"Options" A Mans Greatest Power When He Is Social Courting 

By Ange Fonce

CHOICES are what life is about... do you "feel" like you lead a very "fulfilling life?"

There is a something I am about to reveal to you and it is one of the biggest factors of gaining “success” in your life... more specifically... it is the “how” to make sure you “win” at everything you put your “mind” to and “invest” your “time” in.

You have to make sure you have got the most “important power” in a man's life... this is one thing you cannot ignore if you are going to be “successful” with anything you go after... including women.

Here is the secret you must remember... a mans “success” depends on having OPTIONS.

There is a theorem that states that in any situation... if all things are “equal”... then the person with the most “response options” or “choices” will probably come out on top in any given situation... when you have fewer “options” available to you... you have to work MUCH harder to “win” in the same situations.

Now let us apply this to something simple... like checkers... most people have played checkers at one time or another... there are a few variations in the rules... and it is a very simple game to learn... and unless you did something STUPID... the person who usually took the first checker tended to be the one who "won"... or the person that had the most moves available to them... or the one who managed to block the other persons moves by trapping their pieces from moving... not EVERY time mind you... just most of the time... things tip quickly to the persons favour who moved “first.”

The same thing is usually true in chess too... you can lose a couple of pawns... yet once you start losing a significant piece like a bishop or rook... the game will become an uphill battle... by losing your pieces... the number of "options" available to you are greatly decreased and “winning” becomes that much harder... and by keeping as many pieces as you can on the board... you have more OPTIONS to WIN!

In fact having “more options” also gives you GREATER POWER!

Options = POWER

The same thing is true in almost everything you do... and nowhere is it more “effective” than in the world of  “courting” and “social interaction”... this is most clearly “understood” when you get in one of those conversations with a woman and you run into that dreaded uncomfortable pause... you know... where she says something and you know you now have to run with the ball... yet silence!

And you feel that sick and uncomfortable feeling grow inside as you know the longer you wait... the worse it gets... and the longer you wait... the more pressure you feel... and the less you feel like you can respond... because now you are both “aware” that no one is talking... and it is getting worse and worse and now you feel more pressure and ...  ah... meltdown!

You are a nervous wreck on the inside and you are barely smiling on the outside... as she tells you she needs to get going and meet someone somewhere... it was nice meeting you... blah...blah...blah... have you been there before? 

I know I have... and it is not good!

When that silence start... it is like you opened up a Pandora's Box of “anxiety” and “frustration” and “fear”... and now you cannot get them back in again... you feel a strange pressure around the middle of your chest too... those emotions of “dread... fear” and “anxiety” have a PHYSICAL effect too... if only you had more things to talk about with this woman that you could use... this is where “options” and “choices” help you out again... when you have prepared for the event beforehand... no situation will catch you by surprise or off guard.

Great Men “know” this.

And that is why they prepare for any situation... and when a “situation” comes up... they have OPTIONS... alternate plans they can switch too.

You have “options” too... whether you are searching for one or for many... that choice is YOURS... not just which women you get... what you do with the ones you do have in your life... and not just with women... with your “career” and “success” in other areas of your life too.

And there is also nothing wrong with seeing a lot of women to find the one you really want... just do not lock yourself down too soon and “make do”...  because you will lose “perspective... confidence” and a sense of “social value.”

I think that most men want ONE woman... yet we want the “confidence” and “power” to know that we COULD have more... if we “choose” to... again it comes back to having CHOICES and OPTIONS.

And many men “feel security” around their “power” to interest the women they desire... I am not going to tell you that this SHOULD NOT be this way... or that you have been brainwashed in some way... I would like that men did not have to “feel” like so much of their “personal confidence” and “personal esteem” was linked to their “success with women”... the fact is many men do "define" themselves by women.

In a way... it is what helps our species “create” the next generation... this need for “connection” with the opposite sex is necessary for our survival... so instead of complaining about the way it is... there are “options” to make it different.

Like defining your own Masculinity by what “you do” and “get done” as your own Man in life... you DO have that “choice”... you do not have to “define” yourself by women... you can have your own “goals” and your own “ambitions”... and “create” your own “success.”

And here is something for you to consider...

A Masculine Man is a “confident” man... and a “confident” man who is “responsible” for his own “life” going on... has lots of "options" and is usually “attractive” to women... so by “defining” your own Masculinity... you greatly increase your “choices” with women!

Anyone that tells you that you cannot “improve” and “personally develop” yourself and  your life is a fool... they will tell you what you WANT to hear so that you do not have to  "assume responsibility” for “developing” your own “mind" and "personality” and "creating" you own “destiny.”

Most men end up second guessing themselves most ofl the time.

Did I do the right thing? 

Should I have asked someone first? 

Should I have waited?

The fact is that most men never get anywhere in life because they refuse to put their foot down and DO anything of “merit”... to take a “risk”... to “dare” to step away from the crowd... to “think” and  make up their OWN minds... they avoid making “decisions” in the deluded belief that it helps them avoid “failure”... and instead they wind up never having any “success”... of any kind... which is “failure by default.”

Then these same men sit back and crush all of your “ambitions”... pretending they know it all already... they are the cynics of the world... the critics who belittle everyone else who “dares” to go after what they “want” in life... there is a saying...

"Those who have given up on their dreams will do their best to discourage you from your own."

Do you want to be one of “those men”... or do you want to be “your own Man?”

You make up your “own mind” and make your “own choices” in life... and have your own “goals” and "ambitions”... and do not let ANYONE crush your Masculinity!

All it takes is one simple step to start making that change in your life starting right Now!

Consider ALL your "options"... and then "invest" in those that will "benefit" you the most... and if you have any questions about what you can do to “personally improve” your life... please do Contact me.


Because Masculine Men are truly Passionate and DYNAMIC Lovers!

Yours Sincerely


Understand Yourself Your Masculinity And Your Value To Women 

By Ange Fonce

She stood by the sink... struggling with a jam jar. 

I noticed... walked over... took it gently from her hands and with a soft... sharp pulse... loosened the top... and for this... she kissed me.

 Women speak emotionally with their bodies better than we men do... and what she was saying was...

“I  am glad you’re here.” 

“I am glad you are a man.” 

”I love men” 

”I feel taken care of.” 

”I feel complemented ...

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Building Your Masculine Confidence For Your Life
And Connecting With Women

By Ange Fonce

Can you really BUY success with women?

I am not talking about buying her gifts.

I am asking, can you actually get better with women from a book or a CD program?

Or does it really have to be something "Natural?"

That is a tough question for some men... they actually think that the only way you can be good with women is if you are born with it... otherwise, you are just going to have to settle for what you can get. 

Most men fall into one of three types when it comes to women.

TYPE 1) The Player.


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The Body Language Signs Of Powerful Masculine Men

By Ange Fonce

Detecting masculine power in men is generally easier for the experienced eye to read than the feminine power than women display.

Powerful women do not exhibit the same characteristics as men... at all... feminine power is more subtle than masculine power.

Thus in this article we will stick with the... 

Body Language Of Powerful Men.
When I sit down with a group of men... it usually takes me about a minute to figure out who has real power at table. 


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