Intimacy lives in the tension. 

It is the drive to get your own needs met and the drive to ensure your lovers needs get met... love both covers your lovers vulnerabilities and calls out their inadequacies... love accommodates and demands growth. 

The beauty of loving tension is that it has something powerful residing within it... energy. 

You do not get to choose when that energy will get released from the tension... you do get to choose whether it will be intelligent creative empowering energy or blind destructive destroying energy... it comes down to your personal intent... to rise and empower or to control and manipulate?

When two lovers stand right in the middle of their relational tensions and extend themselves to invest in their own highest best and the highest best of the other... a powerful astonishing energy is released...  it is named and known as INTIMACY! 

And intimacy is a key is to building deep TRUST between lovers... and TRUST is the solid foundation value for those of The Tribe of  Dynamic Lifers!

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Can You Express Your Anger Safely With Your Man? By Ange Fonce

August 12, 2017

Can You Express Your Anger Safely With Your Man?

By Ange Fonce

If you are feeling stuck in your relationship and if your man just cannot seem to come up with the attention and affection you want need and DESERVE and you sometimes you feel like he has just run out of gas in the affection and attention department that you start to go downhill fast and it is as though everything dries up.

Many womens instantaneous reaction when they feel their needs not being met is to feel angry and since many women do not find it easily to express their anger their first instinct usually is to clam up and either get really defensive and distant or overly nice and the deadly one... ice cold polite and correct with eyes that send daggers!

It has taken me years to teach myself how to express all my feelings even the ones I have difficult feelings about... especially Anger.

When I was married my anger used to make me feel guilty and then the guilt makes me feel even angrier... I wanted to scream... shout and yes the temptation to even hit my ex wife and run away from her... I would be hitting her or running away from her in my head... all with a big smile on my face and in the end I did not run away nor hit her or even scream and shout... I just left and divorced her.

Now things are very different... I have learned a lot over the years from being a professional Consultant and Personal Development Coach and it is just amazing what a few Tools can do to not only change all that around inside ME and has also transformed my life... I often smile to myself at how far I have come in feeling comfortable inside myself and being able to say what I am feeling and thinking to anyone.

In this article I am going to share with you a Tool that is from Dynamic Life Development Systems... that is called ROCKET FUEL and it is a way to harness and USE your anger for the good of yourself in a positive way for you and your love life. 

Here Are Some Steps

1... When you are not getting what you need catch yourself look around you and check out exactly WHAT you are doing.

Are you wandering around the house talking to yourself in your mind and telling HIM OFF in your mind and distracting yourself with little meaningless things like organizing the socks or putting out the trash or are you trying to start a conversation with him trying to talk about what is bothering you or ask him to do something or just being defensive about something he has said?

Or perhaps he has said something to YOU something with a bit of anger in it or a request and all of a sudden it feels so UNFAIR... here you are being so nice and giving and he is holding out on you in the important ways... affection and attention and here he is asking YOU for something or being mad at YOU!

And so you find yourself letting him have it either straight out with anger or in a measured... calm... reasonable sort of way where you try to get him to understand how you are feeling and well how dare he?

2... Stop absolutely stop yourself wherever you are whatever you are doing.

If there are words spilling out of you while you are talking with him... Stop... if you are washing a dish... Stop.

3... Put your hands on your heart now...

4... Breathe into your hands in and out 3 times... now...

5... Say out loud even if there is no one there... 

"I am feeling angry."

Just say it while you are holding your hands to your heart and breathing some more.

6... Now sit down... sit on the floor right where you are if there is no chair or bed by you.

If you are in a restaurant you are likely already sitting so that is great... if you are standing at the bar sit on a stool or at least LEAN on the bar.

7... If your man is there look straight into his eyes.

Hold eye contact... hands over heart... breathing... sitting on the floor... the chair... the bed... the stool.

Now say Wow.

Say Wow to yourself because you have just done something amazing... you have just interrupted an old pattern that has not been working for you and you are just about to do something totally thrilling...

8... Stay on the floor and if you feel like crying... cry.

If you still feel angry hit the floor... if you are out somewhere go to the bathroom and do the same thing only hit the air... if he does not make a move that is fine... if he comes over to you that is fine too... if he comes over to you  melt all over him and be glad to have him... if he turns around and walks away in a huff or if he stands there and says something nasty or if he just stands there silently you just sit there until you finally feel ready to move... then...

9... Get up and go do something fun... make tea... go read a book... curl up in bed with a fluffy blanket or a pet

When you are ready...

Rocket Fuel

10... Write a ROCKET FUEL speech.

It goes like this...

"I feel angry and upset and I feel concerned that we are not on the same page here.... I do not know how to make our relationship more affectionate and close... I do not think I can do it by myself... I am just a woman here and I like affection and attention it makes me feel good... it makes me feel turned on and when I do not get enough I feel cranky and angry is there something we can do that would help... is there something I need to know... are you mad at me... what do you think?"

Notice that I left space between each line... that is in case he should say something or ask a question... if you deliver a speech one line at a time and then breathe you will feel much better and now you are ready!

11... Deliver your speech.

Create your own version of this script if you like as short as you can make it... all with Feeling Messages without telling him anything about what HE IS doing or not doing without making him WRONG and avoiding the word you. 

If your man is very difficult and this kind of thing is happening a lot and you are feeling like he is not all that difficult it is just that he is getting distant and the attraction between you is fading in a really scary way?

Most of the time you do not even have to talk to a man about your relationship in the way you have all been taught to talk to a man... most of the time all it takes is ramping up his attraction for you which will automatically COMPEL him to be more affectionate and give you attention... he feels like he has to ramp up that attention and attraction otherwise he will lose you and he  will not want to lose you.

Let me know how ROCKET FUEL works for you... it is a great brave step to find your anger and share it with your man in a way that is not an attack or defensive... anger can be very sexy and a very healing thing when it is expressed in the right way.

Men are afraid that you cannot handle their anger so when your man experiences you feeling and expressing YOUR OWN anger he feels relieved  AND he feels LOVE for you... I have seen this work over and over again and I know it will work for you.

To learn how to be a Strong Feminine Woman and attract him more instead of trying to get him to step up and be an affectionate attentive man for you... just YOU alone!

You can Contact me to know more.

As always... leave a man or woman all the better for knowing you.

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Dynamic Lifer... The Tribe of Dynamic Lifers!

1... A person with a penchant for Science... creativity... books... writing... communication... fitness... women... sexing... sexuality... human relationships... psychology... physiology and any other area involving heavy use of the Intellect.

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Sexing Talk Dirty Talk Sexing Fantasy And Identity By Ange Fonce

August 4, 2017

Sexing Talk Dirty Talk Sexing Fantasy And Identity 

By Ange Fonce

Please Be Aware This Article Contains Content Of An Intimate Nature

Are you Alive in ALL your Passion?

Should you TALK during sexing?
If so what do you say?

And what about phone sexing?
Or just leaning in to your man or woman during a party and whispering something naughty in their ear that is guaranteed to get them to make apologies to the host and drag you home?
Here are a couple of questions I got from readers that got me thinkin...

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Gender Education and Sexual Awareness is about improving  "Intimate and loving relationships" as one very powerful way to cultivate "getting-each-other-ness"

I am committed to the possibility of men and women really "getting" each other... I do not go with the view that you need to hide any aspect of yourself... your truth and who you really are in the world. 

When you cultivate the courage to really BE yourself and say what you mean... to your friends... your family... your boss and your lover you become incredibly POWERFUL in your life. 

The secret sauce is being ready and willing to accept others regardless if they agree with your perspective on what is  right or wrong. 

I have seen over and over again that this is the master key to...

Great sexual relationships .... deep love... commitment and trust... general happiness and contentment with life and being the SUCCESS you want to be!

Because intimacy depends upon you sharing exactly who you are - which means sharing exactly how you feel no matter how ugly you think those feelings to be... it all starts with being Truthful and Authentic  as YOU.

It is beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind, the essence of you... someone who takes the time to undress and appreciate your conscience and make love with your thoughts... someone that wants to help you slowly take down the walls you have built up around your heart and let them inside to share "intimacy" with you and you alone. 

To love all your vulnerabilities in embracing you... that is "Intimate Communion". ~ Ange Fonce



In Intimate Communion

"Spirituality is a Divine Gift... Sexuality is a Divine Gift... They may together be called... Intimate Communion.

The Art of Loving maybe the ultimate gift... to connect the Mind... and Body... the absolute in non-denial." ~ Ange Fonce

People who regularly experience pleasure tend to be more happy... and are almost certainly a lot nicer to be around... sex is one of the healthiest... and most beautiful ways to experience pleasure.

A committed long-term relationship legitimises sex... and offers the needed safety... and security to help you open to the many delights of sexual pleasure.

Sacred sexuality practices such as Tantric and Taoist sex offer the further possibility of elevating your relationship to become a spiritual practice,.. thus reuniting sex and spirit.

In this way it is possible to set your self free by celebrating your body rather than denying it.


"Women are Highly Sexual creatures...  women crave really good SEX and for many women... really good sex is rare to find.

Sometimes they have it... and do not realize how rare it is until later... once a woman has experienced it with a Masculine Lover nothing else will do... she will always crave it... period. 

Woman make the investment to make Sex better and they are frustrated when their man is not willing to do the same... giving a woman an orgasm is not the "goal"... it is the very  minimum requirement... it is the BEGINNING!" ~ Ange Fonce


Do not think about getting sex... instead think about giving really GOOD Sex! 

There is certainly opportunity there... that is the correct intent and motivation  to bring out the decadent... primal... carnal... insatiable... hungry... ruthlessly... expressive... natural sexual being in you... that drive will do the rest!

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