Intimacy lives in the tension. 

It is the drive to get your own needs met and the drive to ensure your lovers needs get met... love both covers your lovers vulnerabilities and calls out their inadequacies... love accommodates and demands growth. 

The beauty of loving tension is that it has something powerful residing within it... energy. 

You do not get to choose when that energy will get released from the tension... you do get to choose whether it will be intelligent creative empowering energy or blind destructive destroying energy... it comes down to your personal intent... to rise and empower or to control and manipulate?

When two lovers stand right in the middle of their relational tensions and extend themselves to invest in their own highest best and the highest best of the other... a powerful astonishing energy is released...  it is named and known as INTIMACY! 

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Relationship Questions To Build Connection By Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

May 24, 2020

Relationship Questions To Build Connection
Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

Why are relationship questions so important?

Because... communication is the key to any successful relationship. From dinner conversation to pillow talk, these questions to ask are perfect for connecting with your significant other in a meaningful way.

Even the most head-over-heels-in-love couples sometimes run out of things to say. Do not worry — that is normal. After all, when you spend so much time together, it is easy for the conversation to run dry.

Use these questions for couples to ignite new discussions so you can keep your relationship fresh and exciting.
First here are some simple rules to follow...

1. Make Every Question Count

When it comes to relationship questions, quality is more important than quantity. The goal of asking these questions is to get meaningful answers that help you improve your relationship. Do not just ask one and move on. Dwell on the answers, and make it a point to hash things out until you are both on the same page.

2. Be Kind And Understanding

There may be times when you do not like the answers you get. If that happens, try not to let your emotions get the best of you. Instead, seek out solutions. If you are both committed to making the relationship work, communication is an absolute must — even when it is tough.

3. The Setting Matters

Some questions should be saved for special places. For example, you may not want to ask your partner how they feel about having kids while they are on their lunch break at work. If you are going to ask a big question, make sure you are in the right environment.

4. Timing Is Everything

Even more important than where you are is when you are. For instance, if you are in the car running late for an appointment, it is probably not the best time to start asking relationship questions. Pay attention to the intricate nuances of your relationship, and ask relationship questions at opportune times, when it feels right. Always make sure there is plenty of time for the resulting conversation to take place uninterrupted.

Relationship Questions

These are some of the best relationship questions because they cut to the chase. These are some of the important questions that you need to ask as the relationship progresses. Some are about the future, some help you get to know each other better, and some are for helping you to improve your relationship.

Some of these questions can be heavy-hitters. Make sure the mood and setting are right and do not ask too many in one sitting. Make sure you pay attention to the answers you get from these relationship questions and be ready to engage in in-depth discussions. When the lines of communication are open, you have the potential to strengthen your relationship.

1. What Are Some Annoying Habits Of Other Couples That Irritate You The Most?

This question is super useful because it indirectly asks what types of behavior they find annoying. So do not do those things.

2. What Kind Of A Parent Do You Think You Would Be?

Even if you have no plans to have kids, this question can tell you a lot about them.

3. If You Are Having A Bad Day, Would You Want Me To Leave You Alone Or Spend Time With You And Cheer You Up?

Next time they are having a bad day, remember their answer.

4. Would You Say That I Understand What You Are Feeling?

If not, ask them how you can improve that dynamic.

5. How Content Are You With The Amount Of Non-Sexual Affection In The Relationship?

It is important to check in with them from time to time to make sure they are happy.

6. The Two Of Us Are Hitting The Great Outdoors. What Would You Prefer To Spend The Day Doing?

Use their answer to plan your next outdoor adventure together.

7. If You Could Ask Me Anything And Have Me Answer Truthfully, What Would It Be?

Be prepared for some open, candid discussion. Do not ask this question unless you are ready to give honest answers.

Relationship Conversation Starter Questions

These conversation starters are perfect for sparking some dialogue. After all, sometimes words are going to escape you — sometimes at inopportune moments. Keep these relationship questions in the back of your mind so you can pull them out as needed. You never know when you might have a long car ride with nothing to say.

Here are 5 of the best relationship conversation starters:

1. How Would You Want To Spend A Special Day With Each Other?

Simple and sweet. This is your cue to plan a date.

2. Do You Think Celebrating Valentine’s Day Is Corny?

Even if he or she says yes, buy them a gift anyway. Better safe than sorry.

3. Do You Remember The First Thing We Said To One Another?

Reminiscing about old times is a great way to rekindle those early feelings from the 'getting to know you' stage of your relationship.

4. What Is The Best “Relationship Advice” Someone Has Ever Given You?

This question helps you to understand how he or she approaches the relationship. Take the advice to heart.

5. Are You Happy With The Amount Of Us-Time And Apart-Time We Have?

Happy couples are not always together 24/7. It is crucial that you strike a balance between not enough time together and too much. Use this question to find the sweet spot that works for both of you.

Get To Know You Relationship Questions

When you are in the early stages of a relationship, you are still getting to know each other on a more intimate level. These get to know you questions provide insight into your significant other’s personal life. They give you information that you probably would not find out unless you asked. Sometimes being direct is the best approach.

Use these questions to ask a potential partner as you get to know them sparingly. You do not want them to feel like they are being interrogated. Keep it light and easy, and work these relationship questions into a conversation when it feels natural.

!. Are You Friends With Any Of Your Exes?

If they are or not, you may want to be wary of moving forward, as there is probably a reason.

2. Would You Lie To Make Me Happy And Where Would You Draw The Line?

Honesty is the foundation of relationships. Is there such thing as a white lie, or are the ugly truths necessary?

3. What Was Your Favourite Part Of The Year?

This question helps you to understand what makes them happy. Create similar memories with them, yet do not be afraid to branch out too.

4. What Is A Relationship Deal-Breaker For You?

Knowing what turns them off makes it easy for you to avoid those things.

5. Are There Any Times You Feel Lonely, Left Out Or Like I Am Not Reachable Emotionally?

Sometimes working on yourself is essential to the longevity of a relationship.

Caring Questions To Ask Your Partner

These questions to ask your partner have two purposes. The obvious one is that they start important conversations about the relationship, helping both of you to improve your relationship dynamic. These questions encourage you to open up to each other. Honesty is the key to making them work.

The other reason why these questions to ask you're significant other is so great is because they show them that you care. Just the act of asking these types of questions prove to them that you are genuinely invested in the relationship and that you want to make it work. Watch their eyes light up when you ask the first one, and you will be hooked.

!. What Was The Best Moment In Our Relationship So Far?

Listen... how could you make it better?

2. What Are The Biggest Differences Between Us?

Do you complement each other or are you, two separate individuals?

3. What Is One Area In Your Life Where You Feel Like Something Is Missing?

Try to find out how you can help them fill that hole.

4. Do You Think I Can Be Both Your Best Friend And Your Lover?

If you want your relationship to last for the long haul, your significant other should also be your best friend.

Would You Rather, Relationship Questions For Couples

The ‘would you rather’ game is a timeless time-passer. These would you rather questions for couples take the classic concept a step further. By giving them two choices, you make the conversation focused and easily digestible.
The next logical followup to these questions is a simple “why?” 

Encourage your significant other to elaborate on their answers. You may be surprised by how many meaningful conversations can arise from a simple ‘would you rather’ question.

1. Would You Rather Stay In Or Go Out For A Date?

Their answer may change depending on their mood, so do not start staying in or going out every night.

2. Would You Rather Me Cook You Breakfast In Bed Or A Candlelit Dinner?

If you ask this question, you had better be ready to come through with that feast.

3. Would You Rather Travel Around The World Or Have A Family?

What are their priorities at this point?

4. Would You Rather Be Proposed To In Private Or In Front Of Family And Friends?

If you ask this question, you had better have a down payment on a ring.

5. Would You Rather Be Known For Your Intelligence Or Your Good Looks?

Let them know that this is a hypothetical question, of course, as they are already known for both. Remember there is an ego involved here.

Deep Relationship Questions To Ask

When you are ready to take your conversation to the next level, use these deep questions to ask. These are big, powerful questions, so proceed with caution. Make sure you are confident in your relationship, as some of these topics can be divisive. 

If you are going to use these deep questions to ask your partner, be prepared for heavy answers. Asking the question is the easy part. The resulting discussion is what takes effort. Be open, honest, and communicative, and you will find that these questions can strengthen the bonds of your relationship in incredible ways.

1. What Would You Define As Cheating?

You must know each other’s boundaries so you never cross them.

2. Would You Compromise Your Happiness For The Success Of The Relationship?

And if so, is the relationship truly successful?

3. Do You Think Past Relationship Secrets Should Always Be Kept Hidden?

When is too much information truly too much?

4. What Is The One Thing About Me You Would Like Me To Change?

Be prepared for harsh truths, yet also be willing to look for solutions.

5. Do You Think A Couple’s Finances Should Be Together Or Separate?

At some point, you are going to need to figure out the money dynamics in your relationship.

6. What Are Your Biggest Fears About Relationships?

Facing your fears head-on is the best way to conquer them.

7. What Lessons Have You Learned From Past Relationships?

Prior romantic experiences can provide valuable insight into current ones, yet do not dwell too much on the past.
Read through these questions to ask, and pick a few that speak to you and your relationship. Store them in your brain files so you can pull them out when the time is right. 

Pro tip: In a pinch, you can always duck to the bathroom and pull them up on your phone.

Now that you have plenty of questions for couples on deck, the next step is asking them. Bringing up relationship questions can be scary, yet it is worth it. Be bold and ready to communicate, and you will find that every conversation gets easier.

And if you want to work with me (Ange) and my partner (Dalija) to help you remove blocks that are holding you back from getting what you want in the areas in health, wealth, love, relationships, and life...

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Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving, Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Coach Ange
Qualified in Person-Centered Counselling, Personal Development, Accountability, Assessment, Strategy Coaching, and Psyco Sex Therapy and training in Advance Relationship Coaching.

Coach Dalija
Qualified in Accountability, Assessment, Strategy Coaching, and training in Advanced Relationship Coaching and completing her ICF accreditation.

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Female Orgasm: 3 Essential Sexing Tips You must KNOW as a Man. By Ange Fonce

June 26, 2019

Female Orgasm: 3 Essential Sexing Tips You Must KNOW As A Man 

By Ange Fonce

There are three simple steps you can take that will give virtually ANY woman to have a powerful orgasm... no matter what else you are doing or not doing in the bedroom. 

I have been working to boil down it down to put in an article, the most critical aspects of "how to give a woman an orgasm."

I am talking about the ESSENTIALS... the most important factors that are underneath ALL of the best techniques. Not just the met...

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I am committed to the possibility of men and women really "getting" each other... I do not go with the view that you need to hide any aspect of yourself... your truth and who you really are in the world. 

When you cultivate the courage to really BE yourself and say what you mean... to your friends... your family... your boss and your lover you become incredibly POWERFUL in your life. 

The secret sauce is being ready and willing to accept others regardless if they agree with your perspective on what is  right or wrong. 

I have seen over and over again that this is the master key to...

Great sexual relationships .... deep love... commitment and trust... general happiness and contentment with life and being the SUCCESS you want to be!

Because intimacy depends upon you sharing exactly who you are - which means sharing exactly how you feel no matter how ugly you think those feelings to be... it all starts with being Truthful and Authentic  as YOU.

It is beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind, the essence of you... someone who takes the time to undress and appreciate your conscience and make love with your thoughts... someone that wants to help you slowly take down the walls you have built up around your heart and let them inside to share "intimacy" with you and you alone. 

To love all your vulnerabilities in embracing you... that is "Intimate Communion". ~ Ange Fonce



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"Spirituality is a Divine Gift... Sexuality is a Divine Gift... They may together be called... Intimate Communion.

The Art of Loving maybe the ultimate gift... to connect the Mind... and Body... the absolute in non-denial." ~ Ange Fonce

People who regularly experience pleasure tend to be more happy... and are almost certainly a lot nicer to be around... sex is one of the healthiest... and most beautiful ways to experience pleasure.

A committed long-term relationship legitimises sex... and offers the needed safety... and security to help you open to the many delights of sexual pleasure.

Sacred sexuality practices such as Tantric and Taoist sex offer the further possibility of elevating your relationship to become a spiritual practice,.. thus reuniting sex and spirit.

In this way it is possible to set your self free by celebrating your body rather than denying it.


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Sometimes they have it... and do not realize how rare it is until later... once a woman has experienced it with a Masculine Lover nothing else will do... she will always crave it... period. 

Woman make the investment to make Sex better and they are frustrated when their man is not willing to do the same... giving a woman an orgasm is not the "goal"... it is the very  minimum requirement... it is the BEGINNING!" ~ Ange Fonce


Do not think about getting sex... instead think about giving really GOOD Sex! 

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