Female Orgasm 3 Essential Tips To KNOW As A Man 

By Ange Fonce

There are three simple steps you can take that will lead virtually ANY woman to have a powerful orgasm, no matter what else you are doing or not doing in the bedroom.  I have been working to boil down it down to put in an article, the most important aspects of how to give a woman an orgasm.

I am talking about the ESSENTIALS... the most important factors that are underneath ALL of the best techniques.Not just the technique itself, and WHY IT WORKS.

Once you have this stuff MASTERED, you can do whatever you want to do, "in the moment" and still make it work. WITHOUT having to imitate some other man.

One of the things that KILLS sexing tension, attraction, and arousal in a woman is when you are TRYING TOO HARD TO PLEASE HER. Think about that for a minute, because it is kind of counter-intuitive.

Because you are always hearing the message that...

"Women want a lover who puts HER needs first, and who is not selfish in bed."

And guess what?

That statement is WRONG.

Sure it is the kind of thing that women will nod in agreement to if you say it... yet really, if you talk to them more, if you dig deeper, they will admit that they do not want a guy who is just catering to her needs. She wants YOU to enjoy the experience just as much as you want HER to enjoy the experience. She does not want a guy who is so wrapped up in whether or not SHE is enjoying it, that he acts nervous by checking in all the time, or gives away all of his masculine power to her by looking to her for what needs to happen next for her to come.

And that thing about how women do not like men who are "selfish in bed."

That is not quite right either.

Now before you go off and and become the guy who finishes in several pumps and then goes to order a pizza. That is NOT what I am talking about. What I AM talking about is a man who KNOWS what he wants and is not afraid to get his woman to do those things for his pleasure. Women are turned on by men who are masculine and confident enough to be unashamed of what they want, and GO FOR IT.

So here is my problem - the focus of these articles is generally how to turn HER on, how to give HER great orgasms, how to make HER feel great. And I would like to make sure, along the way, you understand that you have to make sure that YOU are getting YOUR needs met too!  That you are getting everything you want out of it, and not afraid to tell her what you want her to do for your pleasure.

IMPORTANT: You must GET that this will also make sexing MUCH better for HER too.

So when I set out to find the most basic things that you need to give any woman an orgasm - even if your wife or girlfriend is a "hard case" who has never had an orgasm before... I had to get beyond that stuff about just catering to her.
In other words - you should not need to go down on her for hours... UNLESS you love to go down on her for hours. And chances are, if it is making her come and scream like a banshee then you DO love it.

So, without any further ado...

The ABC's Of Great Sexing

"A" Is For Anatomy.

Obviously, on the most basic level, you have just GOT to know where things are on a woman's body.
That means that you can confidently and quickly locate things like the clitoris, the g-spot, the cervix, the labia, etc.
If you do not have that part completely handled, then you can very quickly find the information online by typing any of those words into google.

This is basic, "must know" information.

The more advanced stuff to know about a her anatomy is not universal for every woman - so you will have to do some exploring. Every woman has her own erotic map of places on her body that turn her on.  

For example, some women will go wild with lust if you nibble their earlobes and some women will find it annoying. Finding the spots on her body that drive her crazy is part of the fun of love - making.

Okay, next...

"B" is for Body Control.

In this case I am talking about YOUR body.

Obviously there are many amazing things you can do to her with your fingers and tongue.  And for giving a woman her first orgasm, the tongue is probably superior to the penis.And for the most amazing sexing she is ever had in her life, you will need to have control over your erection.  

Controlling your body is something that she sees as a masculine and powerful characteristic.

And that, unfortunately, means that if you CANNOT control yourself, that she will feel that you are a bit less manly and this will affect her sexual attraction to you... her desire to BE sexing with you. And that is true even if you can give her a hundred multiple orgasms with your tongue.

If you happen to be a guy with challenges in this area, I have some news for you that you may find difficult to believe - and it is a fact.

This is the EASIEST part of being great in bed.


Because it is the part that is TOTALLY in your control.  It is YOUR body, and YOU can control it. If you are shaking your head and saying, "but I CAN'T!"  Please slap yourself hard across the face and get a grip on yourself.

Yes, you can.

It may take some work, some practice, some courage and you absolutely can.  Other men have overcome this challenge and so can you. I am not going further into this now because I have got to get to "C", and if this is a challenge in your life, then Contact Me.

Okay, so moving along... the other reason that controlling your erection is so important is that while you can give her an orgasm with your tongue - when you give her an orgasm while you are INSIDE of her body, and face-to-face it creates a magic intimacy for her that cannot be replaced.

And the feelings and emotions this creates inside of her are what will release even more powerful orgasms and take her to places that no other man has ever taken her to.

And this is only possible through the final piece of the puzzle.


This is both the most difficult and, by far, the most important part of giving a woman her most incredible experience in the bedroom.

If you are with a woman who has never had an orgasm before... THIS is how you will give her her first.

If you are with a woman who is very orgasmic and can easily have multiple orgasms from any sexing position - this will EXPLODE her beliefs about how much sexing pleasure she is capable of experiencing. And show her that while ANY man can give her an orgasm, with you, she is in the hands of a true MASTER.

"Connection" is a complex subject and a complex skill and that is why so few men can do it. Which is why so few men are any good in bed and also why so many women have never had an orgasm.

Here is the thing that is so frustrating for so many guys.

Even if she LOVES you... Even if you are her best FRIEND... Even if you have been together for YEARS... She probably still does not feel the kind of sexing "connection" I am talking about.

In fact (and here is the real eye - opener), often these factors PREVENT her from feeling sexing connection with you because her closeness to you makes it scary for her. 

Have you ever noticed that if some guy you know tells you that you are doing something wrong and corrects you, or tells you that your shirt looks stupid - it is no big deal.  You forget about it two minutes later.

And if the woman you love says these things it hurts like hell and may start a big fight?

We are emotionally raw with the people we love the most.

And that is why it is so difficult for you to build this sexual Connection with her. 
She is terrified of being so completely vulnerable with you because if you reject her, it will emotionally destroy her. And when you establish this connection, she completely surrenders herself to you.  

That is when you can make her orgasm, literally at will.

There are very specific techniques and actions you can take to create this connection - it is not just "luck" or "chemistry."
And likewise, there are very specific things you can do to  destroy it. And most men are so completely unaware of these things that they do them ALL THE TIME without realizing it.

And I guarantee, if you can do the simple steps - learn about her ANATOMY, and CONTROL your own body, you can absolutely learn to do this third, critical step. And completely BLOW HER MIND in the bedroom in ways that she never thought possible. It is almost funny to watch how shocked she will be afterwards - because she just never suspected that so much sexing pleasure was remotely possible.

And what is very hard to explain in the scope of a article is that this NOT some vague or intangible thing, when you GET this, you will feel it in almost exactly the way you feel it the first time you dial in a good golf swing or stand up on a surf board.

There is no question as to whether you are riding that board or never got off your knees.

In the coming months I will be sharing lots of tips on how to build that connection in future articles. Yet here is the most important factor that you can start working with IMMEDIATELY.

The key is in the first thing I told you, which is confidently going for what YOU want. Because your confidence is exactly what gives her PERMISSION to open vulnerably towards you and create connection.

Practice this TONIGHT.  

Make an effort to notice what you feel when you are more open about your desires with your woman and then breath through that feeling into confidence. You will probably see a difference in her response IMMEDIATELY. 
That is the first step on the road to SEXING MASTERY!

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce

Ange is an Dynamic Personal Development Coach who works with those men and women who want to personally develop their confidence, relationships, health and wealth!

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