Intimacy lives in the tension. 


It is the drive to get your own needs met and the drive to ensure your lovers needs get met... love both covers your lovers vulnerabilities and calls out their inadequacies... love accommodates and demands growth. 

The beauty of loving tension is that it has something powerful residing within it... energy. 

You do not get to choose when that energy will get released from the tension... you do get to choose whether it will be intelligent creative empowering energy or blind destructive destroying energy... it comes down to your personal intent... to rise and empower or to control and manipulate?

When two lovers stand right in the middle of their relational tensions and extend themselves to invest in their own highest best and the highest best of the other... a powerful astonishing energy is released...  it is named and known as INTIMACY! 

And intimacy is a key is to building deep TRUST between lovers... and TRUST is the solid foundation value for those of The Tribe of  Dynamic Lifers!




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Relationship Issues That Threaten Your Relationship By Ange Fonce

December 12, 2018




Relationship Issues That Threaten Your Relationship 

By Ange Fonce


So many couples who have lost each other regret their parting for many years, particularly when they might have been able to stay together.

They struggle with what they could have done differently had they known they were in serious trouble. By the time they realized they were on a collision course, they could not stop the negative spiral.

Most all relationships that begin with common dreams and abundant love end with those positives still intact, and buried under layers of unresolved heartbreaks.

Had those disconnects been seen and understood earlier, the once-cherishing partners within them could often have turned things around.

Learning the three most common ways relationships fail can help devoted partners keep their relationship alive.





Threat 1... 

Negative Interactions That Outnumber Positive Ones


Every intimate relationship will experience its fair share of conflict. 

No matter how similar you and your partner may be, you still come from different backgrounds, cultures, and mindsets - not to mention two different sets of life experiences.

Relationship Coaching helps you understand your partner - and feel understood - as you never have before. When you have this kind of in-depth experience of each other, you are much better equipped to handle whatever conflict may come your way.

Conflict in intimate relationships is a fact of life. It is how you handle them that determine whether they will rip you apart or superglue you together.

Here is how...

When your relationship began, you most likely felt treasured by your partner, praised for your assets, and readily forgiven for your faults. Some "not-so-compatible" areas may have existed, and you chose to give them less attention.

Over time, those non-attended-to negative interactions may have changed the percentages of good connections to bad ones. Now you are having more difficulty both erasing them and also holding on to the positives you once took for granted.

The good parts of your relationship may still be there, yet the damage is taking its toll and you can feel each other's lowered frustration tolerance and increased quickness to anger.

If you cannot transform your negative patterns and grow beyond your current limitations, your lack of action will keep feeding energy into the bad interactions and starve out the good ones.





Threat 2... 

Suppressing Your Needs For The Sake Of A Relationship


To keep your relationship secure, you have probably had to sacrifice some of your own needs at times in order to give your partner what he or she wanted from you.

You may have felt a little martyred some of the time, or even gave up some of your own self-respect, but in the moment, it seemed the right thing to do. You felt that your partner not only recognized your willingness to sacrifice, but would readily have done the same for you.

Somehow, over time, you began to feel that you were giving more than you were getting back. Your sacrifices now appear to be more expected and your paybacks are not adequately compensating you for your efforts. Your partner not only does not give you more of what you want, he or she does not even recognize that you have been silently bargaining.

If you allow this imbalance to continue, you will eventually feel like you are being taken for granted and lose trust in your partner's willingness to reciprocate.




Threat 3... 

Trust-Breaking Incidents


Most new couples do not address their non-negotiable bottom lines up front.

They either trust that their partners have the same values and ethics, or believe that they would never hurt them by doing something they have agreed would be unacceptable.

You probably began the same way. Then, as your relationship matured, you discovered new things about each other that altered your initial perceptions. Some of those revelations were delightful surprises that deepened your trust and love. 

Others may have caused concern, like past behaviors that your current relationship could not survive.

As you grew to know what your partner could or could not tolerate, you may have begun withholding some potentially relationship-destroying thoughts, telling yourself that you would never act upon them.

Couples who cannot share their secret thoughts or behaviors risk the loss of their intimacy. Their bond weakens, and they are more likely to act without considering the outcome.





Starting Now... 

Getting Your Relationship Back On Track


Averting further damage and getting back on course involves three steps, regardless of the problem:

Acknowledging the problem and committing to fixing it as a team

Intentionally stopping any behaviors that are perpetuating the problem

Harnessing the positive energy in your relationship (it is still there, even if it sometimes does not feel like it)

I wanted to remind you that myself and another Relationship Coach, Coach Dalia and I are still here for you just like an old friend.

I also wanted to ask, if you have ever heard this expression:

“You cannot see the wood for the trees.”

If you have not, it is basically saying you are unable to see a situation for what it is or optimize it because you are too involved.

Everyone has experienced it on a basic level...

Say you have been trying to build a TV stand for hours and for the life of you, you cannot figure out how screw C fits into block B without part A breaking off.

Then, your friend comes round for a coffee looks at it for 3 seconds and points out the solution just like that.
Individuals who are in a relationship experience it on a much greater level...

Where the stakes are higher.

Many reach a certain amount of success that they have built all by themselves, then plateau. Often they hit a relationship obstacle, and are so caught up in their own way of thinking (because after all it has got them this far) they cannot seem to get around it.

That is where a Coach comes in.

They offer a fresh perspective, a new way of approaching things that you may never have thought about before even though it was right there staring at you in the face, just like screw C.

And not only that, a coach provides accountability.

They provide motivation, so you have always got your foot on the gas, reaching new limits and breaking through boundaries.

It is no coincidence the greatest success stories in our society...

From Usain Bolt to Steve Jobs, Oprah to David Beckham all had coaches in their lives at some point.

No one finds a crazy amount of success alone.

If they say they do?

They are either lying to themselves or you.

In short, the most successful people have coaches, so if you want to be the best you can be for yourself and your relationship, getting yourself a coach is worth considering...

And so is what I am about to offer you:

A free complimentary 1:1 coaching session with me or Coach Dalia, where we will help you see the wood for the trees and take yourself and relationship to the next level.

If you are interested...

All you need to do is hit “Contact Me” and let me know that you want support and I will get in contact with you to book your session.

This is the perfect opportunity to get personalized attention on your self and relationships.

Seriously consider this opportunity, won’t you?

If you are interested and want to know more about Gender Education For Human Relationships Coaching.

Just Contact Me to let me know and I will reach out to you to arrange a complimentary coaching session.

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely



Coach Ange Fonce

Ange is an Dynamic Personal Development Coach who works with those men and women who want to personally and powerfully develop their confidence, relationships, sexing, health and wealth!

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Do You Know How To Spot a Persons Underlying Character By Ange Fonce

November 6, 2018





Do You Know How To Spot A Persons Underlying Character


By Ange Fonce


Do you know how to spot a person’s underlying character when you starting to get to know them?

If you do not, it is all too easy to end up with a person who is not worth your time.

Here is what I mean.

Ange and Dalia are coaches and friends. Both recently started recently getting to know each other. Like most friends, they compare notes.

The other day they were sharing time with each other, and describing what they observe about...

Continue reading...
 



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"Getting-each-other-ness"


Gender Education and Sexual Awareness is about improving  "Intimate and loving relationships" as one very powerful way to cultivate "getting-each-other-ness"


I am committed to the possibility of men and women really "getting" each other... I do not go with the view that you need to hide any aspect of yourself... your truth and who you really are in the world. 


When you cultivate the courage to really BE yourself and say what you mean... to your friends... your family... your boss and your lover you become incredibly POWERFUL in your life. 


The secret sauce is being ready and willing to accept others regardless if they agree with your perspective on what is  right or wrong. 


I have seen over and over again that this is the master key to...


Great sexual relationships .... deep love... commitment and trust... general happiness and contentment with life and being the SUCCESS you want to be!


Because intimacy depends upon you sharing exactly who you are - which means sharing exactly how you feel no matter how ugly you think those feelings to be... it all starts with being Truthful and Authentic  as YOU.


It is beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind, the essence of you... someone who takes the time to undress and appreciate your conscience and make love with your thoughts... someone that wants to help you slowly take down the walls you have built up around your heart and let them inside to share "intimacy" with you and you alone. 


To love all your vulnerabilities in embracing you... that is "Intimate Communion". ~ Ange Fonce




MASCULINE PENETRATION


FEMININE RECEPTIVITY 


In Intimate Communion


"Spirituality is a Divine Gift... Sexuality is a Divine Gift... They may together be called... Intimate Communion.


The Art of Loving maybe the ultimate gift... to connect the Mind... and Body... the absolute in non-denial." ~ Ange Fonce


People who regularly experience pleasure tend to be more happy... and are almost certainly a lot nicer to be around... sex is one of the healthiest... and most beautiful ways to experience pleasure.


A committed long-term relationship legitimises sex... and offers the needed safety... and security to help you open to the many delights of sexual pleasure.


Sacred sexuality practices such as Tantric and Taoist sex offer the further possibility of elevating your relationship to become a spiritual practice,.. thus reuniting sex and spirit.


In this way it is possible to set your self free by celebrating your body rather than denying it.





 ARE WOMEN SEXUAL CREATURES?


"Women are Highly Sexual creatures...  women crave really good SEX and for many women... really good sex is rare to find.


Sometimes they have it... and do not realize how rare it is until later... once a woman has experienced it with a Masculine Lover nothing else will do... she will always crave it... period. 


Woman make the investment to make Sex better and they are frustrated when their man is not willing to do the same... giving a woman an orgasm is not the "goal"... it is the very  minimum requirement... it is the BEGINNING!" ~ Ange Fonce



 THE CORRECT MOTIVATION AND INTENT!


Do not think about getting sex... instead think about giving really GOOD Sex! 


There is certainly opportunity there... that is the correct intent and motivation  to bring out the decadent... primal... carnal... insatiable... hungry... ruthlessly... expressive... natural sexual being in you... that drive will do the rest!






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