Do You Know the ZEN of Masculinity, Attraction and Women?

There are a lot of men out there with conflicting messages regarding what it is and is not like to be Masculine or "Alpha."

As in "Masculine Man" or "Alpha Male."

Lots of people saying this is what it is to be "Masculine." 

I often wonder how such people can say such things, especially women?

Let me start right off by saying that "Alpha" behaviour is NOT bad. 

And that "Masculinity" is natural to Men!

It is NOT attacking a tribe and killing all the young, or any weird stuff like that.

It's NOT about being "Macho" or "Machismo."

Look, "Alpha" just means the dominant male (and the female) in a group. 

And "Masculinity" is about "Sexuality" and a state of "Thinking" and "Being!"

It is the person that is most likely to procreate and get their genes into the next round of the "Keep-the-species-alive" game.

So it really does make sense for you to get successful with women if you think about it like this. 

If you do not find a woman to mate with and create little teeny versions of you, then your family line ends with you.

Your a "Genetic" dead end. 

Scary thought, isn't it?

Do you deserve to have your genetic legacy carried on into the next generation?

And more importantly, that YOU think so too.

Here are a few things an Alpha Man who is comfortable in HIS Masculinity IS...

Clever/smart/cunning - He's got a real keen mind...

Ambitious - He wants more in life than just the "average..."

Excited - He wants to live life for fun and adventure...

Honourable - He has values and principles and morals...

Dominant - He is not aggressive, but has superior social skills...

Stable - He is not into extreme or life-threatening behaviours...

Fit - He has a healthy lifestyle...

Curious - He wants to know more and grow more...

Balanced - He understands that life is about harmony...

Natural - He's not trying to be someone he is not...

Positive - He tries to see things from the good side as much as possible...

Trustworthy - He is Man of his word

He is Assertive, Confident and comfortable with his Masculine Sexuality and core essence in being a MAN!

Now those are just some of the things that make up a positive Masculine Lifestyle.

Not every man has them. 

In fact, every man needs to work on these. 

Even me. 

Every day I find new ways to improve my "Character" and feel Confident and Powerful in my Masculinity in one or more of these critical areas.

It took me a little while to build some of them, and longer to work on other aspects of myself. but it has been worth while in so many ways.

That I INVESTED in my self!

And these qualities are what women, and yes other MEN are looking for in YOU?

I am hearing more and more these days from women the same mantra...

"Where are all the good masculine men?"

I will talk about these, as well as the real-life exercises I will give you to move you forward with confidence, women, and everywhere in life you want to go. 

When you work with me in me. 

You will discover many secrets that most men do not know about being a Man, Masculinity, Women, Sex and building a Successful Life style for yourself as a MAN!

Those Men who have worked with me over the years have had their awareness opened to a Life Style, Sexuality and a way of Being they never new existed. 

Your father never taught you (Unless you were fortunate to have a father or a male mentor who passed on the "Positive" aspects of being "Masculine!"  

In my case my uncle Ernst, who did pass on his knowledge and wisdom about Masculinity , and "how to" relate to women, their sexuality and femininity.)

Do you have a "Mentor" who will share with you "how" to make choices as a Confident Masculine Man for the building of your life!

Here are a few things a Masculine Man is NOT...

  • Aggressive
  • Angry at women
  • Verbally abusive
  • Arrogant
  • Obnoxious
  • Selfish
  • Macho
  • Deceitful
  • Bullying
  • Abusive, Sexually, Physically, Emotionally and Mentally towards anyone.
There seems to be some confusion (and most of it is created by other guys and yes ...women wanting to cash in on your confusion) about what it means to be a STRONG Masculine Man in today's society.

I am not going to throw you more of that evolutionary stuff because it does not matter here for this article. 

When you think about it, it just makes sense that we want to be around people who appear or demonstrate more social value than us. 

It is because you naturally want to latch on to their power.

Again, it all comes back to POWER.

So being an "Alpha" or "Masculine" does not mean you are dragging women back to a cave.

Or that you are being an aggressive, pushy jerk.

Or that you are being forceful and mean.

Or that you are inconsiderate.

Or that you are acting like a brutish macho idiot.

It means that you understand the basic and PRIMAL reasons a woman is attracted to a man, and you are not afraid to BE a MAN.

Because if there is one thing a woman does NOT want it is a cardboard, one-dimensional wimp that is afraid to let women know he desires them.

You see, there are only two motivating forces in life...

Desire for pleasure.

Fear of pain.

Write these down somewhere, because you will be seeing them now in all areas of your life.

Pleasure & Pain.

That's it. 

You are motivated purely by what you feel you WANT (the pleasurable stuff), and what you feel you most want to avoid (the painful stuff).

Fear is a stronger motivator for humans because it helped us survive potentially life-threatening situations. 

You are smart to fear wild animals, or large trains speeding toward you. 

You cannot afford the luxury of thinking too much in these situations. 

A delay could cost you your life.

On the other hand, in our modern society, there is not much you need to fear. 

In fact, we all fear too much already.

You have so much free time now that you have more than enough time to think about all those scary possibilities out there. 

Now this might not seem like it is important to how you attract the ladies and build success in your life, but it is?

Stay with me here...

The fear that is most crippling to you is the fear of LOSS.

Everyone's favourite short green Judi, Yoda, even said it in one of the Star Wars films...

"Fear of loss leads to the dark side."

And so it does. 

It leads you down a path where you never gain because you are too afraid of losing what you have.

And Masculine Man understands that the only way to live life is to wake up each day and understand that everything you have was just given to you for today. 

And when he goes to sleep at night, he gives it all back.

Lose this attachment to your possessions before THEY possess YOU!

Yes, I am getting very philosophical here. 

I really wanted to  give you some practical strategies for getting more success with women.

What I am trying to get across to you here is that you should avoid becoming attached to your old ways of doing things

You cannot even get attached to words.

Trust your own intelligence to figure out what "Masculinity" and "Alpha" really is for you. 

Get in touch with your own energy of Masculinity and Sexuality.

And such a "man" is already inside of you. 

It just takes work to let this instinct out so that you can become the COMPLETE you.

There are a lot of men out there who have not been able to open themselves up to letting out this TRUE masculine nature inside them. 

They hide it behind "Politically Correct" B.S. about not hurting other people's feelings, or being sensitive.

It is really a fear to let other people see the REAL you.
 
  • The man that wants to achieve.
  • The man that wants women in his life.
  • The man that wants monetary success.
  • The man that wants power over the forces of life that seem to control him.
  • The man that wants to project and show his personality, not to cover himself up with a bunch of phony lines and routines.
Forget about all this "macho" talk and just open your mind up to finding this part of you that is not held back by fear, and is ready to reach out for understanding that could - and will - change your life for the better.

So on one hand we have the lowly "beta guy", or the guy who constantly has to take the crumbs others throw him. 

He is insecure, low self-esteem, acts the nice guy, but he really WANTS to grow and change.

On the other hand we have the Alpha, the Masculine confident and assertive man with healthy confidence and self-esteem.

There is only one direction of growth here, and it is from the beta man  to the Masculine Man!

Masculine Men Do not Follow, they Lead.

Most men constantly take their cues from how the woman is acting to see how to feel, how to behave, what to say.

You will notice this looking at couples having dinner. 

Looking at people with a trained eye, you can see immediately who is running the show. 

In many cases, it is the woman.

If she starts getting upset, he panics.

If she changes her body language, he changes his. 

Often the woman is looking away, and the guy is looking at her, trying to have her to have fun.

She is leading, he is following.

Men who are good with women do exactly the opposite.

Instead of following the woman's body language, they stay strong, they keep centred in their own power and they LEAD.

They let the woman and others follow their Body Language, their pace, their leadership.

Not the other way around. 

As always leave a man or woman all the better for knowing you. 

Average men and women know only the rules. 

Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

For Love, Passion and Intimacy...

Ange Fonce

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