Do You Know Why Men Act Emotionally Hot And Cold With You As A Woman?

Imagine attracting a man emotionally and  intellectually in such a way that he absolutely can not resist wanting to be around you.

Not only that, imagine all the obstacles and excuses falling away. 

No more "I'm too busy" or "I have to work through some issues." 

The only thing he will know is his desire to be with you.

If you finally want to feel this secure in a relationship with a man.

Then there are things about men that you as a women have to learn and understand about men. 

In this article I reveal specific ways to subtly communicate to a man the things that will trigger that intense level of attraction inside him.

You can literally have a man who was not totally "feeling it" for you, start to take notice and see and recognize the things inside you he simply did not or see before.

When I work with you I show you how to turn up the dial on the level of attraction a man feels and experiences with you on both a physical and emotional level.

You can begin seeing some amazing changes in  your love life right away and feel the kind of confidence and security with a man that you have never experienced before.

Now, let us get down to what is really going on in your heart when it comes to men and relationships.

Would it not it be great to know for sure that your man was going to take you in his arms and let you know without a doubt that he wants you and only you?

Would it not it be amazing never to have to worry again that he is losing interest when he becomes distant or that you have done something wrong?

It is entirely possible when you understand the reasons a man has for acting distant and what to do about it when he does.


You know how it is.

A man will seem really excited to be with you, he will ask you out, maybe even bring you flowers, call all the time, and then... something shifts and he pulls back. 

He stops making plans like he used to, and you start to feel like you did something wrong or that he does not like you as much any more.

Here is something to understand about men when they are Social Courting or in a relationship...


I am going to share this insight about men that will be fascinating and strange to you as a woman and that, once you understand it, is going to stop a lot of the pain and frustration you experience with social courting and relationships.

When a man gets close to a woman and deeply intimate for any extended period of time, he loves that feeling and wants more of it. 

And the strange part of this is that the moment a man experiences this period of intense closeness, he will take some space for himself.

I know this sounds counter-intuitive, it is how most men who are emotionally healthy work. 

Most men will actually seek some amount of space to "recover."

It is like how after a muscle gets worked out it needs to rest before it can grow stronger and be active again.

Men can become distant even in deep and loving relationships, and if you know what to do, you can keep your man physically and emotionally engaged.

Even when he needs time to recover.

And there is another reason why a man might withdraw that has nothing whatsoever to do with you.. 

He is not living his "purpose."


It is important for a man to be clear about what he is doing in his own life and what his purpose is.

A man's purpose can be anything.

From something straightforward like excelling at work or building his own company, to something more creative like starting and working at a do-it-yourself project at home or training at his favorite sport.

The point is that a man has some goals and is engaged and focused on doing something and doing it well.

A man's purpose is essential to his overall emotional and social well-being. 

And often, even men themselves are not clear on what their purpose is, or do not really go after their purpose and assert themselves.

When a man is not going after his own purpose - or has fallen away from it or forgotten about it - it often gets in the way of the relationship he is in. 

Men become withdrawn, restless, irritated and seem generally un-engaged in life as a whole.

They stop initiating plans. 

They stop spending as much time with people - even their own friends. 

They shut the world out. 

And of course, they become emotionally withdrawn and distant as well.

Too often men are not even conscious that this is what is happening to them, and they end up pulling away from their relationship and making things even worse for themselves. 

This is when they often seem to go in and out of being present and engaged in the relationship, and then completely withdrawn.

They slide between the two largely because of the way that they are feeling about themselves or how things are going for them in the world as it relates to their purpose.

And often women take on the problems the man is going through and try and help, or even mistake his behavior to mean something about his feelings about them or the relationship.

So now that you know that when a man withdraw's is not automatically your fault.

So what can you do about it?


1) Convincing him

When you are with a man who is feeling or acting uncertain with you, trying to convince him otherwise puts you in a very dangerous and weak position for your relationship - even if you give him an ultimatum that would move things ahead to the place in your relationship that you want.


Because he is not really making that decision based on what he wants or feels.

What you really want and need is a man who is truly committed to being with you on a physical, mental, emotional, and even spiritual level. 

Not coerced, not forced, not convinced.

2) Over sharing your feelings

If you are like most women, then you think sharing your feelings with a man first - and often - will somehow get him to share his feelings in return.

And this is not how it works for a man. 

You can share your feelings with a man, to expect that this will encourage him to do the same with you will only lead you to unnecessary frustration, especially if a man is already acting withdrawn.

When a man acts withdrawn, that is a signal that he is undergoing his own emotional process and needs time to recharge. 

Once he is ready to share his feelings, he will be back. 

And you trying to stimulate him to do so by becoming overly emotional will not work.

It will back fire on you.

3) Setting unrealistic expectations

Women tend to think that if things are going well with a man, that he will naturally want to move things forward to the next level. 

You just assume this even when the guy has never talked about the future.

So you know what happens next. 

Things will be coasting along, and suddenly the guy will change gears - you will find out he is dating other women, or he does not make plans with you every weekend - and you are left wondering what the heck happened.

The answer is that the woman created all these expectations about what the relationship was supposed to look like and how he was supposed to behave, and when he fell short of that, she became disappointed and unfulfilled.

This usually winds up in a confrontation that causes tension and maybe even creates more distance.

The flip side of this is that you will try to pretend you are okay with just a casual relationship, to closer to him thinking he will "come around," and then become disappointed when he does not.

What Do You Do To Make Him Hot For You Again?

How would you handle the situation the next time it happens and inspire the right man to "recover?"

As an independent, thinking woman who is used to getting out there and getting what she wants in her career and the rest of her life, it might seem like laying your cards on the table and having a talk with a man about "where the relationship is going" is the sensible, adult way to move things forward.

You might think that if you give him all your reasons for why you two are perfect for each other - like you would do in a job interview - it  will make him open his eyes and realize he would be a fool to have things any other way.

Do men truly commit and choose to love and become loyal, caring, affectionate, etc. just because a woman asks them?


A man needs to have his own reasons for being and feeling this way, and this happens when he feels a deep emotional attraction for you.

The point is...

Do you know and understand how the commitment process works for a man?

His reasons or committing, and how to transition to a deeply committed relationship in an easy and effortless way?

No drama, no tears, and no convincing that he needs to "go there" with you.

I will guide you to understand men and work with how a man thinks and feels to create a great relationship.

A relationship that will withstand those ups and downs.

That every relationship goes through.

You will learn to recognize when a man is just "doing his thing," so you never again have to worry thinking that you are driving him away. 

Instead, you will discover how to help a man get in touch with those feelings inside him that will have him being "attracted" to you for a deeper commitment.

Are you willing to learn exactly what it takes to support your man during his periods of "recovery" and  what to do to keep his attraction for you strong.


A man cannot read your mind, or know all that is in your heart.

And if you are carrying around pain or fear, it is surely getting in the way of him seeing that beautiful and real you underneath that he would want to know and love.

Do not keep a man from seeing the best of the real you that is inside. 

Make it easy for him... and for you. 

Help a man recognize the beauty inside you.

And if you have problems "feeling" beautiful about yourself.

And together we will work on building your "confidence."

That alone is "Highly Attractive" to any man!

I would like to help you quickly get to that great place you know is inside you where love and amazing experiences and emotions simply flow in your life.

And draw the right man and the right relationship to you all on their own.

As always leave a man or woman all the better for knowing you. 

Average men and women know only the rules. 

Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

For Love, Passion and Intimacy...

Ange Fonce


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