection


I want to share a powerful way of seeing and being in your relationship that has the power to INSTANTLY transform the quality and security of what you share with your lover.

This is something that took me literally years to put my finger on, and once I did it seemed so obvious that I did not see it all the time right in front of me.

The powerful secret is this...

Most men and women think of their relationship as some clearly defined "thing" that is either "good" or "bad" or troubled at a given time.

In other words, you like to think of a relationship as one individual definable thing yet the REALITY is that a relationship is not one definable "thing." 




So What IS a Relationship Then


I will tell you...

A relationship is actually a collection of hundreds or thousands of MOMENTS and connections and feelings that you and your lover share at any given moment in time. 

These are what make up your relationship.

You probably see where I am going with this now.

The truth is that since your relationship is not one single thing you can put your finger on, and a collection of lots of little special moments, thoughts and feelings.

I want you to consider this important question...

If you want to create real and lasting CHANGE in your relationship, what is more likely to work?

1... Getting frustrated at the "thing" you think of as your relationship, and trying to force change on that one thing by sheer will or by force?

2... Recognizing that since your relationship is just a collection of unique and special moments and connections and feelings and actions. That you can choose to create NEW MOMENTS that are of the quality and type that you are looking to experience more of in the first place?

Now that you know what a relationship is really made of, which one of these is more likely to work?

I am sure you see that 1 is a losing battle lots of men and women become trapped in.

And that 2 is the answer that works by using the power of what a relationship is to your advantage.

If you are a more "pro active" type of person, another way to think about this is...

If you would like more love, the surest way to create it is to find and feel and share more love to begin with. 

You have the power to create what it is you seek you just have to take the first step... to make the invitation of love to your partner.

You still with me?

Good.

Now that you know all that, I want to help you really "get" what I am talking about here so you can put it to work in your relationship and feel the amazing benefits of getting more of what you would like back in return.

Ready? 

You know how it feels when you and your lover feel connected, right?

There is nothing that can pull you apart and even if bumps in the road come up, it is not hard to ride right over them without a hitch... well, one of the most powerful tools you can use in your communication is to use the incredible power of EMOTIONAL CONNECTION during those conversations where you are most likely to become DISCONNECTED... connecting and using the power of connection when you communicate has a lot more to it than just WORDS.

Sure, I can and will give you the WORDS to use in the most critical and important situations that come up with your lover in relationships when you work with me.

After all not only am I a personal development and relationship coach I am a writer too and while words are a powerful means of communication in their own right. They are only about 20% of human communication and that is mainly the SURFACE STUFF.

If you do not know how to create the CONNECTION that is the emotional part that underlies the words you speak and share the EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE of "empathy" and "understanding!"

Then no matter how badly you want to create the foundation for truly honest and loving communication in your relationship, all the "right" words will not help you. 

Look at it this way... have you ever seen or heard how men think that there are "pick up lines" that work to attract a woman to them?

Well, the sheer fact that a man thinks he needs the exact perfect set of words to say to a woman and then she will magically because physically attracted to him is laughable just thinking this is how things work shows that a man has a huge misunderstanding about women, and more importantly about human nature such as biology and psychology and how that effects communication.

It is not his words it is what he is saying indirectly about himself, and whether or not he is able to connect with a woman on a personal level, that would spark any interest or attraction in a woman.

See what I mean?

So here is the thing...

There are no "perfect words" for you with a lover in your relationship and there are no "pick up lines" for you, either. 

Your words are just part of how you initiate and create a special moment and a connection that grabs your lover by their heart and pulls them to you and all the words in the world cannot help you if you are not creating that special EMOTIONAL CONNECTION when you are talking to your lover in your life.

Why?

Because there is something else going on underneath the surface when a men and women talk and it is this other thing that is the REAL REASON why a man or a woman either connects with you and wants to stay connected to you, or he or she does not and pull away and become distant.

So if words are not the thing that matter most, what does matter most?

I am glad you asked.

I want you to enjoy the freedom and confidence and love that comes from not just knowing how to stay CONNECTED in your relationship.

I want you to start GETTING BACK the love and care that you put in your relationship.

See when you finally know how to press a few of those simple buttons that keep you and your lover connected and allow you to talk completely openly and honestly, something amazing happens...

The man  or woman in your life is TRANSFORMED by the power of the emotional connection that you share as well.

That is the beauty and the challenge of any relationship.

That the level of love and connection you share can only rise to the level at which BOTH partners are, which means if you do not know how to use the power of EMOTIONAL CONNECTION to draw your lover even closer to you and open them up.

Then you are going to have a hard time getting your relationship to be anything better than what the disconnected lover in your life can bring to the table.

And your lover is not being open or engaged with you emotionally.





You Get What You Give


Now, there is a catch here...

You cannot just take on the task of trying to transform your lover and make them a better communicator just because you want to.

You cannot just say to your lover... 

"Hey, I need you to show up emotionally and be better at listening and talking and paying attention to my thoughts and feelings."

That will not cut it.

What DOES WORK is by completely removing yourself from any attempts to talk to your lover about HOW he or she communicates and instead DRAW THEM IN to the kind of powerful communication you really would like.

Because authentic, powerful and honest communication is CONTAGIOUS.

When you show up and feel and create the kind of connection I can show you how to create through your spoken language, your attitude and your body language... then you will have the power to truly TRANSFORM your relationship and by transforming your relationship and the communication within it, you will end up transforming the lover in your life and he or she will be more open and loving with you than they have ever been.

And even they will not know why becuase the fact is that it does not happen by accident.

It happens by conscious design on your part.




Transform Your Relationship


If you want to know the level of communication you need to have in your relationship and breathe new life into it.

Or you want to make sure that you set yourself up for this kind of more evolved and connected relationship with the next relationship you are in.

Then Contact me.

I can coach you through each and every piece you need to know about how to transform your love life and any relationship you are in instantly and exactly what is going on in those difficult situations where you are not CONNECTING in your relationship and how to get back on track by giving you not just the right WORDS to say and by showing you how to re-create that deep emotional  connection that brought you together in the first place.

And if you feel like you are still kind of a "beginner" and need to get more of my core teachings about how men and women think, how to date, how to move into a relationship and make it last. I can share with you how to relate to a man or woman in a way that makes them think...

"Wow, this is the kind of man or woman I have been trying to meet my whole life."

When you work with me and work on your own personal development it is going to completely change the way you approach dating and relationships, even your life. 

So that you can finally create and enjoy an amazing relationship with a man or woman who is truly worthy of you.

You really can create the strong, positive, solid foundation you need for a relationship that you want and desire.

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Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on this article?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely




Ange Fonce

1... A person with a penchant for Science... creativity... books... writing... communication... fitness... sexing... sexuality... human relationships... psychology... physiology and any other area involving heavy use of the Intellect.

2... A bright person and Intelligent!

3... Ange is an Author and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Coach... Sexologist and Intimacy Coach who works with those men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become creators of their own life... relationships and wealth! 

4... As ever always leave a man or a woman all the better for knowing you. 


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