10 Great Tips For Mutual Masturbation Sex And Intimacy 

By Ange Fonce

Please be aware that this article contains content of an Intimate nature!


Mutual masturbation you may ask questioningly?

After all masturbation is supposed to be something you do by yourself and if someone else is in the room is that just called having sex?

It is true masturbation is also form of sexing and sharing masturbation with a lover can be a wonderful way of sharing intimacy and a great way to share sexing secrets... as with all sexing there is no one way to do it and here are some tips to get the mutual masturbation ball rolling... mutual masturbation can be a five minute quickie or an entire evening of romance.



Here is How...


Why mutual masturbation is a good idea.

Because most of us still have some embarrassment about masturbation... so let us list some benefits of exploring mutual masturbation.

Mutual masturbation is a great way to deal with differing sexing drives... you do not both have to be in the mood at the same time... mutual masturbation helps you learn what your partner likes and teach your partner what works for you... masturbation is another side of you... sharing talk about masturbation and masturbating in your partners presence can be a powerful way of sharing a new level of intimacy.



1... Get comfortable with your own masturbation!

The first step to sharing masturbation with a partner is getting comfortable in your own masturbatory skin... this may mean educating yourself about masturbation myths or exploring masturbation more on your own first. 

If you have not thought much about how you masturbate start to give it some thought... notice any patterns or familiar fantasy you use... ultimately you should be able to show him or her... if not talk with your partner about what feels good... so give your self time to figure it out first.

2... Wait until the time is right.

Do not pressure yourself or accept pressure from a partner to explore mutual masturbation... while mutual masturbation can be a great was to enhance your sexing life its also very intimate and exposing and you should only do it when the time is right. 

If you are unsure about it... think about what smaller steps you can take to share masturbation with a partner.



3... Talk about masturbation with your partner.

Before you dive right in... it is a good idea to talk about masturbation with your partner... even though most people continue to masturbate while in relationships... many couples hide their masturbation in relationships.

The conversation does not need to be serious or heavy and it could even start as more of a curiosity... sharing stories about when you first masturbated or how you learned to masturbate. 

The point is to get masturbation on the table as a topic as a way of gauging both your and your partners comfort with the subject.

4... Honour the privacy of masturbation.

The first time you masturbate with someone else in the room it may feel weird... most of us have a way we like to masturbate and for most of us this includes feeling like we are alone and have some level of privacy... one way to get over the hump that first time is to keep your eyes closed or if you do not want to focus on that use a blindfold or scarf to cover your eyes. 

With your eyes closed... as you start to masturbate it can be easier to slip into your comfort zone... for most people this is the easiest way to masturbate in front of a partner the first time.



5... Take turns.

One of the best things about masturbating in front of your partner is the lessons learned about what turns you on... each of you should get an opportunity to simply watch the other masturbate without any distractions the first time you share masturbation... if it feels awkward you might agree in advance to take turns... one of you starting and masturbating until you are done and then the other goes. 

While simultaneous mutual masturbation can also be fun... letting yourself be the focus of attention can also be both arousing and educational.

6... Mutual masturbation sex positions.

Once you are comfortable with mutual masturbation in both theory and practice it is time to mix it up and play with different positions and situations... doing this can enhance the sexing response you get from masturbation... it can also spark different fantasy scenarios and lead to more learning for your partner. 

Try mutual masturbation on different pieces of furniture... if you are always in bed try it in a chair... in the shower... on the floor and experiment with different sexing positions.



7... Masturbating together.

Mutual masturbation can also mean masturbating together... from the perspective of sexuality the sexing energy built up with masturbation can be shared even if you are not physically touching each other... some people make a game of it and try to masturbate in synch so they finish together.

If you do not have a lot of time you might compete to see who finishes first... one of the great things about doing this is sharing your feelings as you both lie there satisfied by your own hands and sharing an intimate moment together.

8... Masturbating each other.

While most of us might think that a hands off each other approach is what defines masturbation the dictionary definitions of mutual masturbation usually include touching each other and there is no reason not to blur that line... this might include you focusing on another part of your partners body while they masturbate or you might be right in the centre of the action. 

You might use parts of each others bodies in your own masturbation technique... or maybe you come in right at the end to help out with the big finish.

9... Adding sex toys.

Sex toys can add a lot to both solo and mutual masturbation... for starters toys remind us that sexing is play and lots of times it is just meant to be silly fun... sex toys also provide a kind of strong consistent stimulation that we cannot create on our own... introducing sex toys during mutual masturbation can also be a great way to bring sex toys into your partner sexing and it makes room for you showing your partner first how you like to play with sex toys before they take over.



10... Playing with eye contact and talking.


At the beginning if you are uncomfortable with masturbating in front of your partner... making a lot of eye contact or talking might seem too intense... yet if you find you both enjoy mutual masturbation and get more comfortable with it... adding eye contact and talking can take it to a different level... gazing into each others eyes during any kind of sexing play can be intensely intimate and hot. 

Sharing sexing fantasies or describing what you would like to do to or with your partner while they masturbate can be another form of sexing fantasy role play .
 
ROMANTIC QUICK TIPS...

The best position for practically any woman is reverse missionary... with her on top she can control the angle of penetration so it hits the clitoris or G spot as well as the tempo.

Help your lady have an explosive orgasm by stimulating her to near peak several times and then stopping... finally take her over the top.

Try an entire lovemaking session without using your hands... it is more difficult than it seems and will force you to use other parts of your body.

Keep a big clean blanket in the trunk of the car in case a wonderful love making opportunity arises.

Help your man from cuming by firmly and gently squeezing the shaft of his penis below his head or at the base of his penis.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely




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