He Is Attracted To You. Then What?

By Ange Fonce

Let, me start this article by asking you a question?

You know he is attracted to you and you like him and you would like it to be more than just attraction!

Do you know how to attract him to want a Committed Relationship with You
If you would like to know the real reasons why so many men who never thought they would want or need a committed relationship could not help themselves when it came to the right woman... and you would like to make it easy for your man to know that being with you is much, much better than ever being apart - without convincing, arguing, or other unnecessary stress - then you need to read this:

Now, what I am going to share with you now could lead to the most important single decision you ever make in your love life. Yes, even more important than saying "I do."

If you are open to it, what is in this article - and the other resources I include here for you to check out - could literally "change your love life" for good.

Now, let us get started.

As a man, I hear and understand a lot of what you might call the "inside scoop" on what men think And a result, and after paying attention to this kind of stuff for many years, I have come to hear a few of the same things over and over from men and women about love, dating, and relationships. One particularly fascinating aspect of this are the problems and complaints I keep hearing men share about relationships with women.

Now, why should this matter to you?

Well, because I would like to think that someday you would like to have a real, loving, lasting relationship with you-know-who: A real live man.

Which means... You have a decision to make. You can either keep feeling frustrated that things have not gone your way, and annoyed that men do not get it, or get you, and that they are all messed up.

Or... You can choose to find out what is REALLY going on with men and how it is totally possible for you to have a healthy and loving intimate relationship with a bona fide man.

And there is a very simple answer to this, yet it takes a lot of work and personal investment in yourself...

Be The Woman Who Makes Him Want To Be A Better Man 

These men are out there.

And for what it is worth, I know a great man is INSPIRED by the right woman to be the right man, and I can personally vouch for this, meeting and knowing amazing high quality women. Who make men step up to a higher gear.

So the question is... how do you become that woman who simply inspires her man to be the great lover and partner you want?

Here is a good place to start to answer this question:

There is one thing I have found that amazes me most about why men become restless, withdrawn, and leave great women and working relationships. And this one thing is something that women often UNDERESTIMATE when it comes to what keeps a man feeling that intense passion and desire to be with a woman and make their relationship keep growing. 

For the quick direct answer on why men will be so burning with passion at the start of your relationship, and then seem to lose interest, you need to discover WHY a man will feel certain he wants an exclusive and committed relationship with you one month, then doubt if he wants a future at all the next.

And more importantly... Learn WHAT to do about it so that your man has that burning desire to stay close to you and keep your relationship growing.

Keep reading to get some free tips you can put to use now.

A Great Relationship. Luck Or Skill?

I would like to know what you think about men and relationships.

There are really only two ways as I see it. You either think that you are basically given a certain "luck" with men, and that you have either got it or you do not when it comes to true love.

Or... You think that it takes a certain set of "skills" to meet a great man and make a real and lasting relationship work, and that, as an intellectually and emotionally intelligent woman, you can improve your own set of "skills."

Here is the thing...

If you think that love and really amazing, exceptional relationships, like most other things in life, are created by the luck that happens when the right situation (man) intersects with the right person who is ready...then keep reading.

You are going to get a lot out of this.

A Lasting Relationship Is Built On A Foundation Of Skill And Positive Experience 

For most men, a lasting commitment is not just a matter of choosing a woman and saying "yes."

It takes a specific set of ongoing experiences to get a man to keep opening up and to learn to love and share more deeply as time goes on. See, some women naturally understand what this "thing" is that I am talking about and never come across some of the other common problems that other women run into again and again with men and relationships.

They have an actual SKILL SET they have learnt and that they use intuitively, which causes the men they are with to actually CHASE THEM and LEAD THEM into a committed and loving relationship.

Is it not how it is "supposed" to be anyhow?

It is - if you know how to communicate to trigger a man's specific emotions and responses...and then keep those things going and alive in a long-term relationship.

So let me ask you a very simple question. Which situation sounds better to you...

A) Being a woman who "gets" certain things about a man which, in turn, gives you the ability to understand what he is doing and why... and for you to be the kind of woman who will make him KNOW, with his FEELINGS and EMOTIONS, that he wants to be close and connected with you, and only you?


B) Being a woman who just does not understand where a man is coming from and why everything has to be so difficult... and sensing that he is not "there with you"... and not having a man who "feels it" for you on an intense-passionate-gut-reaction- emotional-gotta-be-with-her-or-else kind of level?

Which situation sounds better to you?

And which has a higher potential for "success" when it comes to a real, loving, intimate and lasting relationship?

Obviously, the first one.

Well, guess what?

I have got GOOD NEWS for you:

There is a "skill set" you can learn and become great at that can mean the difference between you experiencing more of the first situation above, instead of the second.

Best of all, contrary to popular belief, this skill is NOT something you have to be born with - or else.

The truth is, ANY WOMAN who is open to learning about men can learn this. And any woman can quickly begin improving her dating life, or her relationship with that one special man with this one skill.

And how do I know this?

Because I have helped many women do exactly this - transform their love life from a difficult and painful uphill struggle to an often effortless journey filled with more love and fulfillment than they ever had before, regardless of where they were to begin with.

So what is this one essential skill among the many relationship skills?

It is the skill of creating ATTRACTION inside a man, and making your man feel that intense emotion of ATTRACTION when he is with you.

Note I said "inside a man" this is not about surface stuff.

Attraction And How It Works For Men And How To Create It And Keep It Going

What is attraction, and how does it work for men?

Before you read further, I would like you to take a minute and think about what the word ATTRACTION means to you. By the way, I am talking about the EXPERIENCE of attraction here and what creates or destroys it. See if you can WRITE DOWN exactly what you think the word ATTRACTION means. (The process of writing down your thoughts helps you to organize them, and I also recommend that you keep a journal of your experiences as you improve in each area of your life).

There are no right or wrong answers here, so think about it for a few minutes. And ACTUALLY WRITE YOUR THOUGHTS DOWN.

OK, did you do that? Good.

So what did you come up with?

A lot of women seem to think that ATTRACTION is when one person wants what another person has. Some think of ATTRACTION as the result of being good-looking or otherwise "attractive." In fact, I think a LOT of people confuse ATTRACTION with "being attractive."

When I think of the concept of ATTRACTION, I think of it primarily as an EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE that we enjoy when being with another person. And do not get this confused with sexual chemistry.

In other words, ATTRACTION IS A FEELING that we either feel, or we do not. ATTRACTION is not a CHOICE!

And there is not much of anything at all in between when it comes to a man being at a place where he is ready to be open, loving, and COMMITTED with a woman long-term. It seems to me that attraction is actually more of a COMBINATION of powerful experiences that come together to form a very, very special and all-powerful SUPER EMOTION.

However you think about it, there is a process that happens between men and women that keeps them connecting - to get together both physically and emotionally in relationships.

The Power Of Chemistry

In fact, think about this...

You are reading this right now, which is really cool of you.

Think of the thousands upon thousands of generations of ancestors that you have had... and think about the fact that EACH ONE WAS ABLE TO FIND A PARTNER TO MATE WITH.

And then think about the fact that you were the sole winner in a race of five hundred MILLION or so sperm trying to get to the egg and burrow inside. You are the result of, and represent, probably the most amazing, delicate, and rare process ever. One of the parts of this process that fascinates me is how each pair of your ancestors decided to get together with 

Your ancestors chose each other over other potential mates or partners for specific reasons, qualities, and characteristics.

Most of which have been passed to you.

The point here is that there is a LOT to learn from the underlying "biological and psychological processes" that have ultimately resulted in you being here right now. After working, studying, and observing things in this area for many years, and listening and working with women, it finally dawned on me that ATTRACTION WAS BASICALLY EVERYTHING.

If a man feels ATTRACTION for a woman, on a deep emotional level BEYOND PHYSICAL ATTRACTION, then nothing else really matters.

Not looks, age, nationality, wealth, religion, etc.

Not peer pressure from friends and family.

Not even where a man is in his own life, which he often uses as an excuse - such as where his career is, his personal income, his need for freedom, his age, his need to "have his fun" before he settles down... all that stuff.

None of it matters! Because when the right woman turns up for him... he will want to be with her and invite her to be part of his life and want share life with her!

On the other hand, if a man DOES NOT feel ATTRACTION for a woman, then nothing else matters in that case, either!

You cannot "talk" a man into feeling ATTRACTION any more than you can "talk" a person who has just eaten a huge meal into feeling hungry.

If you want to learn more about this RIGHT NOW and "fast forward" your skills and your understanding of men in dating situations and relationships - then I strongly recommend you work with me and learn the hidden "science"  for creating that intense lasting attraction with a man then Contact me.

In short... If you do not know how to create attraction with a man, and you keep doing things that are driven simply out of YOUR own feelings, emotions, fears, desires, wants etc... you are not likely to get very far.

Yet... If you can step outside yourself long enough to understand a few of the things that are going to make him feel great, know this?

Not only will you ATTRACT a man... You will also start getting all kinds of amazing things back in return.

More affection.

More praise.

More intimacy.

More passion.

More, more, more!

Let me ask you...

Do you know why men do not ALWAYS go for and marry the "best woman"? ("Best" meaning the woman who is the most generous, loving, patient, thoughtful, educated, successful, etc.)

It is the same reason why women do not go for the "nicest" guy. The reason most men do not go for or stay with the better woman is that men are not making their choices "logically." They make their choices because of the way they are EXPERIENCING THEIR EMOTIONS.

A woman can be honest, stable, attractive, amazing, physically beautiful and wonderful.

Yes a man can physically lust after a physically beautiful woman, yet a man will not really want and need her unless she makes him FEEL the magical feelings of EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION inside.

Think of ATTRACTION like a drug (which it really is.) If a man is under the influence of it, then he is gone. He will do anything to get more.

If he is NOT under the influence, then YOU ARE gone. Nothing you do will matter if he does not feel it.

If you doubt what I am saying, ask the next 10 SUPER-HOT men you see what they think of this. 

Read this article to them, and watch their reactions. You will see, you will get the surface level guys who are all about physical attraction and just want to get inside your panties. 

And you will get the men who "get it!"

Learn How To Create Intense Attraction In Him. He will never Let You Go

I have to point out one more thing. As I mentioned earlier, I think a lot of women confuse the idea of being "attractive" with the emotion called ATTRACTION.

You can make a man feel an INCREDIBLE ATTRACTION, even if you are not what most people would think of as "attractive."

And, of course, you have to know HOW.

The point is, that if you are not perfectly thin, "done-up," and "flawless" (and... who is!?), you can LEARN how to make men feel this wonderful emotion called ATTRACTION.

It is a skill you can learn and it has taken me YEARS to be able to figure out how to put in simple terms this complex "Science" that make sense, and it has taken me the same time to figure out how a REAL woman, without giving herself away and wasting way too much of her time and energy, can make a man who has not seemed "ready" or "emotionally available" feel ATTRACTION in a way that will lead to a deep and lasting connection.

How, you ask, can this happen?

Well, you have read about avoiding the common and destructive behaviour of trying to CONVINCE a man to feel any of these things "logically."

That is a part of it. That is a small part of what NOT to do. And there are several other pieces of the puzzle, from voice tone and body language, to secrets of powerful and "opening" communication, to specific ways to respond and "challenge" a man to get him physically and emotionally engaged, and everything in between. It is a system, and it all works together.

There are two KEY aspects of learning how to be successful with men, dating, and relationships:

1) The "Inner Stuff"

2) The "Outer Stuff"

The "Inner Stuff" is all about learning how to THINK and how to manage your thoughts, intentions, emotions, and energy. 

It is also about understanding how and why attractive men feel that amazing emotion called ATTRACTION for some women and not others.

The "Outer Stuff" is all of the how-to's: what to say, when, how, and why.

Which is more important?

Well, they are BOTH important.

And what I notice is that most women just want this whole "problem" of finding a great man and arriving at a close, secure, loving, lasting relationship, to go away. They want to "arrive" at an unflinching love where each person truly understands the other on a deep, deep level.

The soul mate or twin flame. (Sorry ladies but this just does not happen. There is a whole lot of human "biology and psychology" in there. The ATTRACTION!)

And the strange part is that they want to learn the "Outer Stuff" first because they think that it is just a matter of saying the right things so that there is love and understanding. In other words, they want the female versions of "pick-up" lines.

Except, the end goal is not sexing like it often is for men with pick-up lines. It is often wanting more of a deep, loving, lasting commitment built overnight.

Which leads us to the "Inner Stuff."

The REASON that the "Inner Stuff" is so important is that attractive men do not judge you on what you can say about true love and how much you really want it in your life. And just because a man talks to you, gets your phone number or email address, or takes you out on a date, DOES NOT mean that he FEELS anything deep inside.

And even if you are in a relationship with a man, it does not mean he is feeling that "forever" feeling. And here is where I draw an IMPORTANT distinction for you.

There are 2 types of ATTRACTION a man can feel.

And for a man to become "serious" about a woman, he HAS to feel BOTH.

Men do not DECIDE to feel ATTRACTION for a woman. ATTRACTION is something that happens on its own, for its own reasons.

Sure, it is relatively easy, in the grand scheme of things, for a man to feel "PHYSICAL ATTRACTION." (In Science it is called DNA. Sexual attraction for reproduction).

You as a woman know it as "chemistry."

Yet having a man feel what I call "EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION" and say "yes this is the woman I choose to be with" to create and build a relationship with you is a whole different story.

Because although "ATTRACTION" is not a choice - "RELATIONSHIP" is a choice. And this is where most women mess it up... the "RELATIONSHIP" part and the man breaks it of with her.

Earlier I mentioned that there is a reason why a man will commit himself emotionally to one woman, and not another. This "other" kind of attraction is a BIG part of what is going on here.

The way to cause a man to feel ATTRACTION for you is to UNDERSTAND how and why it works, and then communicate in a way that makes it happen in a way that actually triggers the FEELING of ATTRACTION inside of a man on a deep emotional level that he chooses to want to be in a relationship with you!

When you work with me, you will learn how to talk to a man in a way so that he not only LISTENS, RESPECTS, UNDERSTANDS and SEES you, and you remain confident and relaxed whenever discussing "heavy" topics.

If your man withdraws, pulls away, or gets quiet and moody after you talk to him about something that is bothering you, or something you want from him, then chances are that you DO NOT know how to communicate in a way that builds attraction, trust and intimacy.

There is a right way to talk to a man that will bring you closer and actually INCREASES his passion for you. And there is a WRONG way. You will know if you are doing it wrong when it feels that he is more distant after a "talk" than he was before you approached him.

Find out why honest, open communication with a man is not always easy when you do not have the best tools - and how to approach him in a way that will create a closer bond between you:

In this article I mentioned a few things about the "Inner Stuff" you might be going through personally.

If you have noticed that you have more going on inside than just the average ups and downs. And if you realize that some of the bad experiences and relationships from your past are holding you back or causing you to act in a negative or COUNTER PRODUCTIVE WAY in your love life...

Then I would strongly encourage you to make a big step in your life by taking your attention off of men for a while, and focusing it onto yourself. Getting back to that more soft, feminine, and loving place inside you is one of the best ways to "reset" things in your love life and to create a new path for yourself and a new you for the right man to be drawn to.

You might be tired of feeling like you have to fight and struggle to be strong and to stick up for yourself when it comes to love. Feeling this way is a good sign that you could be accidentally pushing away the kind of true love you really want with a man. I can take you through a journey to rediscover your natural essence which will effortlessly draw the right man to you and create the space for an amazing relationship. To feel great, break your old patterns, and get on track with creating a great relationship when you're ready.

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Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Coach Ange Fonce

Ange is an Dynamic Personal Development Coach who works with those men and women who want to personally and powerfully develop their confidence, relationships, sexing, health and wealth!

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