Intimacy lives in the tension. 

It is the drive to get your own needs met and the drive to ensure your lovers needs get met... love both covers your lovers vulnerabilities and calls out their inadequacies... love accommodates and demands growth. 

The beauty of loving tension is that it has something powerful residing within it... energy. 

You do not get to choose when that energy will get released from the tension... you do get to choose whether it will be intelligent creative empowering energy or blind destructive destroying energy... it comes down to your personal intent... to rise and empower or to control and manipulate?

When two lovers stand right in the middle of their relational tensions and extend themselves to invest in their own highest best and the highest best of the other... a powerful astonishing energy is released...  it is named and known as INTIMACY! 

And intimacy is a key is to building deep TRUST between lovers... and TRUST is the solid foundation value for those of The Tribe of  Dynamic Lifers!

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That Some Published Content 

Is Of An Intimate Nature. 

Do You Know How To Spot a Persons Underlying Character By Ange Fonce

November 6, 2018

Do You Know How To Spot A Persons Underlying Character

By Ange Fonce

Do you know how to spot a person’s underlying character when you starting to get to know them?

If you do not, it is all too easy to end up with a person who is not worth your time.

Here is what I mean.

Ange and Dalia are coaches and friends. Both recently started recently getting to know each other. Like most friends, they compare notes.

The other day they were sharing time with each other, and describing what they observe about people and how a man was in a foul mood. He was not rude, yet he was short with the waiter at the restaurant and the usher who took tickets at the theater.

He even snapped at a guy in the car park.

They then shared a similar experience. A day at work went poorly and it carried throughout the entire day. And at the end of the night, he addressed it. He explained why he was in a bad mood, took responsibility for letting it affect his behavior, and apologized.

“I’m sure the guy apologized to you, too,” One said to the other.

“Nope. That’s how he usually is. He knows how to get his way. People learn not to cross him the hard way.”

Right about now, you are probably thinking the same thing that one guy was having a bad day, and that is not the norm. 

The other guy just sounds like a jerk.

Now here is an important point to remember about these forms of bahaviour... the difference between a behaviour a state versus a behaviour trait.


States and traits look similar, yet they are totally different.

States are temporary. Traits are - well, not necessary permanent, yet certainly more well-established. A state is a one-off situation, like being short because you are having a bad hair day. A trait represents a pattern of behavior. 

Happily-ever-after hinges on learning to spot the difference between the two. Fortunately, it is pretty easy to tell states and traits apart - when you know what to look for. I can help you there.

How Do They Treat Powerless People?

You can easily judge the character of a person by how they treat those who can do nothing for them. And that is true.

You can tell a lot about a person based on how they talk. Not to you, and to all the people around you. People like servers at restaurants, attendants, ticket-takers, strangers in line and check-out clerks.

Their default behavior toward these people will paint a picture. Pay attention to it. If they are kind, polite and respect people they do not have to be kind, polite and respectful to, then there is a good indicator they are a decent person.

What are they like when they are tired, stressed and hungry?

When we are tired, hungry and stressed, we become very self-focused. After all, those sensations are pretty hard to ignore. So when a person is tired and hungry, you are going to get a sneak peek at the foundations of their character.
A little crankiness is understandable. That happens to a lot of us. A full-blown meltdown is a bad sign!

The next time you and another do something active and have to wait a little longer than normal to eat or sleep, keep an eye on their mood. If they remember to be thoughtful and caring even when he or she is tired and hungry, they could be a keeper.

What Do They Do When They Screw Up?

Some people backpedal. 

They shift blame, or justify their behavior, or insist that you just do not understand the complexity of the situation. And some people acknowledge their error and apologize.

Disagreements in any kind of relationship are not pleasant, yet they can be helpful. It does not even matter who is right and who is wrong. What matters is how they treat you when he or she thinks they are right and you are wrong.

If they are honest and have integrity then and take responsibility when they screw up, hang onto that person.
I want to clarify one really important thing before closing out this topic.

Focus on finding positive traits rather than exposing negative ones.

Everyone has flaws and no one is perfect, so every man or woman is going to miss the mark sometimes. That is not necessarily how to spot a jerk be it male or female.

What you want is a man or woman whose positive characteristics shine through, even when the situation is not ideal. They show up and be there for you, they care and have respect for you, others and themselves.

Men and woman like that are out there.

And when you know what to look for, you are far more likely you will find one. I know, because I am getting to know such a woman.

If you want to know more about Gender Education For Human Relationships Coaching.

Please Contact Me to arrange a complimentary coaching session.

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Coach Ange Fonce

Ange is an Dynamic Personal Development Coach who works with those men and women who want to personally and powerfully develop their confidence, relationships, sexing, health and wealth!

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He is Attracted to You. Then What? By Ange Fonce

October 24, 2018

He Is Attracted To You. Then What?

By Ange Fonce

Let, me start this article by asking you a question?

You know he is attracted to you and you like him and you would like it to be more than just attraction!

Do you know how to attract him to want a Committed Relationship with You
If you would like to know the real reasons why so many men who never thought they would want or need a committed relationship could not help themselves when it came to the right woman... and you would like to make it easy ...

Continue reading...

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Gender Education and Sexual Awareness is about improving  "Intimate and loving relationships" as one very powerful way to cultivate "getting-each-other-ness"

I am committed to the possibility of men and women really "getting" each other... I do not go with the view that you need to hide any aspect of yourself... your truth and who you really are in the world. 

When you cultivate the courage to really BE yourself and say what you mean... to your friends... your family... your boss and your lover you become incredibly POWERFUL in your life. 

The secret sauce is being ready and willing to accept others regardless if they agree with your perspective on what is  right or wrong. 

I have seen over and over again that this is the master key to...

Great sexual relationships .... deep love... commitment and trust... general happiness and contentment with life and being the SUCCESS you want to be!

Because intimacy depends upon you sharing exactly who you are - which means sharing exactly how you feel no matter how ugly you think those feelings to be... it all starts with being Truthful and Authentic  as YOU.

It is beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind, the essence of you... someone who takes the time to undress and appreciate your conscience and make love with your thoughts... someone that wants to help you slowly take down the walls you have built up around your heart and let them inside to share "intimacy" with you and you alone. 

To love all your vulnerabilities in embracing you... that is "Intimate Communion". ~ Ange Fonce



In Intimate Communion

"Spirituality is a Divine Gift... Sexuality is a Divine Gift... They may together be called... Intimate Communion.

The Art of Loving maybe the ultimate gift... to connect the Mind... and Body... the absolute in non-denial." ~ Ange Fonce

People who regularly experience pleasure tend to be more happy... and are almost certainly a lot nicer to be around... sex is one of the healthiest... and most beautiful ways to experience pleasure.

A committed long-term relationship legitimises sex... and offers the needed safety... and security to help you open to the many delights of sexual pleasure.

Sacred sexuality practices such as Tantric and Taoist sex offer the further possibility of elevating your relationship to become a spiritual practice,.. thus reuniting sex and spirit.

In this way it is possible to set your self free by celebrating your body rather than denying it.


"Women are Highly Sexual creatures...  women crave really good SEX and for many women... really good sex is rare to find.

Sometimes they have it... and do not realize how rare it is until later... once a woman has experienced it with a Masculine Lover nothing else will do... she will always crave it... period. 

Woman make the investment to make Sex better and they are frustrated when their man is not willing to do the same... giving a woman an orgasm is not the "goal"... it is the very  minimum requirement... it is the BEGINNING!" ~ Ange Fonce


Do not think about getting sex... instead think about giving really GOOD Sex! 

There is certainly opportunity there... that is the correct intent and motivation  to bring out the decadent... primal... carnal... insatiable... hungry... ruthlessly... expressive... natural sexual being in you... that drive will do the rest!

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