Almost every man I know has dealt with this one... some time in their sex life... and for simplicity sake... I will share with you in the context of a male... female situation... and these methods apply to same sex lovers.

You are with a new woman... especially if it is the first time with her... and you get so powerfully turned on... and filled with nervous sexual energy that the second you put it inside of her pussy...you can hardly stop yourself from cuming.

And it is pretty common for a lot of men that... "hardly stop"... is not the issue... they cannot stop it at all... they come within seconds of starting... or even BEFORE they can start! 

Or how about this one... being able to have intercourse SLOWLY for a short time... and every time you start to speed up... she also starts getting more excited... and you have to STOP again to keep from losing it... because if you do not... you will be squirting all over the place... that is if you got that far?

Oh dear... it is like you have died inside... not only in her... it is the killer to your confidence... and self esteem inside of you that dies... along with your erection.

She gets more... and more frustrated... and because you are under even MORE pressure... it gets even WORSE... so in the end... you constantly end up coming before she manages to get off... I have wrestled with this one myself on past occasions... I am so glad I never have to deal with it any more... is it possible that we like sex... TOO MUCH... that it just feels TOO GOOD?

It is also very common for men who have never had the problem in the past to have it happen just once... and then suddenly it starts happening more... and more often... and they cannot figure out why suddenly the have a problem lasting when they never had a problem in the past... what is going on here?

I can remember plenty of times from the past when I was nervous about it... and then the anxiety made it difficult to get it up in the first place... let me just say these were not my best performances in the bedroom... even when it only happens to you occasionally... it is still EMBARRASSING!

Fortunately there are some powerful... and effective tools that I will share with you that will help you deal with this kind of thing so that like me... you will never have to worry about such issues in future.
And it is a good thing too... because there are few things that are worse for your ability to attract... and keep a relationship with a high quality woman than not being able to control your orgasm... not only does it keep her from enjoying sex with you... it frustrates the hell out of her... and even worse than that... it makes her question your masculinity.... it makes her think that maybe you are weak... and at least subconsciously... she will be looking around for some other man who can satisfy her properly.

I know that sounds harsh... now if you put yourself in her position for a moment... and imagine what it is like to be stuck in a relationship with someone who cannot get you off... I mean is not that person better off as... "just friends"... other than as your lover?

Women can be understanding... they understand that sometimes it... "just happens"... and I am sure that MOST women will give you a second... third... or even fourth chance... yet if it keeps happening... the odds are you are going have to find yourself making..."other arrangements"... for next Saturday.

Now... before I go into the detail of how you are going to prevent this situation in the future.. I am going to give you something EVEN MORE VALUABLE... something that... if you ever DO have a problem with premature ejaculation... and sometimes it sneaks up on the best of us... will make it completely COOL with the woman that you are with... and it is very simple... and power piece of psychology... BLAME HER... and she will love you for it.

Because there are two ways that a woman can look at the situation when a man she is with... cums in 5 seconds... the first thing she can think is... 

"Wow... this guy is really lame... is he a virgin... or something... I need to find myself a REAL man who can do me properly."

Or... she can think to herself... 

"Wow... I am so incredibly hot... and I drove this guy so completely mad with lust... that he totally lost control... Cool!"

Which one do you think... she will think?

Well... the reality is that MOST women will definitely think the first one... that you are just lame... and that is because most women...just like most men... are generally insecure about THEMSELVES... and the second idea... that she is just too hot... probably would not even occur to her... unless of course... YOU GIVE her that idea.

See... if you come too quickly... and then tell a woman... 

"Oh... sorry... that happens all the time." 

She is just going to think about how she can get out of this situation as fast as possible... not unless you have struck gold... and she happens to be a female... "Sex Therapist"... and she will more and likely help you with your problem... the thing is... HOW many female... "Sex Therapists"... do you KNOW?

Fortunately you have a Coach and Sex Therapist in me... and NO I will not go to bed with you!

Now if you say to her... 

"Damn woman... THAT has never happened to me before... you are HOT darling... I never thought a woman could do that to me!" 

Then she will not only think you are NOT lame... she will actually remember that 5 seconds of sex as really... really fun... and exciting... and yes... this seriously works... only thing is... you better do better next time... this is a "get out of jail" card only... and buys you time... this piece of... "Psychological Persuasion"... will wear thin very quickly... and then what?

Because the good news is that for most men the... "second round rally"... is much easier to control... unfortunately for some men... even the second time around... they still have problems controlling their ejaculation.... and for other men... the time that they need to get hard again is just too long... which is why your most excellent Coach Ange is now going to share some absolutely great tips for getting rid of the problem in the first place...

Now... look... there are quite a few different ways of handling this situation... and for some men one might work much better than the others... I am going to share two techniques that are super easy to learn so that you can try them out immediately...

RELAX YOUR LEGS TO RELAX YOUR EJACULATION

This one is brain-dead easy... and many men find it really helps them a lot... as you get more... and more sexually excited during sex... you will probably notice that you are tightening... and flexing the muscles in your thighs... and buttocks... this is an involuntary action... and you will notice that you do the same thing when you are about to ejaculate... this happens during masturbation as well.

When you consciously learn to relax these muscles... you should feel an IMMEDIATE reduction in your need to ejaculate... it cannot get easier than that!

SMILE AND LAUGH

Here is a technique that most men that I have explained it to... have had really excellent and IMMEDIATE results with... one of the reasons that this particular technique works so well is that it attacks the problem from two directions at once.

1. It controls your nervous sexual energy.

2. It... "tricks"... your brain with... "somatic feedback."

Sexual nervousness is THE major cause of coming too soon... for most men... and not being able to control their ejaculation does not happen when they are alone masturbating... it happens when the... "pressure to perform"... is on... n other words... when you have too much nervous sexual energy... by using this technique... you will find that you have a LOT more control... so what do I mean by tricking the brain?

Well... there is a well documented effect that if you do something particular with your body when you experience a particular emotion... like... say... smiling when you are happy... then you can trick the system into working in reverse by doing the specific thing with your body first... smiling... in order to trigger the emotion... happiness... by changing the state of your physiology... you alter the state of your psychology... in other words... if you paste a smile on your face you can trick your brain into experiencing the emotion of "happy."

This is not my theory... it is documented...and proven psychological science... so when you are feeling very highly sexually aroused... or when you are feeling anxiety... your face is doing some other stuff that is usually NOT smiling... the trick here is smiling at your partner without it being either clownish on the one hand... or creepy on the other... I probably do not need to write this... it would be best to avoid the creepy smile.

Instead try smiling at her with genuine affection... smile in a way that shows her you think she is beautiful... and you are giving her approval... or try smiling with that mischievous look that says...

"I am about to take your body to places it has never been before... and F69K your brains out!"

Or smile at her in a way that lets her know that you are in on special secret together... in other words... there are a lot meanings that can be conveyed by a smile... and we humans are very good at reading the difference... Jack Nicholson made the smile that means... "I'm about to stab you to death"... famous... best not use that one at all.

Turns out that your internal systems know the difference too... and when you smile in a way that indicates sexual confidence... it will completely rewire your body responses... add a knowing laugh as you play her pleasure zones with expertise... and you just might find that any problems with lasting longer vanish INSTANTLY.

Try it for yourself and see... it is way more powerful than any of the other more common techniques being taught out there... once you can stop worrying about lasting long enough... you will be amazed at how much the boost in confidence changes other aspects of both your love making... and your relationship.

When you have a problem and you would like to work with me... I go through ALL of the very best strategies... methods...and advice to COMPLETELY master the problem... including common ones like... "Kegel Compressions"... other methods of somatic distraction... as well as Tantra methods that will help you master your ejaculation... in fact you can become such a Master of your ejaculation through this step-by-step process that you ultimately develop the ability to have... "nonejaculatory orgasms"... so that you can orgasm... again... and again without losing your erection... and squirt when you want to squirt.

If you want a whole lot of other great techniques to take things to the next level... more than the tips I give you in this article... use the "Contact Ange Fonce" page to arrange a consultation session with me... and we can go from there.

As always... leave a man or woman all the better for knowing you.

Average men and women know only the rules.

Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!

They are truly Passionate and DYNAMIC Lovers!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce

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