6 Tips To Add Erotic Sensuality To "SPICE" Up Your Sex Life!

(Plus A  "SPECIAL" Free Bonus To Download)

WARNING This Article Contains Images Of An Adult Nature

How can you add more spice to your sex life? 

This age-old question may seem stupid to young couples in love, but after 5 or 10 years in a relationship, some couples begin to appreciate it.

In this article, I discuss how being more kinky - and vulnerable - together - such as taking naked photos, reading erotica aloud - can make  sex more fun.

Not every one of these ideas is going to be right for you and your partner.

But even if none of these ideas work for you, it may spur an idea of your own. So open your mind, and share this article with your partner.

1. Erotic Stories Give You An Opportunity To Share As A Couple

There are very many erotic stories available today that can help your relationship. Reading erotic stories has been proven to help relationships. Below are some of the ways reading erotic stories impacts on your relationship.

By reading erotic stories aloud to each other, you get an opportunity to talk and share naught stories without having to think hard or come up with erotic stories. You have the opportunity to select a certain paragraph or a page in a book that relates with you and then read the story out aloud to your partner. 

This creates an excellent opportunity that gives couples a chance to connect and share in a special manner. 

Erotic story sharing creates an avenue for sharing.

Pick stories that are respectful but a bit out of your comfort zone. 

This gives you and your lover permission to use words and describe sexual behaviour that you would ordinarily blush at. 

It can expand your horizons and keep you growing sexually.

But there is another step you can take to using erotic stories...

Write some erotica fuelled by your partner’s sexual fantasies and name the characters in the story your real names.

Read the erotica to him or her at a time when you’re both in the mood to have sex. 

It will bring the two of you together for a few reasons: 

  • It’s brave and vulnerable to do something creative and share it. 
  • It shows your partner that you really know him and have been listening to his heart’s desires. 
  • It will be a turn-on because guys are usually the aggressors, and it will make him feel great to be sought after.
Not into writing stories yet....

Well I have written one for you as a "Free" down load. It will give you a good idea just how you could create your own erotic stories!

Click on the down load link at the end of this article to receive your "FREE" Erotic eBook!

How about creating your own erotic adventures that create excitement for you both

2. Think of a place outside the house that is somewhat public, where you would be willing to risk having sex. 

Relationships can be boring sometimes if there are no ideas to spice up things. 

Most relationships fail to work because there is boredom especially sexually. 

This is where sexual adventures come in. 

Sharing sexual adventures together can help your relationship greatly because you will get ideas on how to spice up things. Sometimes couple don't know where to get ideas to spice up things. 

Sharing erotic ideas opens up your mind to sexual fantasies introducing you to new ideas that you can try out or implement in real life. 

Like planning a sexual adventure in the car! 

Think up some excuse for going to such a nearby place and convince him to go with you.

Wear a skirt with no underwear. 

Brush your teeth and wear a bit of perfume, nothing too obvious. 

Drive the car to the place you have chosen and pull over. Kiss him. Surprise him by offering to have sex in the car. This is vulnerable because for most people, having sex in the car is very scary - and it does carry a bit of risk, so be careful! 

It will bring you closer together because no matter how it turns out, it will create a fun, private memory for the two of you.

There are plenty of  ways erotic adventures help relationships. 

Men thinking about sex all the time which explains why in relationships, men usually prefer having sex more times than women. In the case of women, excitement has to be created in readiness for sex because sexual stimulation doesn't happen instantly like men. 

3. Make a list of your four most vivid and pleasurable sexual episodes together. 

However close you might be with your partner, it can be hard to find an avenue to have sexual dialogue. For instance, you might shy away from sharing your sexual fantasies with your partner because you fear they might judge you or view you differently.

In such cases, sharing your most favourite moments of love making with each other offers an excellent avenues for having sexual dialogue because you don't have to share you sexual fantasies directly. You can use your favourite moments of love making with each other in an erotic way to create an avenue for sexual dialogue to find out what you partner likes and share what you like. 

Sexual dialogue is very important in any healthy relationship.

Share with your partner what you like about your own body when it comes to love-making.

This is vulnerable because you are sharing your inner sexual self with him or her. 

It also can be very sexy, because repeating these enjoyable sexual moments will create sexy mental images and bond you together.

When it comes to sharing what you like about his or her body, you could try something like, “I love how my long legs can wrap around you when we’re making love.” 

Appreciating your own body is an essential ingredient of self-confidence in the bedroom as well as very sexy for your partner.

4. Masturbate in front of each other, one at a time. 

Allowing your partner to see you pleasuring yourself will help him understand what makes you feel good. 

When you watch your partner masturbate, tune in and really pay attention to what turns him or her on. 

The next time you make love, you can each practice what you learned.

5. Share with your partner three things you’d love more of during sex.

Role playing make sex interesting and comfortable which is a good thing in a relationship. 

Sometimes couples become uncomfortable role-playing in the bedroom because it feels strange due to factors such as traditions or it puts one in an awkward position. 

One way to get around this self conciousness is to make use of erotic stories act as scripts for acting out scenarios that turn couples on. 

You can decide to play a certain character in an erotic story without making up scenes because it has already been acted out for you. 

To add a bit of intrigue, do this activity at a quiet café, and maybe discreetly write them down instead of verbalizing. 

Honesty coming from love increases closeness, trust and deepens "intimacy" between you as lovers.

6. Take naked pictures of each other, separately and together. 

Just for your private use, ask your partner to pose in sexy positions and then do the same for your partner. 

This activity can help strengthen your confidence and release the unnecessary embarrassment that impedes the unabashed sex you ultimately desire. 

The better you feel about yourself in all ways - including your body - the more you’ll be willing to trust and share yourself intimately with your partner.

If you want to know more about Gender Education For Human Relationships.

Contact Me.

And as ever...Always leave a man or a woman all the better for knowing you. Average men and women know only the rules. Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

For Love and Intimacy...

Ange Fonce

What are Your thoughts and ideas?

"Use the Comments box below and "Have Your Say" (even if you disagree with me).  I really appreciate it when people reply with thoughtful comments. Honestly, it makes my day. Either way I will be glad to hear from you. Also forward this article to a friend or let them know they can receive their own articles by subscribing to "Intimate Communion". I am sure they will appreciate your consideration of them. "


RECOMMENDED FURTHER READING...



The Spice of Sexual Variety to build a deeper "Loving Intimacy" with Your Lover.

WARNING THIS ARTICLE CONTAINS IMAGES OF AN ADULT NATURE
 
 Hi All,

Today I want to talk about variety in sex. I am going to share some things that I have done with  lovers to add some extra spice.

Now most people immediately think of having lots of different sex positions to spice up the sex act. 

However, although changing sex positions is important, I feel this  is just a small part of good sex. Generally, the man le...

Continue reading ...


Erotic, Sexy, Sweet And Spicy or are you just a plain vanilla lover? 

I would like to talk about in a totally different way the relationship between sex and food to what you might have read online.

Most sex experts suggest using food to give an erotic new experience and to add some spice. Melting chocolate so it is just warm and pouring it on your lovers breast comes to my mind. 

Another way to add the taste sense to sex is feeding your lover in bed, strawberries, sweets and mango slices. One of...

Continue reading ...


10 Great Tips For Mutual Masturbation, Sex And Intimacy

Mutual masturbation you may ask questioningly ?

After all, masturbation is supposed to be something you do by yourself, and if someone else is in the room, isn’t that just called having sex?

It’s true, but masturbation is also form of sex, and sharing masturbation with a lover, can be a wonderful way of sharing intimacy, and a great way to share sexual secrets.

As with all sex, there’s no one way to do it, but here are some tips to get...


Continue reading ...


8 Erotic Sex Games For Scorching Hot Foreplay

Having a healthy sexual experience is a vital part of ANY relationship.  If you can make things fun and exciting, then it'll be easy to please your woman

Unfortunately, there are many times when the sexual chemistry has gone out of a relationship.  Even if you're with an incredible beautiful woman, you'll face some moments when you need to make things more exciting.

That's why playing sex games is a great way to spice things up.

Foreplay does not have...

Continue reading ...

 

"FREE" Erotic eBook for you to download. CLICK HERE 

“The greatest compliment you can give me is when you share this with others. I sincerely appreciate it.”