Do You KNOW How to Build Emotional and Intellectual Attraction With a Man?

Imagine attracting a man emotionally and intellectually in such a way that he absolutely cannot resist wanting to be around you.

Not only that, imagine all the obstacles and excuses falling away. 

No more "I'm too busy" or "I have to work through some issues." 

The only thing he will know is his desire to be with you.

Are you wanting this for your relationship?

You can literally have a man who was not totally "feeling it" for you suddenly take notice and see and recognize the things inside you he simply did not look for or see before.

You can learn "how" to turn up the dial on the level of ATTRACTION a man feels and experiences with you on both a physical and emotional level.

You will be glad you did.

It would bring some amazing changes into your love life.

Now, let us get down to what is really going on in your mind when it comes to men and relationships.

Here is what I want to know first...

Why is it so easy for other women to fall in love with a man, and for their relationships to effortlessly come together and grow?

While YOU keep attracting all the men out there who are "unavailable" or who SEEM great at first, and eventually get scared and just cannot go "deeper" with you?

Is this "unavailable" thing really a problem so many men are carrying around that gets in the way of relationship with you as a woman?


Could it also be that YOU play a part in finding men who are "unavailable?"

Or that you bring about that unavailable RESPONSE inside a man, a response that even the most "evolved" men have lying dormant inside them?

I want to share with you what could be a new and enlightening perspective on all this..

There is an important realization all SMART women come to at some point in their love lives.

It is a "light bulb" that suddenly just turns on... and when it does you instantly grow and see things with a new sense of CLARITY.

Unfortunately, most women only come to this important realization AFTER they have been through the pain and frustration of doing everything they can think of to "revive" their relationship and failing.

I will tell you what this REALIZATION is...

It is that when you are with a man who is feeling or acting UNCERTAIN with you - even if you could give him an "ultimatum" that would move things ahead to the place in your relationship that YOU WANT.

You are in a very dangerous and "weak" position for your relationship. 

He is not really making that decision based on what HE wants or feels.

It is a weak position because you really want and need a man who is truly COMMITTED to being with you on a physical, mental, emotional, and even spiritual level. 

Not coerced, not forced, not convinced.

COMMITTED... totally and with all his being.

Knowing this, let me ask you...

Do men truly COMMIT and choose to love and become loyal, caring, affectionate, etc. just because a woman ASKS THEM?

Or does a man need to have HIS OWN REASONS for being and feeling this way?

It is a VERY IMPORTANT question.

If you have had one or more relationships where you were ready for "more"... and the man you were with was seeming to drag his heels, or just not care about your relationship... and you tried to make it work but it only seemed to BACKFIRE - then this question could be one of the most important questions you ever ask yourself.


So as a bit of homework, I want you to stop for a second and THINK ABOUT IT...

"Do men truly COMMIT and choose to love and become truly loyal, caring, and affectionate just because a woman ASKS IT OF THEM?"


Does a man need to have HIS OWN REASONS for truly feeling and being this way with you, if it is going to LAST?

Take your time and have a think, write down your thoughts if you want to...

OK, your back, let us carry on...

Where To Start In Learning About What Makes Him Want To Commit With You

Let me be unusually direct with you, for your own good...

Have you finally figured out that if you do not know HOW TO GET A MAN TO OPEN UP and talk and share his deeper thoughts and feelings with you... then it is going to be impossible to make your relationship work?

Lots of women think they get how this works because they talk a lot about what is on THEIR MIND.

For most women, this is common Communication Mistake number 1 in their relationship.

Sharing YOUR FEELINGS first, and often, because you think this will somehow get him to share his feelings in return.

This is not a great way to get a man to "open up" to you and get in touch with his feelings.

This is not his "emotional process."

Especially with a man you are in a relationship with who is already acting "withdrawn" and has shut off his feelings from you.

This kind of MORE IS BETTER approach about talking and sharing YOUR FEELINGS actually WORKS AGAINST YOU more than it helps you with men who are acting uncertain and withdrawn.

Here is the deal...

If you know anything about a man, then you should know that to get to know HIS FEELINGS, more talk about YOUR FEELINGS is NOT the answer.

Which leads me to common Communication Mistake number 2.

Out of all the things that can go wrong in a relationship, I have found one that causes women more pain, frustration, and leads to BAD OUTCOMES with the man in their life than anything else...

I have watched it happen over and over with all the women I know - my friends, my sister, co- workers. I also get TONS of e-mails from women who read my magazines and write to tell me this all- too-familiar story.

Just go read Intimate Communion Magazine Social Courting Relationship And Sex Questions, it is full of e mail questions from women about this issue.

It is the SAME ISSUE that keeps popping up at the beginning of their romantic relationships.


It is when a woman expects that the relationship will progress to something more committed, and ends up feeling disappointed when she finds out the man does not want the same thing.

This problem usually plays itself out in one of two ways.

I am sure you'll identify with one (if not both) of these.


You know exactly what you want out of the relationship, but rather than "rock the boat" by having a conversation in which you make your expectations clear, you decide to WAIT IT OUT in hopes that the man will soon feel the same way and that everything will just "work itself out."


You know exactly what you want out of the relationship but as soon as you get the sense that the guy does not share your desires or is not "on the same page" emotionally, you subtly and unconsciously decide to PRETEND that you are cool with things just being casual, even though you know you need a lot MORE to be happy and content.

Predictably, when you find yourself in either of these two scenarios, it becomes a slippery slope toward ultimate relationship disaster.

Here is how this plays out.

First... you start feeling unfulfilled, anxious or worried that you are not getting what you want and need from the relationship.

Second.. you do not know how to say what you are feeling and what you want in a mature, honest way, so you say nothing at all, or you drop "hints" that are misunderstood or ignored.

Third... he does not change anything about the way he is treating you or the relationship, and you become frustrated or disappointed because he does not really "get" what's missing and what you want from him.

Fourth.. your frustration builds up even more and either brings you to an emotionally destructive CONFRONTATION with him that FREAKS him out (like an ultimatum)... or all the silent tension and negative feelings between you make him act distant, disconnected and maybe he even starts losing interest in you.

Remember going down this road?

Not fun for you is it?

So what is going on here? 

And what can you do about it?

Stick with me here, and I will reveal some basic insights about how to get a man on the "same page" about where your relationship is headed without all the drama, tears and frustration.

"CENTRE" Yourself First And Get Clear About What You Want

What you need to do FIRST, before you do anything else, is get CLEAR about what you want and expect from your love life.

You need to be honest with YOURSELF first, before you can be honest with anyone else in your life.

Stop PRETENDING you only want a "casual" fun fling when what you REALLY want is to have a committed, serious relationship that's "going somewhere."

Here is the thing...

Getting clear about what you want will help guide your mind in all kinds of POSITIVE DIRECTIONS to help you find and attract the right situations and people in your life.

And, unfortunately, being CLEAR and HONEST is not that simple for most women when "the rubber meets the road" in courting and relationships.

The reality is, knowing what you want and expect can turn into a source of EXTREME frustration and anxiety for a lot of women.

Why is that?

I will explain.

Expectations can definitely set you off in good directions in your life... and when you do not feel like you have the CONTROL over how to get those expectations met, the "wheels really start to come off the car," so to speak.

OK, so let us deal with the concept of expectations and disappointment.

A woman may "feel" like the man she is been courting is "The One" and she can see things getting much more committed and serious, and she also senses she does not have the right tools or skills to know how to COMMUNICATE those desires to the man in a positive way.

Simply put, the woman is AFRAID that approaching the him with a heavy "talk" will either scare him away.


She herself does not know what "taking it to the next level" really means to HIM, why he would want this, and how to go about talking about it in a way that builds trust and makes him want to open up and share.

So she avoids telling him what she is really thinking and feeling about their relationship.

Instead, she starts to accept or downplay the little disappointments she feels.

Until one day she finally wakes up and realizes that she does not have the kind of relationship she THOUGHT she would have with this man, and she is just not happy with herself or the situation.

And sometimes this "awakening" does not even happen until after the man cheats or leaves.


Hey, I get it.

Men can act more than a little insensitive to all of this, and even act like TOTAL IDIOTS when it comes to appreciating and respecting the great relationship you already have together.

Yet hang on for a sec...

Let us just simplify things and boil it down to that one thing that is the cause of all the trouble and confusion.


The unfortunate truth is that some women do not want to dig deeper into what a man truly wants because of their own fears.

They are AFRAID of finding out the truth about what a man truly feels about them, and their future together.

And the most dreaded fear of all...


These two things are SO STRONG AND POWERFUL that something fascinating happens in the woman's mind when there is even a small potential for either of these...

Your mind starts a cycle of SELF-DECEPTION.

Here is how it works...

The fear of pain and loss often leads you to ignore your thoughts and intuition and replace your fearful thoughts with happier thoughts that make you feel comfortable.

It is the mind's "emotional defence mechanism."

I know you felt this before.

How many times have you been unsure - deep down - about the man you are seeing, and instead of examining those doubts and finding a way for you to deal with your own feelings, you decided to actually BUILD HIM UP to your friends and family as being a wonderful catch because you did not want to face some of the problems lurking deep in the back of your mind?

You thought that you would help things out by telling yourself and having faith in what you wanted to be true.

And sometimes, in the process of making up these "new truths," you even start to convince YOURSELF that he is a better man than he actually is?

Or maybe you have been in a situation where you have gotten no indication that the man you are seeing wants any kind of serious relationship, and you choose to fool yourself that you are building a committed relationship as things slowly and naturally escalate.

Making those assumptions without the basis of direct communication can lead to BIG TROUBLE down the road.

Save yourself the wasted energy and the broken heart.

If you are looking to move past the fear and insecurity you feel but do not want to get in touch with or let anyone know about, then I would like to help you get in touch and start the "healing" and growth process.

And I would like to help you quickly get to that great place you know is inside you where LOVE and amazing experiences and emotions simply FLOW in your life... and draw the right man and the right relationship to you all on their own.

Remember, a man cannot read your mind, or know all that is in your heart.

And if you are carrying around pain or fear, it is surely getting in the way of him seeing that beautiful and real you underneath that he would want to know and love.

Do not keep a man from seeing the best of the real you that is inside. 

Make it easy for him - and for you.

The best place to get in touch with this for yourself as a woman, and help a man recognize the beauty inside you, is right here...

Now, back to working with your own expectations, and being with a man and discovering how he is feeling.

Here is a question that is probably already on your mind...

How can you be sure you are involved with the RIGHT man, and know how he is feeling, and if he shares your expectations and desires?

The answer is HONESTY.

HONESTY is one of the most liberating and valuable traits to develop - and it is even more valuable when you are social courting.

And do you know what else?

It FEELS REALLY GOOD to be completely open, honest and AUTHENTIC!

Plus, even when it seems like it would push you and a man apart, it has an amazing way of bringing you closer together and building more love and admiration.

And only if you know how to share your thoughts and honest feelings in a way that SERVES YOU and your relationship.

Not all communication is equal.

You can MEAN something, and depending on how you share it with someone... it can either be received as loving and "good"... or as NEGATIVE and CRITICAL.

How is what you are feeling being RECEIVED?

And how does this relate to the way you choose to COMMUNICATE what you are feeling?

A Way To Communicate Your Needs And Desires To A Man That He will LOVE And RESPOND To.

Let me tell you something important that you might have gotten mixed up inside your head as a woman in relationships with men who would not listen...

It is OK to want what you want and to let a man know it.

In fact, it is a MUST.

And it is OK to tell a man that his behaviour does not match with what you want.

For example...

If a woman is honest and up front about what she wants and expects from a man, in a way that says that she is not too attached to the immediate outcome, and she subtly lets him know that he better have his act together or else.

It can turn the usual "teeth pulling" talk into an opportunity for building attraction and a deep source of commitment with a man.

And remember...YOU CANNOT FAKE IT.

You have to be in a place where you truly TRUST that you will find and meet your expectations for love and relationships, with or without the man who is there in front of you right then.

No matter how much you love him.

That means you have to be in the right frame of mind, and state in your heart, BEFORE you start the conversation with him..

And most women are not in the right frame of mind because they are afraid, and they have "tricked" themselves into thinking that their intimate feelings for a man will scare him off.


It is not honesty that will scare him off, it is the negative, fearful and anxious "vibe" that you unknowingly give off before you finally EXPLODE because you can no longer hide how you feel from the man you are with.

That is what scares some men off or makes them clam up.

The amazing thing is that men crave HONEST women who are up front about who they are and what they want in relationships.

The key is to know the RIGHT WAY to communicate these things without going over the top.

Remember, if you communicate with a man in a way that assumes, begs, convinces, or makes him think that you are "entitled" to a relationship and a commitment with him, he will NEVER, EVER respect you and want to stay for the long-term.

You might get what you want in the short-term if he gives in to your wishes just to avoid a conflict, trust me and heed these words... you are headed for MUCH bigger problems in the future.

Or worse, you will get what you want NOW, and he will spent the next months - or even worse, YEARS - secretly SEETHING WITH RESENTMENT towards you.

Not good.


You just cannot "talk" a man into wanting to commit to you by listing all the ways your relationship is special.

This is something VERY IMPORTANT to remember when it comes to men and relationships.

You have to give a man the right REASONS for him to want to and make HIMSELF commit.

Becoming deeply committed does not often just happen with the passing of time for a man. 

He will not want to commit "just because" it's been six months or a year (or longer).

He will not commit to you because you explain how you think you are better than all the women he has know or because you have such a great "connection."

NO, he is going to commit for his own reasons.

So what are these "reasons?"

They are very complex if you do not understand them... and yet simple at the same time.

A man's reasons for committing, or not committing, are his FEELINGS and EMOTIONS.

Sounds simple, and it is profound and true.

The "Masculine" part of a man has to FEEL like he is naturally, and of his own free will, CHOOSING to be with a woman.

If this happens, his commitment will usually be strong and lasting.

And if he commits because a woman has been talking to him and analyzing things to show him how a relationship really makes "sense," then his commitment will not be strong... and it probably will not last.

See the difference?

A man's motivations for commitment are how a woman makes him FEEL when he is with her.

If you want him to respond and have committed feelings for you, then you need to do more of the things that will make him FEEL those FEELINGS of desire, interest and attraction that lead him to want to commit.

Still with me here?


In other words, WORDS and conversations are the LEAST powerful and effective tools that a woman has when it comes to love and relationships.

The FEELINGS of ATTRACTION that she can create, sometimes without even speaking, are the MOST POWERFUL.

And that comes down to the power of your own FEMININE essence!

Now, I was only able to give a few simple tips and insights on how to better connect with a man in a way that will lead you both closer together and help him not only talk, and FEEL committed.

To learn exactly how to make a man FEEL, through experience, that he is BETTER OFF being with you than being single.

I will help you discover how to help a man get in touch with those hidden feelings inside him that will have him WANTING you for a commitment.

No drama, no tears, and no convincing that he needs to "go there" with you.

As I mentioned in this article, there is a very powerful force that makes a man want to commit to YOU and ONLY YOU, and that is the natural and unmistakable force of lasting ATTRACTION.

I am definitely not just talking about the "physical" kind of attraction, which is definitely powerful in itself, and  does not in itself, make a relationship LAST and THRIVE.

The kind of attraction I am talking about is DEEPER and EMOTIONAL. 

It is about the things you do, the things you say, the way you carry yourself that make a man go nuts with his desire to be around you.

If you are intrigued by this idea, and want to learn everything there is to know about what makes you IRRESISTIBLE to a man.

It is simple... Contact me. 

And I will "Coach" you into "How" to build deep life lasting "Intimacy" with a man.

You will not be disappointed by all the life-changing insights you will gain. 

And the man you are close to will love you for it.

As always leave a man or woman all the better for knowing you. 

Average men and women know only the rules. 

Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

They are Passionate DYNAMIC Lovers!

For Love and Intimacy...

Ange Fonce


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