Do You Know How To Create Emotional Attraction With A Man?
By Ange Fonce

What I am going to share with you now could lead to the most important single decision you ever make in your love life... yes... even more important than saying... "I do."

If you are open to it... what I share with you in this article will help you for your future with men so let us get started...

As a man... I hear and understand a lot of what you might call the... "inside scoop"... on what men think... as a result... and after paying attention to this kind of stuff for the last several years... I have come to hear a few of the same things over... and over from men... and women about love... and relationships.

One particularly fascinating aspect of this are the problems... and complaints I keep hearing men share about relationships with women... now why should this matter to you?

Well... because I would assume that someday you would like to have a real... loving... lasting relationship with a real live man... which means... you have got a decision to make... you can either keep feeling frustrated that things have not gone your way... and annoyed that men do not get it... or get you... and that they are all messed up... in that case, go ahead become the forever single... "cat lady"... who has 8 cats that sleep in her big empty bed.

Or... you can choose to find out what is really going on with men... and how it is totally possible for you to have a healthy... and loving relationship with a bona-fide man... there those men are out there... and for what it's worth... with all my experience I know a great man is INSPIRED to be the right man by the right woman.

Just as a great female character in a favourite movie of mine says...

"The wrong men can make women... "messy"... the right man will make you feel beautiful!”

So the question is... how do you become that woman who simply inspires her man to be the great lover... and partner you want?

There is one thing I have found that amazes me most about why men become restless,... withdrawn... and leave great women... and working relationships... and this one thing is something that women often UNDERESTIMATE when it comes to what keeps a man feeling that intense passion... and desire to be with a woman... and make their relationship keep growing.

Here is a good place to start to answer this question....

A GREAT RELATIONSHIP IS SKILL OR LUCK?

I would like to know what you think about men... and relationships... there are really only two ways I see it... you either think that you are basically given a certain... "luck",,, with men... that you have either got it... or you do not when it comes to true love?

Or... you think that it takes a certain set of... "skills"... to meet a great man... and make a real... and lasting relationship work... and that as an intellectually... and emotionally intelligent woman... you can improve your own set of... "skills."

Here is the thing... if any part of you is still holding on to the idea that you have bad luck...  and that you have been... and are destined to be unlucky... then I have to be honest... all this what I am sharing really is not for you... and I do not want you to waste your time or energy here... you are not really ready to make a change in your life... because you still do not accept the simple fact that it is YOU... and only you who holds the power to change things... and if you think that love... and really amazing... exceptional relationships... like most other things in life are created by what happens when the right situation... man... intersects with the right women who is ready... then keep reading... you are going to get a lot out of this.

For most men a lasting commitment is not just a matter of choosing a woman... and saying...  "Yes."

It takes a specific set of ongoing experiences to get a man to keep opening up... and to learn to love... and share more deeply as time goes on... see... some women naturally understand what this... "thing"... is that I am talking about... and never come across some of the other common problems that other women run into again... and again with men... and relationships... they have an actual SKILL that they use intuitively... which causes the men they are with to actually CHASE THEM ...and LEAD THEM into a committed... loving relationship... is not that how it is...  "supposed"... to be anyhow?

It is... and as you may know all too well... it does not always work this way for some women... in fact... it only works this way with men if you know how to trigger specific emotions... and responses inside a man... and then keep those things going... and alive in a long-term relationship.

Most women do not like to talk about it... and they certainly do not like to admit it about themselves... there is a lot of women out there who just do not get how to do these things when it comes to men... and relationships... it is as though every woman is just supposed to know this stuff because she is female... and while I think that woman have many... many amazing... natural gifts... not every woman in the world is born with the skill of knowing how to inspire a man in a long-term committed relationship.

Not every woman naturally... "gets"... how to keep things passionate... and growing with a man more than a few months... or so until the man predictably pulls away... or becomes distant... and starts doubting things... it is at this moment that for some women... the wheels come off completely... and they have no idea what to do about it to get things back on track... and this is when women most often feel hurt... unappreciated... and start doing... and saying things that come from a... "lesser"... place inside them... and ultimately pulls their relationship apart.

These things usually include...

  • Saying negative... and critical things about the flaws they see in the man
  • Feeling sad... and down about themselves
  • Constant worrying... analysing... and feeling bad which gives them a heavy negative energy around the man
  • Becoming angry... and blaming a man for not loving them... or treating them the way they expect
And a whole slew of what I call... "Convincing Behaviours"... that only push the man farther away and kill the love... and attraction he was feeling

So let me ask you a very simple question... which situation sounds better to you...

A) Being a woman who... "gets"... certain things about a man that in turn gives you the ability to understand what a man is doing and why... and for you to be the kind of woman in a relationship that will make a man KNOW with his FEELINGS... and EMOTIONS that he wants to be close... and connected with you... and only you.

Or...

B) Being a woman who just does not understand where a man is coming from... and why everything has to be so difficult... and sensing that a man is not... "there with you"... and not having a man who... "feels it"... for you on an intense-passionate-gut- reaction-emotional-gotta-be-with-her-or-else kind of level.

Which situation sounds better to you?

And which has a higher potential for... "success"... when it comes to a real... loving... and lasting relationship?

Obviously, the first one... and which situation can you honestly identify with more?

Unfortunately if you're like lots of women I have talked to about men... courting... and relationships... then you identify more with the second situation... well I have NEWS for you... there is a simple... "skill"... you can learn... and become great at with men that often means the difference between you experiencing more of the first situation above instead of the second,

Best of all... and contrary to popular thinking this skill is NOT something you have to be born with... the truth is,,,  ANY WOMAN…. can learn these skills who is opening to learning about men... and any woman can quickly begin improving her courting... and relationship life with that one special man with this one skill... and how do I know this?

Because I have helped many women do exactly this transform their love life from a difficult.. and painful uphill struggle to an often effortless journey filled with more love... and fulfilment than they ever had before... regardless of where they were at to begin with... so what is this one essential skill among the many relationship skills?

It is the skill of creating ATTRACTION inside a man... and making your man feel that intense emotion of ATTRACTION when he is with you....

ATTRACTION... How it works for Men... and how to create it … and keep it going.

What is attraction... and how does it work when it comes to men?

Before you read further... I would like you to take a minute... and think about what the word ATTRACTION means to you... by the way... I am talking about the FEELING of attraction here... what creates... or destroys it... see if you can WRITE DOWN exactly what you think the word ATTRACTION means... the process of writing down your thoughts helps you to organize them... and I also recommend that you keep a journal of your experiences as you improve in each area of your life... there are no right or wrong answers here... so think about it for a few minutes... and ACTUALLY WRITE YOUR THOUGHTS DOWN.
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OK... did you do that? 

Good... so what did you come up with?

A lot of women seem to think that ATTRACTION is when one person wants what another person has... some think of ATTRACTION as the result of being good-looking... or otherwise... "attractive"... in fact... I think a LOT of people confuse ATTRACTION with... "being attractive"... when I think of the concept of ATTRACTION... I think of it primarily as an EMOTION.

In other words, ATTRACTION IS A FEELING that we either feel... or we do not... and there is not much of anything at all in between when it comes to a man being at a place where he is ready to be open... loving... and COMMITTED with a woman... long-term... it seems to me that attraction is actually more of a COMBINATION of powerful experiences... that come together to form a very,...very special... all powerful SUPER-EMOTION.

However you think about it... there is a process that happens between men... and women that keeps them connecting - to get together both physically... and emotionally in relationships... in fact think about this... you are reading this right now which is a miracle.

Think of the thousands upon thousands of generations of ancestors that you have had... and think about the fact that EACH ONE WAS ABLE TO FIND A PARTNER TO MATE WITH... and then think about the fact that you were the sole winner in a race of five hundred MILLION... or so sperm trying to get to the egg... and burrow inside... you are the result of... and represent probably the most amazing... delicate... and rare process ever.

One of the parts of this process that fascinates me is how each pair of your ancestors decided to get together with THAT PARTICULAR PERSON... at THAT PARTICULAR TIME... your ancestors chose each other over other potential mates... or partners for specific reasons... qualities... and characteristics... most of which have been passed to you.

Now... I know that some women might be upset that I am talking about this whole concept in such a Scientific... and analytical way... if you are one of those women... what do you expect I am a practising  psycho-dynamic psychologist... lol.

The point here is that there is a LOT to learn from the underlying... "biological processes"... that have ultimately resulted in you being here right now... after working... studying and observing things in this area for many years... listening... and working with women... it finally dawned on me that ATTRACTION WAS BASICALLY EVERYTHING.

If a man feels ATTRACTION for a woman... on a deep emotional level BEYOND PHYSICAL ATTRACTION... then nothing else really matters... not looks... age... nationality... wealth... religion... not peer pressure from friends... and family... not even where a man is in his own life... which he often uses as an excuse ... such as where his career is... his personal income...  that he needs his freedom... he is too young... he needs to... "have his fun"... before he settles down... all that stuff... none of it matters!

On the other hand if a man DOES NOT feel ATTRACTION for a woman then nothing else matters in that case either!

You cannot... "talk"... a man into feeling ATTRACTION any more than you can... "talk"... a person who has just eaten a huge meal into feeling hungry... unfortunately some women try all the things they can think of that would work FOR THEM... to try... and make a man feel a certain way about them inside... think back to the... "Convincing Behaviours"... I listed earlier... a few examples of Convincing Behaviours are...

  • Calling a man when he's not calling you after a great meet up... and showing your frustration with him … it is an indirect emotional ploy that a man will not positively respond to.
  • Becoming upset... or demanding that a man does not want more from your relationship because it' has been however many weeks... or months.
  • Becoming intimate... and sexual with a man early on... and telling... rather than asking him... that this... "means"... that you are exclusive
All of these things are about as likely to work as a creepy guy buying bottled... "pheromones"... to try and pick up women... now what is it that all of the things above are missing?

I will tell you...

One... they do not show any thinking through of how the man is going to feel when a woman does these things.

And two... they not only will not make a man feel attraction... they will literally kill any kind of attraction a man WAS feeling before.

In short... here is where I am going with this... if you do not know how to create attraction with a man... and you keep doing things that are driven simply out of YOUR own feelings... emotions... fears... desires... you are not likely to get very far with a man... yet if you can step outside yourself for long enough to understand a few of the things that are going to make him feel great... guess what?

Not only will you ATTRACT a man... you will also start getting all kinds of amazing things back in return.

More affection.

More praise.

More intimacy.

More passion.

More more more!

Let me ask you... do you know why men do not ALWAYS go for and marry the... "best woman"... best meaning the woman who is the most generous... loving... patient... thoughtful... educated... successful... it is the same reason why women do not go for the... "nicest"... guy.

The reason men do not go for... or stay with the better woman is that men are not making their choices... "logically"... they make their choices because of the way they are FEELING... a woman can be honest... stable... attractive... wonderful... yet a man will not want... really want... and need her unless she makes him FEEL the feelings of ATTRACTION inside... think of ATTRACTION like a drug... which it really is... if a man is under the influence of it... then he is gone... he will do anything to get more... if he is NOT under the influence of it... then YOU ARE gone... nothing you do will matter if he does not feel it... if you doubt what I am saying... ask the next 10 SUPER-HOT men you see what they think of this... read this article to them... and watch their reactions... you will see.

OK... now that you have heard a little bit more of my personal perspective... I would like you to look back into your life... and think about all those situations with men that made no sense at all... think about the men that you treated wonderfully that passed you up... and went on to the... "bitchy"... woman... and think about all the male... "friends"... you have had... the ones who told you they wanted a.. "nice girl"... and kept courting the same kind of neurotic... "bad girl"... who did not have her life together AT ALL.

Is it all making sense now?

They did not keep feeling that INTENSE ATTRACTION for you that they might have had a taste of when you first met... and as time went on and your relationship started to seem less certain... you were not only doing less of the things that connected you... and your man on the physical... and emotional attraction level... you were also actually doing the things that killed these attraction feelings altogether... the things you were trying to do to keep your relationship together were having the EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT of what you wanted.

It is harsh to think about... and it is true... if you do not do something to learn how to make men feel ATTRACTION... and not just physical attraction which will not last... then most likely... this is going to keep happening for you.

I have to point out one more thing... as I mentioned earlier... I think a lot of women confuse the idea of being... "attractive"... with the emotion called ATTRACTION... you can make a man feel an INCREDIBLE ATTRACTION... even though you are not what most people would think of as... "attractive"... and of course you have to know HOW.

The point is... that if you are not perfectly thin... "done-up"... and... "flawless"... and who is... you can LEARN how to make men feel this wonderful emotion called ATTRACTION.

It is a skill.

It has taken me YEARS to be able to even talk about this stuff in simple terms like this to make sense... and it has taken me the same time to figure out how a REAL woman without giving herself away.. and wasting way too much of her time... and energy... can make a man who has not seemed... "ready"... or... "emotionally available"... feel ATTRACTION in a way that will lead to a deep... and lasting connection... how you ask can this happen?

Well... you have read about avoiding the common... and destructive behaviour of trying to CONVINCE a man to feel any of these things... "logically"... that is a part of it... that is a small part of what NOT to do... and there are several other pieces of the puzzle... from voice tone... and body language... to secrets of powerful... "opening"... communication to specific ways to respond... "challenge"... a man to get him physically... and emotionally engaged... and everything in between... it is a system... and it all works together.

There are two KEY aspects of learning how to be successful with men... courting and relationships...

1) The... "Inner Stuff"... Self Esteem.

2) The... "Outer Stuff"... Confidence. 

The... "Inner Stuff"... is all about learning how to THINK... and how to manage your thoughts... intentions... emotions... and energy... it is also about understanding how... and why attractive men feel that amazing emotion called ATTRACTION for some women... and not others.

The... "Outer Stuff"... is all of the how-to's... what to say... when... how... and why.

Which is more important?

Well... they are BOTH equally important... and what I notice is that most women just want this whole... "problem"... of finding a great man... and arriving in a close... secure... loving... lasting relationship... to go away... they want to... "arrive"... into an unflinching love where each person truly understands the other on a deep.. deep level... and the strange part is that they want to learn the... "Outer Stuff"... first because they think that it is just a matter of saying the right things so that there is love... and understanding... in other words... they want the female versions of... "pick-up"... lines... except the end goal is not sex  like it often is for men with pick-up lines... it is often wanting more of a deep... loving... lasting commitment built over-night... which leads us to the... "Inner Stuff."

The REASON that the... "Inner Stuff"... is so important is that attractive men do not judge you on what you can say about true love... and how much you really want it in your life... and just because a man talks to you... gets your phone number... email address... or takes you out DOES NOT mean that he FEELS anything deep inside... and even if you are in a relationship with a man... it does not mean he is feeling that... "forever"... feeling... and here's where I draw an IMPORTANT distinction for you.

There are 2 types of ATTRACTION a man can feel.

And for a man to become... "serious"... about a woman he HAS to feel BOTH... Men do not DECIDE to feel ATTRACTION for a woman.... ATTRACTION is something that happens on its own... for its own reasons... sure it is relatively easy in the grand scheme of things for a man to feel... "PHYSICAL ATTRACTION"... and having a man feel what I call... "EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION"... is a whole different story.

Earlier I mentioned that there is a reason why a man will commit himself emotionally to one woman... and not another?

This... "other"... kind of attraction is a BIG part of what is going on here... the way to cause a man to feel ATTRACTION for you is to UNDERSTAND how... and why it works... and then communicate in a way that makes it happen in a way that actually triggers the FEELING of ATTRACTION inside of a man on a deep emotional level.

When you work with me.. I spend several full Coaching sessions teaching you the... "Inner Stuff"... all those things that help you get the INSIDE together... so you will naturally pull the OUTSIDE behaviour... and direct communication together... of course I also pack in tons of specifics about the... "Outer Stuff"... that men respond best to... and that REALLY WORKS... this stuff is CRITICAL to the quality of your future love life... and relationships.... I would not have taken all the time... effort... and energy to put this together unless I thought it was important.

In this article I mentioned a few things about the... "inner stuff"... you might be going through personally... if you have noticed that you have more going on inside than just the average ups and downs... and if you realize that some of the bad experiences... and relationships from your past are holding you back... or causing you to act up in negative... or COUNTER PRODUCTIVE WAY in your love life... then I would strongly encourage you to make a big step in your life by taking your attention off of men for a second... and put your attention on yourself.

Getting back to that more soft... feminine... and loving place inside you is one of the best ways to... "reset"... things in your love life... and to create a new path for yourself... and a new you for the right man to be drawn to... you might be tired of feeling like you have to fight... and struggle to be strong... and to stick up for yourself when it comes to love.

Feeling this way is a good sign that you could be pushing away the kind of true love you really want with a man on accident... rediscover how easy it can be to feel great... break your old patterns... and get on track with creating a great relationship when you are ready:

You can Contact me to know more.

As always... leave a man or woman all the better for knowing you.

Average men and women know only the rules.

Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

They are truly Passionate and DYNAMIC Lovers!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce

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