Intimacy lives in the tension. 

It is the drive to get your own needs met and the drive to ensure your lovers needs get met... love both covers your lovers vulnerabilities and calls out their inadequacies... love accommodates and demands growth. 

The beauty of loving tension is that it has something powerful residing within it... energy. 

You do not get to choose when that energy will get released from the tension... you do get to choose whether it will be intelligent creative empowering energy or blind destructive destroying energy... it comes down to your personal intent... to rise and empower or to control and manipulate?

When two lovers stand right in the middle of their relational tensions and extend themselves to invest in their own highest best and the highest best of the other... a powerful astonishing energy is released...  it is named and known as INTIMACY! 

And intimacy is a key is to building deep TRUST between lovers... and TRUST is the solid foundation value for those of The Tribe of  Dynamic Lifers!

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How Do You Deal With A Woman Who Flakes Out On You? By Ange Fonce

October 21, 2017

How Do You Deal With A Woman Who Flakes On You? 

By Ange Fonce

Have you had women flake out on you? 

I hated it when it happened to me and I bet you do too. 

Would you like to know why it happens and how you handle it?

Read on...

QUESTION from a "confused" reader...

"Ange, I have been reading your articles and I wish I would have gotten to read them sooner. 

I very confused by this fun and pretty girl. We met at a party, I laid low for a few days, then asked her to come with me to a fashion show (she's a print model so I knew she would come).

The date went well and we had dinner after the show, she asked all the questions that showed she was interested in me (my family, background, goals, etc). We made out, got way too drunk, then I took her back to her place and I kissed her good night, and told her I wanted to come in, but I never do that on the first date, she looked confused but relieved at the same time. Clearly that doesn't happen to her often. We had some flirty texts the following week and I thought she was into me. I waited a few days and coincidentally I got tickets to one of her favorite bands that she told me about on our date. I left her a funny voicemail telling her should wouldn't believe what I received that day.

No call. In fact I didn't hear from her at all. So I waited 3 days, and texted her a funny text, she came right back within minutes. She replied that she was having drinks with a friend. So I wanted to stop this game and told her to enjoy her night, and maybe we could get together later in the week. 

So Ange, I'm confused. Date 1 went great, I followed up with fun texts letting her know I enjoyed the night. I faded back for a few days to give her space, then when I try to see if she wants to go out again, she acts aloof, and then says that she has plans and tries to counter with some lame brunch during the day.

But what really got me is that she re-initiated contact with her text to me when she was having drinks with a friend during the night I proposed to take her out. Clearly I was on her mind, and I don't thinks she's a mean girl, but was she trying to make me jealous or is she crying for attention from me?"

A.R. Liverpool UK

Ange answers with a...


Yes she really got you all right you have just had a drive by from a female PLAYER.

Women do this to men all the time and men think that it means that she is really into them because she seems to give off signals of interest and for some crazy reason she just cannot seem to LET herself HAVE you.

My friend you have to interpret her actions for what they are and not what you WANT them to be. 

What I am about to say is probably going to be a revelation to you and if not keep re reading this until you get it are you ready for your awakening?

Here it is...

A woman does not REALLY think about you unless she is interested in you enough to want to be with you again AND follow through.

And let me say that again in even simpler terms... 

If she is REALLY into you she will find a way to make it happen. 

Let me ask you this... if you were hot for a woman and she called you up and said... 

"Hey let us go out to Sams Cafe and get a beer tonight." 

Would you refuse her?

Hell no!

You would probably drop whatever you were doing to go because you were interested and there was an opportunity to ACT on it and get what you wanted.

Now for some reason we men seem to think that women really play this hard to get thing seriously and that a woman who was hot for you somehow would not say yes and she would say NO just to be coy or because she just could not help herself.

Oh no if she is into you she WILL find a way to get with you women do not sit around and plot out elaborate ways to deny themselves the pleasure of your company. 

Really your job is to drive her interest level in you up so high that she CANNOT refuse a date with you under any situation it is that simple anything else is playing it safe and let us be brutally honest here... she is a model she is used to the constant adoration of guys and that is what fuels her self esteem. 

The term for this kind of person is attention whore and that name can be used on guys too by the way and you are just another fanboy... a fun moment in her life and she texted you to ping you and see if you were pining away for her, and it made her feel like queen of her castle.

What you are guilty of here is IMAGINING her attraction and interest based on the fact that she showed you a SMALL indication of interest and her texting you does not really show that she is hot for you as much as I would like to tell you that... sorry  that is just a momentary fluctuation in her mood and she was probably just trying to make herself feel better for having backed out on your plans because women do this A LOT as a way to maintain the image of the good girl."

Is she interested in you?

It does not matter until she follows through on it so let me put it this way... you have no room for a woman in your life that is interested in you and goes out of her way to deny herself and YOU the reality of actually getting together.

You get me?

Just imagine what kind of games are in your future with a woman who would keep this B.S. up this kind of game playing is infantile and immature and you do not have the time for it your life is busy CROWDED with women to get with is it not?

If you would like to get started right now learning the power secrets that I have learned to be a GREAT Man who is attractive to women and expect success with the REAL YOU then you need to do this... Contact Myself Ange. 

I provide direct One to One Coaching Service through Skype and work with me.

Remember This Rule of Attraction

A woman is not into you until she takes ACTION on her desire.

What you do next is simply this... 

Keep her in your phone book... text her regularly teasing her... do not ask her out or try hard to get her on another date. 

After a week of this offer her a few spur of the moment chances to hang out with you... no more than an hour or two in advance.

And do it on a Monday or Tuesday when she probably will not have any other options. 

Be commanding... be assertive... take the lead and tell her exactly what kind of a fun time she is going to have and do not allow yourself to be swallowed by the what happened obsession that strikes guys who are hit and run by these kinds of flighty flaky women.

The Masculine Man has so many options in his life that he does not have the time to think about all these women players. 

And neither must you and if you would like to learn more strategies on how to deal with women and understand the game of dating and relationships COMPLETELY from approaching all the way to finding a girlfriend and building GREAT Life for yourself.

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce

1... A person with a penchant for Science... creativity... books... writing... communication... fitness... women... sexing... sexuality... human relationships... psychology... physiology and any other area involving heavy use of the Intellect.

2... A bright person and glamorously Intelligent!

3... Ange is an Author... Speaker and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant and Coaching Psychologist... Sexologist and Multipreneur... who works with those men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become creators of their own life... relationships and wealth! 

4... As ever always leave a man or a woman all the better for knowing you. 

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The ONE Secret Ingredient To Attract A Great Man into Your Life Do You Know it? By Ange Fonce

October 14, 2017

The ONE Secret Ingredient To Attract A Great Man Into Your Life Do You Know It?

By Ange Fonce

Imagine if you never had to worry that the man who was so attentive and into you would suddenly lose interest?

Imagine if you felt confident that the men you are attracting are the kind of men who are capable of loving... lasting committed relationships and not the kind who run away at the first sign of tension in a relationship?

Imagine if you could quickly restore the passion in a relationship so that ...

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Gender Education and Sexual Awareness is about improving  "Intimate and loving relationships" as one very powerful way to cultivate "getting-each-other-ness"

I am committed to the possibility of men and women really "getting" each other... I do not go with the view that you need to hide any aspect of yourself... your truth and who you really are in the world. 

When you cultivate the courage to really BE yourself and say what you mean... to your friends... your family... your boss and your lover you become incredibly POWERFUL in your life. 

The secret sauce is being ready and willing to accept others regardless if they agree with your perspective on what is  right or wrong. 

I have seen over and over again that this is the master key to...

Great sexual relationships .... deep love... commitment and trust... general happiness and contentment with life and being the SUCCESS you want to be!

Because intimacy depends upon you sharing exactly who you are - which means sharing exactly how you feel no matter how ugly you think those feelings to be... it all starts with being Truthful and Authentic  as YOU.

It is beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind, the essence of you... someone who takes the time to undress and appreciate your conscience and make love with your thoughts... someone that wants to help you slowly take down the walls you have built up around your heart and let them inside to share "intimacy" with you and you alone. 

To love all your vulnerabilities in embracing you... that is "Intimate Communion". ~ Ange Fonce



In Intimate Communion

"Spirituality is a Divine Gift... Sexuality is a Divine Gift... They may together be called... Intimate Communion.

The Art of Loving maybe the ultimate gift... to connect the Mind... and Body... the absolute in non-denial." ~ Ange Fonce

People who regularly experience pleasure tend to be more happy... and are almost certainly a lot nicer to be around... sex is one of the healthiest... and most beautiful ways to experience pleasure.

A committed long-term relationship legitimises sex... and offers the needed safety... and security to help you open to the many delights of sexual pleasure.

Sacred sexuality practices such as Tantric and Taoist sex offer the further possibility of elevating your relationship to become a spiritual practice,.. thus reuniting sex and spirit.

In this way it is possible to set your self free by celebrating your body rather than denying it.


"Women are Highly Sexual creatures...  women crave really good SEX and for many women... really good sex is rare to find.

Sometimes they have it... and do not realize how rare it is until later... once a woman has experienced it with a Masculine Lover nothing else will do... she will always crave it... period. 

Woman make the investment to make Sex better and they are frustrated when their man is not willing to do the same... giving a woman an orgasm is not the "goal"... it is the very  minimum requirement... it is the BEGINNING!" ~ Ange Fonce


Do not think about getting sex... instead think about giving really GOOD Sex! 

There is certainly opportunity there... that is the correct intent and motivation  to bring out the decadent... primal... carnal... insatiable... hungry... ruthlessly... expressive... natural sexual being in you... that drive will do the rest!

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